depression

feelinggood_2

Never mind.
I hate life some times

Dora_the_Explorer_5

CCStar wrote:

Hi guys (and gals:))

I am feeling more positive today but have faced a problem that I need some tips to deal with.

I felt close to my husband last night and it has really made me feel better again. Trouble is I am scared he might upset me again, so don't want to build too much on it.

I have seen it before in my life. I feel happy with a person (male or female), then if they cool for any reason, I am gutted.

How come I need other people to make me feel good, why can't I do this for myself?

Why not have a look at this for some tips?

http://www.livinglifetothefull.com/elearning/index.php?option=com_frontpage&Itemid=1

You might find the answer to your question.

rose07

Miroslav wrote:

:wave: Rose

I probably am pinning my hopes on this, but I have been preparing messages to text after she's turned me down, saying thanks anyway, so I am getting used to the idea she doesn't want to know, although when it's official, it's gonna hurt like hell

I just want us to be able to support each other and do things together. I'm not gonna jump on her

On a side note, lost 9 pounds in last 3 days. Just another 33 to go!

Hi Miroslav

Try not to pin your hopes on it too much, love can come and go, but if you grab it before its even begun then it can end upside down.

Be careful. . .

It is good that you want to support her, just make sure you get the help you need as well.

Hope you eating and sleeping ok.

is it sunday you will find out?
x

rose07

Hello everyone
Hope you are all ok and keeping yourselves going?
just popping on for a minute.

It took me ages to get ready today,:o (half the thing being i dont have the energy at the moment), havent really eaten today, but had a yumi chocolate bar so that good.

But not feeling great today. (im hurting alot at the moment).
I have an interview tomorrow, and im soo not in the mood. lol
i am not prepared i dont know what i should wear (hey maybe i should just turn up in my pyjamas) lol.

well got the doctors tomorrow afternoon, and im a bit scared, (did i say abit i meant alot).
Hope you are all ok.
much love everyone
xxx

Horasio

rose07 wrote:

Hello everyone
Hope you are all ok and keeping yourselves going?
just popping on for a minute.

It took me ages to get ready today,:o (half the thing being i dont have the energy at the moment), havent really eaten today, but had a yumi chocolate bar so that good.

But not feeling great today. (im hurting alot at the moment).
I have an interview tomorrow, and im soo not in the mood. lol
i am not prepared i dont know what i should wear (hey maybe i should just turn up in my pyjamas) lol.

well got the doctors tomorrow afternoon, and im a bit scared, (did i say abit i meant alot).
Hope you are all ok.
much love everyone
xxx

Hi

Good luck for tomorrow, will be thinking of you:)

Bunnie1982

rose07 wrote:

Hello everyone
Hope you are all ok and keeping yourselves going?
just popping on for a minute.

It took me ages to get ready today,:o (half the thing being i dont have the energy at the moment), havent really eaten today, but had a yumi chocolate bar so that good.

But not feeling great today. (im hurting alot at the moment).
I have an interview tomorrow, and im soo not in the mood. lol
i am not prepared i dont know what i should wear (hey maybe i should just turn up in my pyjamas) lol.

well got the doctors tomorrow afternoon, and im a bit scared, (did i say abit i meant alot).
Hope you are all ok.
much love everyone
xxx

Good luck for your interview tomorrow, I have got 2 interviews tomorrow afternoon and I know what you mean about not being in the mood.

feelinggood_2

Is it bad that one person seems to hold the key to a vast majority of my happiness?

Miroslav

rose07 wrote:

Hi Miroslav

Try not to pin your hopes on it too much, love can come and go, but if you grab it before its even begun then it can end upside down.

Be careful. . .

It is good that you want to support her, just make sure you get the help you need as well.

Hope you eating and sleeping ok.

is it sunday you will find out?
x

I know what you mean, although i'm not looking for love, I am open to it for the 1st time in ages. Ideally, we'd be good friends and I could help her not get used. If anything else happens, then we'll deal with that when it comes, but with my past, i'm not thinking about that, as realistically, she's far too good for me, She's been asking about me apparently My flatmate says she's genuine when she says she cares but she's very nervous and my flatmate is going to suggest we all meet together at first, so there is less pressure on us both. She will suggest it on Sunday when they meet. She thinks we will both be good for each other, but wants us to build up slowly. She reckons this girl is really friendly and caring........hope so

I'm not eating much, although flatmate is pestering me. Sleeping is erratic at best.

Sunday I should find out. Even if she is willing to meet up, i'm dreading it not being for a while, whilst she gets used to the idea

bettyboop61

:hello: Just wanted to say Hi to everyone, Rose, Tiff, Fliss, Mrs A, Miroslav, Slayerx,and everyone else I have missed and Hi to all the newcomers. So Sorry to hear alot of you have terrible colds, it must be the change in the weather:rolleyes: Things have not been good for me for a while and I have really struggled today, rang to speak to my CPN and she was off today, so asked to speak to the back up CPN and she is off to, I felt really panicky because I have been having terrible thoughts today, I'm on my own tonight because my OH is away working and will not be back till tomorrow night, my olkdest son is working away too and my youngest son is working till midnight :eek: I have been trying to keep busy, to stop my mind from working overtime, but I must confess, I just had to go cut myself and now I feel ashamed that I gave into it aaaarrrggghhh.

I'm sorry for going on, its not helping anybody on here is it, I'll shut up and go away now.

Here's hoping for a better day for all of us tomorrow.
Love and hugsssss to you all

Betty

Miroslav

rose07 wrote:

Hello everyone
Hope you are all ok and keeping yourselves going?
just popping on for a minute.

It took me ages to get ready today,:o (half the thing being i dont have the energy at the moment), havent really eaten today, but had a yumi chocolate bar so that good.

But not feeling great today. (im hurting alot at the moment).
I have an interview tomorrow, and im soo not in the mood. lol
i am not prepared i dont know what i should wear (hey maybe i should just turn up in my pyjamas) lol.

well got the doctors tomorrow afternoon, and im a bit scared, (did i say abit i meant alot).
Hope you are all ok.
much love everyone
xxx

An interview in pyjama's would make you individual. Hope it goes well and that you gain some confidence from it.

Don't be too afraid of the GP, it is scary, but we have faith in you that you can do it