MSE Parents Club Part 10

MadDogWoman_2

SM - I have an image of you sat on your sofa bouncing up and down like a high speed Tigger!

Buttonmoons

Just watching a programme about Scotlands cocaine problem on TV. Aberdeen is the worst for coke (all the drug dealers from wolverhampton, manchester and glasgow come here!)

Showed a nice cocaine bust by the cops in the building next to mine.


OKAY HOUSING MAN WHO THE HELL WOULD EXCHANGE WITH ME NOW!!!

You know I went into town with a mum from Keira's nursery, and she was doing cocaine :eek: and her friends bf was there and he is a drug dealer apparently :eek: (Im honestly not rough as bits, I had no idea she was either!!) They all decided to go back to her house for a party, I declined and met up with my normal drug free friends.

Then on Saturday me and OH took Keira to the ice cream parlour and she got on the bus with her friend, OUT HER FACE, hadn't even been to bed and was away back into town for booze. Her and her bf broke up, so I understand she is upset, but jezzus!

searching_me

MadDogWoman wrote: »

SM - I have an image of you sat on your sofa bouncing up and down like a high speed Tigger!

Ha Ha!!! you're not far from it .. its been a while since im been this happy im enjoying it while it last x

3onitsway

searching_me wrote: »

right signing off again love you all .. sorry in a great mood and wish i could share it with you all :dance: x

Please share. I'm thinking you either won the euromillions Friday night, or you've had too many blue smarties today!

My_Fathers_Daughter wrote: »

One of my RL mummy friends gave up when her daughter was about 15 months or so and she said that she doesn't think her daughter (now 21 months) remembers that she was ever BF. And that made me feel really sad *shrugs shoulders*

L was only fed for two weeks before problems put a stop to it, but she thinks it's the most vile, disgusting thing in the world ever that she fed from my boobies. :rotfl::rotfl:

As you know, I started to drop a feed in September to prepare to be totally finished for going back to work. We ended up with just morning and night feeds but by the end of October, V had totally lost interest. It was kind of good how easy it was to give up , but also very sad that she didn't need me any more.

searching_me

:rotfl: 3 .. its too much chocolate when i havent had any in a while .. too much sugar LOL! .. dont know why but i am .. im just happy ... im waiting for something to crash it but enjoying it while it last x

weezl74

Morning all.

Thinking of going to Drs for some kind of sedative/sleeper that's safe-ish in PG.

Just feel that Fergus is not having the best experience of his mummy at the moment.

Thanks to all for the hugs after my very tearful post of yesterday morning.

I came back 10 mins later to delete it but I'd been quoted so I couldn't. Pesky (not really, very kind actually!) hammyhunter!

I think the big thing for me was this perception that I now have that I am somehow not cut out for the real (often cut-throat) world of work. And so I was feeling like quite a failure.

Have managed to turn this around a bit now and am more thinking that I'm going to try to think of ways to help Fergie and Kester to have the idealism and optimism about life that DH and I have, but to make sure that they also learn good ways of dealing with it when life is not like that.

I may have to fight my own projections to do this, but I'm committed to give it a go.

Example: At the friday mum and baby group (my favourite ) fergie is the youngest boy. He is very enchanted by the 3 older boys, and one in particular he looks at with real joy.

They are much more mobile than him. Anyway, last fri, they were playing with some cars, and fergie made his bumshuffle way all the way over to be with them, and took his own very cute little initiatives with them. He did his lean forwards to touch foreheads thing with his favourite boy. I know myself that this is his very most I love you signal. I only get this when I have been away at work.

Anyway, this (heartbreaker) older boy (all of 2 he is!) ignores the forehead gesture and runs up and away to the other side of the room with the cars.

Fergie's little disappointed face! Aaaaaargh! Can mummy agony be really felt over so little? (yep!)

So I had a choice: Very tempted to pick fergie up, cover the distance in 4 easy steps, engage the other boy in a game with me and fergie and therefore create a situation where Tom might stay near fergie for longer. Or to strike up an immediate conversation with Tom's mum...

Instead, held onto my own reaction and watched what fergie would do.

A moment's slightly crestfallenness, gave way to embarking on another long bottom shuffle over to where Tom now sat Lovely brave fergie

Stupid story really. But I think it's not really in the big decision stuff that most of our real parenting takes place is it, it's in these silly little stories and encounters, done multiple times daily that builds the whole lifetime of parentyness.

health-wise: I'm not liking the abdominal injections mostly because of the bruising and the fact that they trigger quite strong Braxton Hicks which makes getting back to the car park pretty slow and uncomfortable.

Everyone else on my ward is super-ill though, so mine is just silly small fry!

Today I have an ultrasound to rule out clotting (hopefully)!

emlou2009 wrote: »

Not posting cos I'm reading weezl's epic recipe thread, and refreshing this page while I wait for the next one of that one to load :rotfl:

oh Em! It's huge don't start you'll never get out alive:eek::rotfl: hello and hugs by the way (almost) due date buddy

Edit: Just realised that makes it sound like Em is 34 weeks PG!!!!! NB- I MEANT FERGIE AND SETH!!!!

wi3adora

Oh Weezl it's not even 7am and you've already got me welling up:o I hope the ultrasound today gives good results, I shall be thinking of you and will try to check in periodically whilst at work.

Becles

Hope the ultrasound goes well Weezl xx

searching_me

weezl hope the ultra sound goes well xxxxxx

Glamazon

Weezl - hope your scan goes OK. Will be thinking of you.

Not sure if you read back but are you having Clexane injections or is it something else?

Fairies will be flying today