depression

gamma

Thanks for the welcome I'm at work today and I thought about all thats happened - this guy is totally not worth the efford! I'm going to actively try and get him off my mind! But how??

Feelinggood - do you think your not getting up for the doctor because you don't really feel like going or perhaps you think that he's probably just going to tell you the same things over again..?

feelinggood_2

gamma wrote:

Thanks for the welcome I'm at work today and I thought about all thats happened - this guy is totally not worth the efford! I'm going to actively try and get him off my mind! But how??

Feelinggood - do you think your not getting up for the doctor because you don't really feel like going or perhaps you think that he's probably just going to tell you the same things over again..?

I'm going to go and see a different doctor and see if they have any other ideas.
I just can't get out of bed sometimes. I'm getting up about 10am, but somedays I'll stay in till 6pm or something. I just can't get up
Had this problem when i was being treated for my last bout of depression, causes so much stress. I always end up sobbng on the phone cos they won't give me an appointment. Sometimes they'd offer me an emergency one, but tis time they didn't . So I'm stuck till I can get up.
Also, my OH is still around at 8:30 most mornings, and he can't know that I'm going to the doctor. Suppose I should just find someone who can call for me.

regularsaver1

feelinggood - why can't your partner know your going to the doctor?

i haven'ty seen your other posts, but won't your partner help you?

feelinggood_2

regularsaver1 wrote:

feelinggood - why can't your partner know your going to the doctor?

i haven'ty seen your other posts, but won't your partner help you?

He gets angry/irritated/upset when he knows I'm depressed. I've spoken to him, and he'd rather I lie and say I'm fine.

Horasio

feelinggood wrote:

He gets angry/irritated/upset when he knows I'm depressed. I've spoken to him, and he'd rather I lie and say I'm fine.

That is a huge strain to take, worrying about how he will behave towards you. I reckon it is contributing to the depression when you have to lie like that.:mad:

rose07

hello everyone
hope your all ok?
no one seems to be around but i got some news. .. . . .

ok so went to the doctors,:eek: , i was terrified by the way, but he was lovely when i told him this is my bad month and how i still dont have the relivant support in place and how its taking ages, he went on a rant about the health service saying how awful it is etc.. anyway then i told him EVERYTHING , and he was like 'right well i will be getting on the phone straight away', he was very nice, and understanding, because i have came from uni to back home at uni things were all in full swing and when i came home i am now back at square one as it were, and this is what he was annoyed at as he totally understood.

Then i went for my interview, i was 10 mins late :rolleyes: :rolleyes: , and i have tonsilitis so my voice is very bad at the mo. when i was in my interview and when i was in the doctors too, i was thinking about you all very much, felt like you were all behind me somehow propping me up.;) i was in the interview for an hour.
we all had a good chat, though i could not talk much. and well drum role pleassse. . . . . i got the job, he gave it to me there and then. so are you all proud? lol

anyway i just wanted to share that with you all. as even though i am soo ruddy low at the moment i have managed to get me health sorted or at least on the right road, and also got a job, so people it can be done. put your minds to it and great things will come your way, do not let it beat you, and remember just be yourselves and live your lives. (ok sound like im preaching now, dont mean too).

i mean i still feel absolutely awful, but at least i can take back a little of whats mine.

much love to you all
xxx

will be back on in a bit. x

candygirl

I finally went back to the doctors today, and she has changed me from prozac to venlafaxine, and signed me off work for two weeks.i feel bad cos i had 3 weeks off in march but with my recent problems ie divorce, health worries, work hassles etc my head was going pop. Is anybody esle on this relatively new anti depressant and what do you think of it?

Horasio

rose07 wrote:

hello everyone
hope your all ok?
no one seems to be around but i got some news. .. . . .

ok so went to the doctors,:eek: , i was terrified by the way, but he was lovely when i told him this is my bad month and how i still dont have the relivant support in place and how its taking ages, he went on a rant about the health service saying how awful it is etc.. anyway then i told him EVERYTHING , and he was like 'right well i will be getting on the phone straight away', he was very nice, and understanding, because i have came from uni to back home at uni things were all in full swing and when i came home i am now back at square one as it were, and this is what he was annoyed at as he totally understood.

Then i went for my interview, i was 10 mins late :rolleyes: :rolleyes: , and i have tonsilitis so my voice is very bad at the mo. when i was in my interview and when i was in the doctors too, i was thinking about you all very much, felt like you were all behind me somehow propping me up.;) i was in the interview for an hour.
we all had a good chat, though i could not talk much. and well drum role pleassse. . . . . i got the job, he gave it to me there and then. so are you all proud? lol

anyway i just wanted to share that with you all. as even though i am soo ruddy low at the moment i have managed to get me health sorted or at least on the right road, and also got a job, so people it can be done. put your minds to it and great things will come your way, do not let it beat you, and remember just be yourselves and live your lives. (ok sound like im preaching now, dont mean too).

i mean i still feel absolutely awful, but at least i can take back a little of whats mine.

much love to you all
xxx

will be back on in a bit. x

Well done, you have achieved so much today:)

rose07

thank you CCStar

i even managed to get a shower today i get dressed.
so didnt turn up in my pjs,

how was your day?

Horasio

rose07 wrote:

thank you CCStar

i even managed to get a shower today i get dressed.
so didnt turn up in my pjs,

how was your day?

LOL - that is the stuff made of nightmares had you turned up in PJs:D

I woke too early, got the jobs out of the way, then slobbed around till hubby came in. Fell asleep this evening during the soaps. This cold is really knocking the stuffing out of me.:(

Hubby's new job - he is settling in and there might me some work for our son too! Someone left this week, so a vacancy has arisen already, we were going to wait a couple of weeks to settle but have to strike whilst the iron is hot I guess.

Oh well here's hoping the weekend is an improvement:)