Trying for a Baby part 5....

gratefulforhelp_2

tigtag02 wrote: »

Q for the girls who have had their mirena's out - how long did you bleed for afterwards?

fourteen days :eek:

tigtag02

gratefulforhelp wrote: »

fourteen days :eek:

:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:

gratefulforhelp_2

I don't think thats normal, in fact GP didn't think there would be any bleeding.

tigtag02

gratefulforhelp wrote: »

I don't think thats normal, in fact GP didn't think there would be any bleeding.

Can I ask a TMI question?

When it was removed on Tuesday I bled a lot (I dont recall bleeding much when my last one was removed to be changed) and it was fresh red blood.

Wednesday I didnt bleed at all.

Yesterday I started bleeding again and this time its more brown old AF type blood.

Could it be AF - do I start to count?

I didnt bleed at all with the mirena but did get sore boobs once a month which I put down to AF symptoms - based on that I guestimated my cycle which would make today CD21.

Help me - I'm keffudled - :rotfl:

becs

Right last time I left this thread for MY reasons as stated in my earlier post but continued to lurk. This time I am leaving because of recent posts.I'm sorry but I have to spell this out because I am absoloutely incensed by this!

"Change is inevitable and if it is difficult to accept on a thread within a forum, then I expect adapting to parenthood will have you dumbfounded and weeping in a corner."

How dare you make statements like this! This is extremly offensive and VERY uncalled for!

"unfortunately this sort of malaise rears its ugly head intermittently on here"

I fail to see how valid opinions from ALL members can be classed as malice, I don't recall seeing any thing other than remarks about the tone of the thread.

"majority of forum members are very accepting to new folk or at least have the courtesy to back off when the thread does appear to be’ taken over’ by newbies"

I'll take that as my cue to back off and leave you all to it. This thread has been very helpful, entertaining, supportive and enlightening for 2 and a half years but with posts like this I really don't want to be a part of this.

sexki11en

becs wrote: »

Right last time I left this thread for MY reasons as stated in my earlier post but continued to lurk. This time I am leaving because of recent posts.I'm sorry but I have to spell this out because I am absoloutely incensed by this!

"Change is inevitable and if it is difficult to accept on a thread within a forum, then I expect adapting to parenthood will have you dumbfounded and weeping in a corner."

How dare you make statements like this! This is extremly offensive and VERY uncalled for!

"unfortunately this sort of malaise rears its ugly head intermittently on here"

I fail to see how valid opinions from ALL members can be classed as malice, I don't recall seeing any thing other than remarks about the tone of the thread.

"majority of forum members are very accepting to new folk or at least have the courtesy to back off when the thread does appear to be’ taken over’ by newbies"

I'll take that as my cue to back off and leave you all to it. This thread has been very helpful, entertaining, supportive and enlightening for 2 and a half years but with posts like this I really don't want to be a part of this.

I agree with you Becs, but particularly the bit i've bolded.

Who wrote that? Who the hell do you think you are saying oldies should have the courtesy to back off when the newbies take over the thread? Who are you to come in here and after 5 minutes think you a) have the right to take over and b) expect us all to fall out of your way so you can do it. Your parents have bought you up very wrong - Jumped up little princess. Too full of your own importance with that statement.

Tell you what? You all go for it, all you newbies. You'll soon be missing us when you're all asking a question and no one has a flucking clue cos you're all new to this.

You might have taken offence as newbies at some of the comments that have been made recently, but most of you joined this thread to gain the experience and/or advice of the people who have been doing this a whole lot longer than you.

That comment in bold has taken the biscuit and I don't know who said it but you should be bloody ashamed of yourself.

The other newbies will thank you no doubt, now that there'll be no one around to answer your innane questions. This used to be a really supportive thread for newbies and oldies alike but has gone downhill fast lately.

