Miscarriage support

Metranil_Vavin

How are you doing Quaver? x

tinkwings

DH & I are not getting on at the moment I am so angry I can't talk to him x

sarah_b_2

Metranil_Vavin wrote: »

Aww Sarah..so sorry to hear about your loss. Welcome anyway..this thread is very supportive

Also sorry to hear about your breakdown. I think until you have been through a MC it doesn't occur how badly it can affect you x

definetley! i never saw having a miscarriage would seriously do that to someone, never mind me. but i feel stronger as a person now and hopefully something will happen this year!

portsmouthali

Hi everyone, and welcome to Sarah & AJ. Let us know how the scan goes next week AJ, it's so horrible when you've seen the black screen before and you're willing a little something to be flashing away there.

Sarah, I can completely understand how you ended up having a breakdown, it's such a horrible shock when it happens. Glad you're feeling more positive now.

Tinks, hope you've kissed and made up with your dh. You need each other now more than ever xxxx

Quaver, my OH isn't one for talking about it, he doesn't deal with tears very well so we don't speak about it much. He shed a tear both times at the hospital though, so I know he's not a complete robot

I was thinking about what I'm going to put in the garden for the spring, and I thought about planting a couple of things for my babies. Mentioned it to my OH and I think he thought I was mental :rotfl:he didn't say so, he just said "If it'll help you, then go for it..." What do you guys think? Am I being morbid?

stef240377

Ali you can buy plants from online sites with special names, i received one for my wedding named special memories its a white rose and they come ready to plant, could you get something along those lines? To anyone else they will be beautiful flowers but to you each time they grow and open into bloom they will mean so much more and have those memories tied into them?

https://www.giftaplant.com/shop/loving_memory

tinkwings

Having a bad day. DH & I still not sorted I am so angry at the moment.

ladylegs

Tink <hugs> Is it because you are grieving in different ways? Give it time and lots of talking. Sorry I'm not much help but didn't want to read and ignore you at a bad time x

tinkwings

ladylegs wrote: »

Tink <hugs> Is it because you are grieving in different ways? Give it time and lots of talking. Sorry I'm not much help but didn't want to read and ignore you at a bad time x

Thanks just really hard when all I want is to have my bean back inside.

Waiting to try again waiting for CD1 again I want to try NOW...:mad:

tinkwings

Ali I think the Garden idea is really nice. Making a good memory x

rik1978

Hi everyone,
Ali, when we lost our first in April we planted a bush rose in a large pot in memory of our LO. We got it from David Austen (sp??) Roses which have loads of different colours and many different names, we chose a yellow rose with hints of pink in the petals but we chose one that could be planted in a large pot so that if we ever moved house it could come with us. when it flowered last year it made me smile everytime thinking my LO was looking in on us and my hubby used to cut the best flowers from it and place by my side of the bed in a little water.
I would definately recommend planting something in memory of your LO.

take care xx