depression

Miroslav

Sazbo wrote:

:rotfl: :rotfl: Maybe the stopc0ck's gone cold turkey

Workmen are the absolute PITS :mad:

Cold Turkey everywhere

Well, it's fixed, apparently.

Decorators knocked something off the inside of the loo that hold something

Miroslav

Been out for some food. Workmen make the days even longer :rolleyes:

Turned phone on, as can't leave it off. Still no 'S'. I take it the song was crap too then :rolleyes:

EthelBloggs

Hiya peeps.. to many replies to answer each.. you lot been busy today huh?

Well.. b/f is being a complete prat again.. he's going to visit his family this weekend and I told him I don't want him to come back. Tonight he's angry because I left the house this morning at 8am and got home just after seven and shock horror I hadn't put the washing into the tumble drier.. he's been home since 5 and hadn't done it soo.. Oh.. and I didint make dinner.. how awful that he has to sort something out for himself to eat!!! so I got the usual rant and rave about how selfish I am... I reminded him that he has waaaaaaaay more free time than me and does even less so who's the selfish one? !!!!!! he wont even change a lightbulb even tho he only has to reach up and do it, I have to climb up to do it. He hasn't even looked at my laptop so he's screwed me that way because I know that one of the essays I have due in this week is on there but he wont help me to get it off there soo I've got to redo it all...... arrggh Im soo !!!!ed off again!! Oh yeah.. and he's on a really high salary but he's broke..... so he needs to borrow money from me :mad:

btw he wont leave.. he keeps coming back because he knows its cushty here more than at his mums. Bloody men!!!

Miroslav

EthelBloggs wrote:

Hiya peeps.. to many replies to answer each.. you lot been busy today huh?

Well.. b/f is being a complete prat again.. he's going to visit his family this weekend and I told him I don't want him to come back. Tonight he's angry because I left the house this morning at 8am and got home just after seven and shock horror I hadn't put the washing into the tumble drier.. he's been home since 5 and hadn't done it soo.. Oh.. and I didint make dinner.. how awful that he has to sort something out for himself to eat!!! so I got the usual rant and rave about how selfish I am... I reminded him that he has waaaaaaaay more free time than me and does even less so who's the selfish one? !!!!!! he wont even change a lightbulb even tho he only has to reach up and do it, I have to climb up to do it. He hasn't even looked at my laptop so he's screwed me that way because I know that one of the essays I have due in this week is on there but he wont help me to get it off there soo I've got to redo it all...... arrggh Im soo !!!!ed off again!! Oh yeah.. and he's on a really high salary but he's broke..... so he needs to borrow money from me :mad:

btw he wont leave.. he keeps coming back because he knows its cushty here more than at his mums. Bloody men!!!

Busy..........bored

Don't ask him to leave...........kick him out. If he's not treating you right, in your home, then what claim can he have?

When he goes away, change the locks

Take the weekend to think about things, what you really want and try and stick to them. If he's acting like a child, do you really need that?

Miroslav

Earth to 'S', earth to 'S' - we have contact.

Tesco shopping with flatmate, and she rings flatmate.......

They agree to meet on Friday, i'm getting more and more aggitated.....she hasn't phoned or text me

Anyway, flatmate says she has some good news, but I say I don't want to know..........then I say go on then........

1. She's decided to stay

2. She loved my song and apparently was quite emotional about it on the phone and couldn't quite believe I had done it for her..

So...........

Why the hell am I so miserable?

Maybe tomorrow she'll change her mind again? She'll be off, or decide the song is pants??

I don't know.........I'm delighted she's staying, but i'm also confused.......why? Why is she staying? Flatmate says it may be because of the CD, as it's the day she received it she gets in touch. It may be because of me, or both of us as we are nice to her, or maybe a combination of the whole lot??

She confuses the living daylights out of me..........what's next? I'm moving to Mars, but it's okay, my Lilt powered space buggy can let me come and see you on weekends? I've done a song for you MmmMiro - It's a cover of Radiohead's 'Creep'



She has text me

"The song is fantastic"

"You sing great"

"I've decided to stay"

"Can we meet next Tuesday?"

Huh?

A reply to my other text messages would be nice

I've not replied

I'm either gonna

1. Reply :rolleyes:
2. Wait a couple of days and reply
3. Write a note and drop it in her box (:o)
4. Never reply



I'm ecstatic she is staying, but miserable............yeah I know, i'm a twit!

I did buy her some choccies for her Christmas Chocolate Stocking we are making up, so it encouraged me.

Flatmate says she may find it hard to understand me. She's not used to me. She looks at guys as money grabbers and use her for sex, and she's confused by me, she doesn't know how to be with me etc etc.

