Trying for a Baby part 5....

lolly1981

i love those programs....i was even worse when actually PG i watch the baby bitrth programs constantly even my then 4 yr od watched with me...my labour with him was quick...i wanted to prepare him incase ds2 was a quick one and i didnt have the chance to get hosp.

its worse if you need to cough or sneeze lol...hence not using your own pillow lol...i do that too...occasionly i will fall asleep like that lol tthen think yippee that might have helped
i have to admit tho i am pretty fortunate...even tho we've been together 2 1/2 yers ( iknow thats not long really ) but we still want to DTD which i guess can put to the backl burnere when life takes over...so i dont worry that its not the doing it enough thats the problem..if that makes sense
i watched that program one born every minute on 4 on demand today,....made me want to be PG even more..and trutrhfully im a terrible PG person..very hormonal and get alot of pains lol.

phunkles

Oh i am a !!!! flouncer!!
ok i lurked and now i feel i have to post cause -
a, I liked all the advice everyone gave me as I am the first to admit I am totally clueless with this and have NO ONE in rt to turn to about it all!
b, I decided to step back cause I felt like an imposter - mainly cause everyone seemed to be more hardcore ttc than we'll be doing for a while - I think Twinklie summed it up nicely but my pondering today lead me to this - I joined here because in my world and my life me and my oh not trying to prevent pregnancy even though we have the smallest of chances of ever getting pregnant meant so much to me that I wanted to have somewhere to post and pour out my ramblings without putting it ALL on him.... somehow i dont think hed of wanted to have my cd count every day and my ponderings of ov times if you miss one months af (although he was aware of vague dates and stuff sometimes theres slightly tmi for him!)
c, I can hand on heart say I was welcomed warmly here..... my reasoning for leaving was the above and also because I dont think I contribute to anything - im as clueless as they come - the only thing i can say in support is dont poas too early and thats just poop *my other snippet of information I have gained is use someone elses pillow or have a weird cuddle that me and the oh have perfected but yet i cant explain lol*
me flouncing and then lurking and posting is coz i dont like some stuff that was posted today - this is an internet forum yes but the people who are typing are real human beings with thoughts and feelings and connections to people/dates/things we are no inanimate objects so manners and courtesy are nice
my pm box is always open x
i may lurk here still if thats ok and people dont mind me being an imposter x

QQuaver

nunnygirl wrote: »

I don't like the new "waiting room"

I hate to be the bearer of bad news but (and please virtually slap me if you think I am out of order) tlp do not always turn into BFP, we've had someone posting on the thread get a tlp before and it not turn into a BFP

Noted - sorry:o

I have had tlp turn to AF, so I understand. Also, I realise being over optimistic over someone's ssing is not good when AF turns up later.

I'm really bad at testing early too:o
I'll hold off for few days.

I've been in between places until just now, not online. Sorry I missed all the important chat - hope you didn't think I left or anything:o It was bad timing, but I left right after my last post, so just read what's been going on.

Just skim read few pages, will read in depth asap.

Will turn over the reins of this list back to Confuzzled:cool:

Testing List
Fri 29th Jan - ToriaTerrier aka TT ???????
Mon 1st Feb - Michelle
Sat 6th Feb - OliviasMummy aka OM
Sun 7th Feb - Rik
[STRIKE]Wed 10th Feb - Hibbi[/STRIKE]
Sat 13th Feb – Gravesendgirl aka GEG, Bitzer
[strike]Mon 15th Feb - Slm[/strike]
Mon 15th Feb - GFH
Tues 16th Feb - Bigbird
Fri 19th Feb - SSL, TigTag
Sat 20th Feb - Primmer
Sun 21st Feb - Jenny
[strike]Mon 22nd Feb - Dusty[/strike]
Wed 24th Feb - SK
Thu 25th Feb - Ladylegs
Mon 1st March - Sammy
Wed 10th March - TAN
Mon 12th Never - Lemon Tree:rotfl:


:jGraduates:j
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Rik
MoneySaver
Mrsmc
RedRose
Rach

QQuaver

Lauralou wrote: »

Stef, my AF arrived yesterday (:j)

Congratulations!:j:j

jacobsmum wrote: »

hi ladies i know i havent been on for ages but been hard to focus on anything at the mo, had more blood tests yesterday and it had gone up again!! so am back today for more and am getting the injection tomorrow really dont want to but have to to move forwards. have got a gynae appointment through for 1st march so hopefully should get some answers

xx

(((Hugs))).

Sammy_Girl wrote: »

We all know ttc is a stressful time. Maybe it's best to draw a line under this and move on.

That'll be great, thanks:)

QQuaver

As a compromise, I will post much less from now on, since the novelty of joining an online community has since worn off. So sorry if I posted far too much. I’m an all-or-nothing kind of girl I suppose.

No, keep on posting! I'll exercise caution from now on, I promise:)

Murray wrote: »

Quaver, where have you gone? Please come back. I love your enthusiasm, its infectious and I'm missing it!

Erm you won't believe it, but I really was out of touch:o

Metranil_Vavin wrote: »

Yes I was wondering where Quaver was...I hope she hasn't been upset and scared off

No, no, I don't get upset easily, I was up in the air, honest. I can tell you Heathrow airport was open today:cool:

QQuaver

Just finished reading, OMG what did I start!:eek:

OK, I admit, I was overenthusiastic, and posted all optimistic mumbo jumbo.
I'm really sorry, and I'll exercise caution from now on.

So please, those who left, come back!!!

lolly1981 wrote: »

loving the dodgy group hug...thats awesome :grouphug:

I'll join that:o

MERFE

quaver glad you are back, I was worried too that you had disappeared, glad it was just getting on with RL. I see you have taken yourself off the list did AF turn up, I'm sorry if it did


OH is having doubts now, after everything he is now concerned that there might be something wrong with baby if we had another and it would upset our family balance. I think he is just worried about how it'd affect the kids we have already and its good he is worried about it cos I just want a baby no matter what (a little bit crazy lady hmmm). I've tried telling him its unlikely as we do have 2 healthy children already and he'll be ok for a while then see something in paper or listen to something on the radio. He is happy with what we have, did have his heart set on a third as well but is really scared of miscarrying again or something going wrong. Maybe I should just give up and get a cat I dont know.

*BigBird*

Morning everyone.

Congratulations GFH on your BFP :j

It was a shame to see people getting upset last night. I truly hope no-one feels they can't stay here anymore as I personally like the balance of oldies and newbies - as I see it, the newbies bring the enthusiasm of first stepping out on this road, when it is all so exciting, whilst the oldies (bad word, but not sure how else to put it ) bring their knowledge and experience, helping to temper that excitement with a bit of realism. I have learned a hell of a lot in the few weeks I have been (mostly lurking) here and I thank you all for that.

As for my journey, I'm a bit confused at the mo (insert shrugging smilie). FF keeps changing its mind on when I oved and when AF is due. Some days ov on cd12, AF due next Tues, some days it says ov cd14, AF due next Thurs. Cramps suggest AF is due sooner rather than later however. But, in a fit of "for God's sake, make up your mind!" yesderday, I bought me a CBFM off eBay, so I have much gadgetry to look forward to next month

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Sammy_Girl wrote: »

Hi GFH :wave:

Have you used the second test yet?

No, babe, tis yours, pm me your details before the battery runs out!!

QQuaver

MERFE wrote: »

quaver glad you are back, I was worried too that you had disappeared, glad it was just getting on with RL. I see you have taken yourself off the list did AF turn up, I'm sorry if it did .

Thanks, no AF has not turned up, CD44:eek:
Will not test for a while;)