Happy SS'ing

SK x

PS - and that was a flounce!

smartie12

:eek::eek::eek:

How rude to say that ladies should have the courtesy to back off when the thread does appear to be’ taken over’ by newbies"

Why?? Some ladies have been trying for a long time and have had some great support from here... and they still need that regardless. I know in my last month or so I wouldn't of got through it without the support from oldies and newbies alike:T

And as for the "Change is inevitable and if it is difficult to accept on a thread within a forum, then I expect adapting to parenthood will have you dumbfounded and weeping in a corner" What an upsetting thing to say to a bunch of ladies who are desperate to experience parenthood!!

Peace, love and babydust... and blimin well be nice to each other!!;)

ladylegs

becs wrote: »

How dare you make statements like this! This is extremly offensive and VERY uncalled for!

How DARE i? Because I believe in freedom of speech but obviously this is frwned upon and I certainly won't be staying around to get this kind of abuse.

sexki11en wrote: »

I agree with you Becs, but particularly the bit i've bolded.

Who wrote that? Who the hell do you think you are saying oldies should have the courtesy to back off when the newbies take over the thread? Who are you to come in here and after 5 minutes think you a) have the right to take over and b) expect us all to fall out of your way so you can do it. Your parents have bought you up very wrong - Jumped up little princess. Too full of your own importance with that statement.

Tell you what? You all go for it, all you newbies. You'll soon be missing us when you're all asking a question and no one has a flucking clue cos you're all new to this.

You might have taken offence as newbies at some of the comments that have been made recently, but most of you joined this thread to gain the experience and/or advice of the people who have been doing this a whole lot longer than you.

That comment in bold has taken the biscuit and I don't know who said it but you should be bloody ashamed of yourself.

The other newbies will thank you no doubt, now that there'll be no one around to answer your innane questions. This used to be a really supportive thread for newbies and oldies alike but has gone downhill fast lately.

Happy SS'ing

SK x

PS - and that was a flounce!

What is wrong with you? Why such venom towards new members.
I don't get it at all. I'm not going to highlight bits of your post or justify my existence to you or your gang. I am happy with who I am and will be going back to the real world where people treat each other much much better.
It's a shame as I was rather at home here and I guess that was the problem. Some people just don't fit in and I guess I'm one of them.

Best of luck to all of you and I'm sorry for spoiling things. It's obviously touched a nerve but blimey, I'm not a war criminal and I think the witch hunt is a little severe.


I will miss a lot of you and I hope you get your bfps but I won't be lurking for a bit as I don't want to read any more of this guff. In fact, I've decided to terminate my account as I want to keep hold of my PMA xxx

Toodlepip x

sexki11en

ladylegs wrote: »

How DARE i? Because I believe in freedom of speech but obviously this is frwned upon and I certainly won't be staying around to get this kind of abuse.



What is wrong with you? Why such venom towards new members.
I don't get it at all. I'm not going to highlight bits of your post or justify my existence to you or your gang. I am happy with who I am and will be going back to the real world where people treat each other much much better.
It's a shame as I was rather at home here and I guess that was the problem. Some people just don't fit in and I guess I'm one of them.

Best of luck to all of you and I'm sorry for spoiling things. I will miss a lot of you and I hope you get your bfps. xxx

What is wrong with me is "people" waltzing in here and thinking "me and my gang" as you so nicely put it, should have the courtesy step back and let you take over! Of course comments like that are going to rile people. Paticularly hormonal people, who after 6 months+ of trying for something they so desperately want and don't see that it's going to happen any time soon, who when they read comments like that, feel they're not welcome anymore in the one place they felt safe and supported. We too felt at home here until the comment you made but you seem to think that was OK, and didn't expect any backlash from it.

That's what's wrong with me!

SK x

kindofagilr

twinklie wrote: »

Awww...I didn't know you still popped by Becs. It's quite comforting to know that people keep checking up on us. I've been stalking Kindof and EA lately. It's nearly 3 weeks until their due dates!!! So freaky. I can't believe it's gone so quick.

Waves I like to stalk this thread also sometimes xxx

I see the thread is a bit tense at the moment, this seems to happen a lot!