Trying for a Baby part 5....

Sammy_Girl

Tigtag, you took the words right out of my mouth! It's a 2 way street.

We all know ttc is a stressful time. Maybe it's best to draw a line under this and move on.

MERFE

Morning everyone, hope you are all feeling a bit better this morning.

No real news here as usual, just wondering when AF is going to show after MC. Would like to go swimming (part of my getting my body in the right shape for carrying a baby)but dont want to go swimming, pay then get AF just before I get changed.

jacobsmum

hi ladies i know i havent been on for ages but been hard to focus on anything at the mo, had more blood tests yesterday and it had gone up again!! so am back today for more and am getting the injection tomorrow really dont want to but have to to move forwards. have got a gynae appointment through for 1st march so hopefully should get some answers

xx

MERFE

jacobsmum good luck for your gynae appointment, hope they are able to find out whats wrong xxxx

I've still not been for my blood test, struggled to fast last week tbh I only tried one day and lasted till 7:45 cos the thought of not eating till lunchtime was too much, to be fair I hadnt had anything since dinner at 4:30 before going to work. Now I'm not feeling too good so going to wait a little bit, might have my car back next week so I'll be able to drive to the hospital instead of walking. Walking for over an hour on an empty stomach is not a good idea.

Primmer

Jacobsmum - I hope you can get to answers and help you need from your appointment (( )) hugs x
Merfe - hopefully when you get car back it will make it easier and you will be able to get your blood tests done.
Hugs to all x

gizmodo_2

Hi everyone. I was on this thread about a year ago but I had some embarrassing issues - painful sex. I've been seeing a sexual psychologist after I had an insanely painful smear test and my doctor referred me. It's worked and I had my first BD on Wednesday

I hope I can join in this thread again and get some advice as I don't have any female in real life I haven't told my mum yet that we're TTC as I don't want the pressure and I know she is itching for a grandchild.

Have any of you told other people (in real life) that you are TTC or do you keep it to yourselves?

MERFE

welcome back gizmodo, glad you were able to get help.

I dont talk to anyone in RL about it but I think they are all aware we desire another child, after 3 MC it would be hard to hide it. The worst person is my mum who tuts everytime I mention anything like you never know about more grandchildren etc I also have a best friend who had a MC the same time I had my first MC and she can not understand how I can keep putting my self through it as she has a massive fear of MC again. Everyone else is very supportive, mostly they keep me sane and my mind off ttc for most of the month.

Primmer

Hi Gizmodo - welcome back and congrats on the BD

no I haven't told anyone in RL that I am ttc especially as my parents would love a grandchild and keep dropping not so subtle hints!

lilian1977

Hi everyone - I may be a newbie but I really do appreciate and learn a lot from everyone's comments on this thread so I do hope everyone decides to stay, but I also know how hard it can be to read (albeit unintentionally) hurtful words on a screen while sitting alone, so everyone must do what makes them happiest

Anyway. Second day of basal temperature taking today, forgot to take it while I was still in bed so it's dropped 1 degree - not surprising though, it was freezing in the toilet! I rushed back to bed as soon as I realised but no joy. I'll take it again tomorrow and probably ignore todays reading.

Good luck with everything today everyone, and congrats to GFH! x

dustystar02

Sammy_Girl wrote: »

Tigtag, you took the words right out of my mouth! It's a 2 way street.

We all know ttc is a stressful time. Maybe it's best to draw a line under this and move on.

Exactly, this forum is for support and advice know matter what stage of TTC you are at.

Well CD9 for me and MMC says I'm due to ov on the 20th which is a next Saturday which means I'll actually be with OH :T.
We're going over to Leeds tomorrow night to have a romantic night in a hotel there. Meal, upgraded room with movies, mp3's and possible night out on the tiles. OH gave me £50 this morning to treat myself to something nice to wear as a Valentines treat. :j. Sadly i've got him a £1 I Love You mug from ASDA...oops . We said we weren't getting each other anything as we are going to Egypt in May so are saving. It seems I stuck with that and he didn't. Anyway, who am I to complain? I'm hitting this shops after work today!

Sticky baby dust to all. My PMA is back in abundance so I'm sending it out there....xxx