depression

rose07

thanks s,

yeah had a very productive day today, just wish i didnt have tonsilitis, it makes me sound bad and makes me feel a bit bad too.
parents keep arguing tho which is doing my head in. :eek:
well done for getting through the week hun, unfortunately i will have no time as i will work monday till friday 9 till 530 everyday, and then at the weekends i have freelance work so i dont know how i am going to handle it all, i guess time will tell if i can handle it or not, too much stress and i get severely ill.

well make sure you treat yourself some time on the weekend, just take 30 mins to stop and sit down and do something you enjoy
x

Sazbo

rose07 wrote:

thanks s,

yeah had a very productive day today, just wish i didnt have tonsilitis, it makes me sound bad and makes me feel a bit bad too.
parents keep arguing tho which is doing my head in. :eek:
well done for getting through the week hun, unfortunately i will have no time as i will work monday till friday 9 till 530 everyday, and then at the weekends i have freelance work so i dont know how i am going to handle it all, i guess time will tell if i can handle it or not, too much stress and i get severely ill.

well make sure you treat yourself some time on the weekend, just take 30 mins to stop and sit down and do something you enjoy
x

Good advice rose. Too much stress is not a good thing, as I'm sure you know. Take care of yourself too this weekend - you can only do so much. One day at a time. Sxx

rose07

Sazbo wrote:

Good advice rose. Too much stress is not a good thing, as I'm sure you know. Take care of yourself too this weekend - you can only do so much. One day at a time. Sxx

yeah im afraid i know that only too well.
yeah i will do, i am out tomorrow night, one of my mates leaves for london in a few days so we giving her a good send off, she is my best mate we have been friends so far for 11 years, :eek: , im soo gonna cry my heart out. lol very glad she is keeping going tho, she deserves the best.

you take care and have a good weekend
be kind to yourself and others may follow
xxx

Sazbo

rose07 wrote:

yeah im afraid i know that only too well.
yeah i will do, i am out tomorrow night, one of my mates leaves for london in a few days so we giving her a good send off, she is my best mate we have been friends so far for 11 years, :eek: , im soo gonna cry my heart out. lol very glad she is keeping going tho, she deserves the best.

you take care and have a good weekend
be kind to yourself and others may follow
xxx

Wise words, rose. I know it's a wrench to lose best friends. Torn between not wanting to lose them and at the same time wanting the best for them. Hope you have a good night tomorrow night. Sx

rose07

Miroslav wrote:

I know what you mean, although i'm not looking for love, I am open to it for the 1st time in ages. Ideally, we'd be good friends and I could help her not get used. If anything else happens, then we'll deal with that when it comes, but with my past, i'm not thinking about that, as realistically, she's far too good for me, She's been asking about me apparently My flatmate says she's genuine when she says she cares but she's very nervous and my flatmate is going to suggest we all meet together at first, so there is less pressure on us both. She will suggest it on Sunday when they meet. She thinks we will both be good for each other, but wants us to build up slowly. She reckons this girl is really friendly and caring........hope so

I'm not eating much, although flatmate is pestering me. Sleeping is erratic at best.

Sunday I should find out. Even if she is willing to meet up, i'm dreading it not being for a while, whilst she gets used to the idea

your flatmate sounds alright she has the right idea.
dont rush it, get to know each other and communicate.

as i say tho try not to think too much about it all, it sounds like you have the same group of friends, or at very least like your flatmate is a good match maker, lol. but jjust be careful wont you hun, take it slow, but take it when you can if you see it grab it and keep a hold of it.

dont worry, hang on let me rephase, try not to worry.
and let us all know how it goes.
xxx

Sazbo

Goodnight one and all. Speak soon, Saz xxxxxxxx

rose07

Sazbo wrote:

Wise words, rose. I know it's a wrench to lose best friends. Torn between not wanting to lose them and at the same time wanting the best for them. Hope you have a good night tomorrow night. Sx

thanks s
it nice to have someone that understands, we have both been at uni for 3 years and i have only seen her a few times this summer, and well she is my talking buddy, we would meet up for a drink and chat.
with this new job, i was thinking i might get more friends but they are all alot older than me (no offence to anyone), and i dont see me being able to go on a night out with them, or be able to sit down and chat with them, i dont know, .
ah see i know im going to be upset tomorrow, she has been great to me in the last few months.
soz im starting to ramble now

xxx

Sazbo

rose07 wrote:

thanks s
it nice to have someone that understands, we have both been at uni for 3 years and i have only seen her a few times this summer, and well she is my talking buddy, we would meet up for a drink and chat.
with this new job, i was thinking i might get more friends but they are all alot older than me (no offence to anyone), and i dont see me being able to go on a night out with them, or be able to sit down and chat with them, i dont know, .
ah see i know im going to be upset tomorrow, she has been great to me in the last few months.
soz im starting to ramble now

xxx

You never know - you might make friends at you're new job; see how it goes. And you may still keep in touch with your mate even though she moving. That's happened to me - one of my closest friends move to America two years ago, I was devastated, but even though we obviously don't see each other every day, we're still very close. I'll bid you night, night. Take care, Sazx

rose07

CCStar wrote:

LOL - that is the stuff made of nightmares had you turned up in PJs:D

I woke too early, got the jobs out of the way, then slobbed around till hubby came in. Fell asleep this evening during the soaps. This cold is really knocking the stuffing out of me.:(

Hubby's new job - he is settling in and there might me some work for our son too! Someone left this week, so a vacancy has arisen already, we were going to wait a couple of weeks to settle but have to strike whilst the iron is hot I guess.

Oh well here's hoping the weekend is an improvement:)

aaww i hpe your cold gets better soon, its rotten that.
glad your hubby is settling in to his new job, hopefully that will take the wait off your finanaces. yes its good there is a possibility for your son as well, very good is he old enough to live on his own?

but dont leave yourself with nothing to do during the day try and fill yor day, not to the point that you collapse just things to keep you going.
x

Horasio

feelinggood wrote:

I can't work out why he is being this way
I think one of the main things is that if he comes home and I'm down, or if I haven't done the housework, he finds it really hard to motivate himself to go to work. He keeps mentioning me getting a job, which is scaring the life out of me.
I really don't understand, and I can't talk to him about this.

I expect he feels useless seeing you this way but you don't need him giving you a hard time about housework or getting a job. Does he help around the house?

You will be able to work and/or do the housework when you are good and ready, not when HE says you are.

He doesn't sound to be helpful. I know he isn't responsible for you but the negativity he is giving you, will not help one bit!