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  • sophiasmum
    sophiasmum Posts: 761 Forumite
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    oh plmbl - I can assure you I will be watching x factor too!
    TTC39 - I think its very good you are not going to drink tonight, I tend to get a bit emotional and have ended up confiding in someone (when I would honestly prefer not to!) .
    - Saying that, I am going to enjoy a pear cider watching x factor tonight.
    Hope everyone is doing ok x
  • rosie_78
    rosie_78 Posts: 261 Forumite
    I'm close to crying here. Been trying to reply for an hour but stupid wifi keeps dropping. Phoned Sky and when they asked how they could help, I asked if they could provide me with the internet that they receive a fair amount of money from me for, and could they arrange for it last more than a 90 seconds at a time??

    Work was horrific today. Ending up bursting into tears and only just managed to avoid the Bride who was coming to thank me.

    Came home to bf's mess everywhere and him gaming as usual online with friends.

    I want Wednesday to hurry up :( I would of been 10 weeks yesterday. It would be *slightly* easier if my symptoms were easing I think. I know it's a mmc but I thought the symptoms would fade by now a little?

    I hope you're all well. TTC39, I hope you're ok? xxxxx

    Did anyone catch X Factor?
  • Sorry you are struggling Rosie, but really well done on getting through work. It sounds like you need serious words with bf though!!

    Yes I watched the xfactor. Some fabulous ones and some nightmares! I always wonder why friends of the bad ones don't stop them from going on?!
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  • ttc39
    ttc39 Posts: 691 Forumite
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    Hi all,

    Rosie hope today at work was a little easier for you Hun? And that oh had it tidy for you xx

    PLMBL - I love X factor , I can't understand how the mates of the bad ones manage to keep a straight face lol

    Sophiasmum - everyone seems to be into drinking cider lately - it's so much more popular now than years ago xx

    MV- it's posters like you that give us hope - huge congrats on latest arrival xx

    Samtoby- hope u are ok and had a good time last night.

    Afm, well I managed 2 hrs last night. Glad I went but was hard considering one of the girls was 20 weeks and one due in 4 weeks!! But I survived!

    Been out and got a new to us car today. We needed to change if we had a baby so as we are going to try again I felt we may as well still go ahead with car change, so feel positive change.

    Am also going docs Tom, so will redo preg test in am and mention to her no more clots since scan. But bleeding all stopped :-)

    Ladies I had diarrhea all the way in pregnancy - would this have caused problems?? Cluchingatstraws.com xxx
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  • lilymay1
    lilymay1 Posts: 1,597 Forumite
    ttc39 wrote: »
    Ladies I had diarrhea all the way in pregnancy - would this have caused problems?? Cluchingatstraws.com xxx

    No, and don't ever try to blame yourself. Miscarriages are virtually always due to fetal abnormalities or a issue with the mothers body. It's only really stillbirths that can sometimes be related to the mothers behaviour - smoking, drinking etc. Having the runs wouldn't have caused your loss. Big hugs

    Just read back at the previous page - great post Abis.
    14th October 2010
    20th October 2011
    3rd December 2013
  • Ttc, digestive problems either way are very normal in pregnancy due to a hormone that I believe is called relaxin or something like that. I'm sure it wouldn't have caused anything negative unless perhaps it was as a result of something like salmonella food poisoning etc.

    Glad you got out last night though.

    Been feeling quite down today :( Xx
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  • ttc39
    ttc39 Posts: 691 Forumite
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    Ttc, digestive problems either way are very normal in pregnancy due to a hormone that I believe is called relaxin or something like that. I'm sure it wouldn't have caused anything negative unless perhaps it was as a result of something like salmonella food poisoning etc.

    Glad you got out last night though.

    Been feeling quite down today :( Xx

    Hiya Hun
    Sorry to read you not had a good day today :-(

    Have you gone out at all or just stayed home? I found I was down yesterday am when I stayed in and you then if like me, have more time to dwell on things :-(.

    Big hugs to you xxx
    Joined SW on 1.5.14 - Weight 11 stone 11 :eek:
    :A- 8/13 :A - 4/14
  • I felt particularly down this morning but had to pull myself together for an extended family get together this afternoon. It did help having something to do, but when people asked how I was I kept saying I was ok when really I wanted to cry. I didn't want to ruin the get together though I'm sure they would have been sympathetic.

    That's the benefits of the threads/my diary on here. You can say how you really feel and there is always someone to listen :A.
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    Best win so far - holiday to Florida
  • ttc39
    ttc39 Posts: 691 Forumite
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    I felt particularly down this morning but had to pull myself together for an extended family get together this afternoon. It did help having something to do, but when people asked how I was I kept saying I was ok when really I wanted to cry. I didn't want to ruin the get together though I'm sure they would have been sympathetic.

    That's the benefits of the threads/my diary on here. You can say how you really feel and there is always someone to listen :A.

    Yeah I know what you mean , it's hard being around people when u feel like that.

    Do you have anything planned for Tom? I've got the docs then a mate over , told her to bring her dog so we can go for a walk. ( a diff mate n dog to last week lol) xx
    Joined SW on 1.5.14 - Weight 11 stone 11 :eek:
    :A- 8/13 :A - 4/14
  • It's the last day of the holidays before DS1 goes back to school on Tues (DS2 goes on Wed), so hoping to do something fun. The boys and DH are getting their haircuts at 5pm and then early nights all round.

    Hope you have a lovely day tomorrow and the appt at docs goes well Xx
    Debts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
    Best win so far - holiday to Florida
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