My head is spinning

EthelBloggs

Miroslav wrote:

Busy..........bored

Don't ask him to leave...........kick him out. If he's not treating you right, in your home, then what claim can he have?

When he goes away, change the locks

Take the weekend to think about things, what you really want and try and stick to them. If he's acting like a child, do you really need that?

I've tried it before.. the kicking out thing and he just wont go, packed his bags and left them on the doorstep etc.. I don't want to get the police involved as it woudl just make things nasty and most of the time we are still reasonably good friends. He rarely remmebers to carry his key so the lock changing will probably not be needed.. i always have to leave it with the neighbour so he can get in when he gets home, lol

Miroslav

EthelBloggs wrote:

I've tried it before.. the kicking out thing and he just wont go, packed his bags and left them on the doorstep etc.. I don't want to get the police involved as it woudl just make things nasty and most of the time we are still reasonably good friends. He rarely remmebers to carry his key so the lock changing will probably not be needed.. i always have to leave it with the neighbour so he can get in when he gets home, lol

Tough situation

Maybe you need to start doing little things to make him go off you

Stop washing
Start breaking wind
Make rubbish meals
Pick your nose and flick it at him

EthelBloggs

Miroslav wrote:

Tough situation

Maybe you need to start doing little things to make him go off you

Stop washing
Start breaking wind
Make rubbish meals
Pick your nose and flick it at him

lol miro.. I duno what to do anymore... I haven't cooked in ages, its been takeways or microwave dinners, I crawl into bed and crash out almost immediately so..... no action there... we rarely spend time together because when I'm home I'm either studying or doing housework. I really can't see what the appeal of being here anymore is I'm sure he's just as fed up and miserable with the situation as I am but he simply won't budge, the only advantage to him being here as opposed to moving back to his own town is the travelling time to work

geminilady

Miroslav wrote:

Earth to 'S', earth to 'S' - we have contact.

Tesco shopping with flatmate, and she rings flatmate.......

They agree to meet on Friday, i'm getting more and more aggitated.....she hasn't phoned or text me

Anyway, flatmate says she has some good news, but I say I don't want to know..........then I say go on then........

1. She's decided to stay

2. She loved my song and apparently was quite emotional about it on the phone and couldn't quite believe I had done it for her..

So...........

Why the hell am I so miserable?

Maybe tomorrow she'll change her mind again? She'll be off, or decide the song is pants??

I don't know.........I'm delighted she's staying, but i'm also confused.......why? Why is she staying? Flatmate says it may be because of the CD, as it's the day she received it she gets in touch. It may be because of me, or both of us as we are nice to her, or maybe a combination of the whole lot??

She confuses the living daylights out of me..........what's next? I'm moving to Mars, but it's okay, my Lilt powered space buggy can let me come and see you on weekends? I've done a song for you MmmMiro - It's a cover of Radiohead's 'Creep'



She has text me

"The song is fantastic"

"You sing great"

"I've decided to stay"

"Can we meet next Tuesday?"

Huh?

A reply to my other text messages would be nice

I've not replied

I'm either gonna

1. Reply :rolleyes:
2. Wait a couple of days and reply
3. Write a note and drop it in her box (:o)
4. Never reply



I'm ecstatic she is staying, but miserable............yeah I know, i'm a twit!

I did buy her some choccies for her Christmas Chocolate Stocking we are making up, so it encouraged me.

Flatmate says she may find it hard to understand me. She's not used to me. She looks at guys as money grabbers and use her for sex, and she's confused by me, she doesn't know how to be with me etc etc.

My head is spinning

"S" Is staying and your miserable? thought it was what you wanted.I can understand you being upset because she did not answer your text(been there bought the t-shirt)but she is STAYING so you have a much better chance of making it work.PLUS she loves your song and wants to meet Tuesday! you should be over the moon maybe you are suffering from shock lol.You could reply and say you would love to meet Tuesday but you had been wondering all week why she did not answer your text or make contact.No harm in mentioning it.I think more problems are caused in relationships by people not been honest about their feeling and not saying how they feal.If you don't tell them how on earth will they know?people are not mind readers.I do think her asking to meet is a big step forward and she really does like you just confused because you are unlike anyone she has ever met.

Sazbo

EthelBloggs wrote:

I've tried it before.. the kicking out thing and he just wont go, packed his bags and left them on the doorstep etc.. I don't want to get the police involved as it woudl just make things nasty and most of the time we are still reasonably good friends. He rarely remmebers to carry his key so the lock changing will probably not be needed.. i always have to leave it with the neighbour so he can get in when he gets home, lol

Ethel I'm really sorry you're having a tough time with the b/f. You say you've asked him to leave and he won't go - do you think you could leave him? That way you'd be free? A tough ask, I know, but would that be at all possible? Sx