depression

Miroslav

Sazbo wrote:

Hun it's understandable you feel confused. It might well be what you wanted to hear, on the face of it - that she's staying, but the fact that it's all relayed via flatmate... I've said it before, I'd find that really frustrating having to communicate via third party. So, there is good news - a) she's staying and b) she loved your song - both of which you probably would have bet against? But you still don't know where you stand which is entirely fair enough, because you didn't hear it all for yourself. I'd say hang fire till Friday, if you can - sweetheart I know you're fit to bursting with all this, but maybe at this early stage S feels more comfortable with flatmate as a mediator, as frustrating as that undeniably is for you, maybe see it as confirmation that she does want you in her life - she's said she wants to stay after all? And maybe she feels with flatmate's help she lessens the chance of scr*wing everything up? Just my thoughts, as ever Mr Miro... Sxxx

Indeed, I didn't expect either, and I am over the moon! I just don't know what's coming tomorrow!

I have replied via text, flatmate said she may have been hoping for a reply that I was happy...........so I replied. I don't want her thinking that after her decision, I didn't care anymore.

I have to look after myself, but I care about her alot, I'm just going to take each day as it comes, it's all I can do.

She is so worth it when she responds and says nice things. I'm so glad she's in my life, despite the ups and downs.

I'm gonna be here for a long time with those ups and downs!

Flatmate says she doesn't know how to be with me

Guy......... sex ...............Guy............money but Miro........Guy.........No sex........ Guy...........No money ........... what does he want????

Confusion on her part?

Hmmmmmm

Sazbo

Miroslav wrote:

Indeed, I didn't expect either, and I am over the moon! I just don't know what's coming tomorrow!

I have replied via text, flatmate said she may have been hoping for a reply that I was happy...........so I replied. I don't want her thinking that after her decision, I didn't care anymore.

I have to look after myself, but I care about her alot, I'm just going to take each day as it comes, it's all I can do.

She is so worth it when she responds and says nice things. I'm so glad she's in my life, despite the ups and downs.

I'm gonna be here for a long time with those ups and downs!

Flatmate says she doesn't know how to be with me

Guy......... sex ...............Guy............money but Miro........Guy.........No sex........ Guy...........No money ........... what does he want????

Confusion on her part?

Hmmmmmm

Well for what it's worth hun, I think you've come such a long way in all this. Now you're saying you care about her, but also you need to look after yourself and take each day as it comes. Which, forgive me please if I'm wrong, you may not have said before. I'd say very likely confusion on her part, but she's doing her best to deal with it. As are you xxx

Miroslav

Sazbo wrote:

Well for what it's worth hun, I think you've come such a long way in all this. Now you're saying you care about her, but also you need to look after yourself and take each day as it comes. Which, forgive me please if I'm wrong, you may not have said before. I'd say very likely confusion on her part, but she's doing her best to deal with it. As are you xxx

We have come a long way. It's very scary, I just don't get to know people, but lately women have been all over me :rotfl:

I will look after me, but i'm determined! She gives me confidence, i'm even considering getting a Christmas job, to get out, get some more money and meet more people! Because when it works, it's great!!!!

It's scary, but I have an excitement i've not had for so long, and I want it to continue!

I'm off to bed, up at 6am, preparing for builders!

:wave:

Take Care Saz and all

EthelBloggs

Miro.. I really dunno what to say to you hun.. I'm prolly the worst person to be giving relationship advice atm, for obvious reasons, lol. Just keep yourself as strong as you can and see how things pan out :hug:

As for me.. I've got some scheming to do aint I? lol

Not done a stroke of uni work tonight.. think i might have to plead sickness tomorrow

Sazbo

Miroslav wrote:

We have come a long way. It's very scary, I just don't get to know people, but lately women have been all over me :rotfl:

I will look after me, but i'm determined! She gives me confidence, i'm even considering getting a Christmas job, to get out, get some more money and meet more people! Because when it works, it's great!!!!

It's scary, but I have an excitement i've not had for so long, and I want it to continue!

I'm off to bed, up at 6am, preparing for builders!

:wave:

Take Care Saz and all

Christmas job sounds great - for some reason I'm imagining you with a Father Christmas white cotton-wool beard?! Bizarre! Whatever - great you're making plans, sweetheart. Good luck with builders, my scaffolders haven't broken any of my windows, yet... :rolleyes:

Sleep well, Mr Miro, sleep well, one and all, Sazzy xxxxx

EthelBloggs

na night Miro.. xxx

you off too sazzy? if so na night n sweet dreams girlie xxx

Sazbo

EthelBloggs wrote:

na night Miro.. xxx

you off too sazzy? if so na night n sweet dreams girlie xxx

Yeah, in a minute Ethel, hun. The night just runs away, you know? Then all those hours lying in bed, pretending to be asleep :rotfl: Why do I bother?! Take care Ethel sweetpea ok? We're always here for you.

Sweet dreams everyone. Love Saz xxx

EthelBloggs

Thanks saz.. know what you mean bout time slipping away, lol.
Think I'm gonna wait til b/f is alseep before I go up.. don't fancy another battle tonight As it is I get a snidey comment every time he comes down for a drink or whatever so I think I'll stay put for a while

cya tomrow xxxxxxxx

blinky

Sorry everyone very busy day and evening. Have kept up with the posts but I'm not sure if I can provide many words of comfort tonight.:o

It will get better but it takes time

There will be good days and bad ones - Try not to be too disheartened on the bad ones.

There is hope and light at the end of the tunnel.

You are all wonderful compassionate people :A and have a lot to offer. Please take heart in this.

Sleep well,

Paul
xx

Horasio

I really need to vent!

Went to the dentist and on the way, there were two excitable dogs off their leash that were heading straight for me. I wasn't scared but you don't what they are going to do next such as knock me over or jump up at me. I shouted - get away from me and the owner just get nasty. I really hate bad dog owners and how dare he be defensive when they he was wrong:mad:

I admit I am not a dog lover but do like a well trained dog. Dogs for the blind etc are fantastic. Too many idiots own dogs and let them annoy other people, with being off their leash and crapping everywhere and not clearing up after.

The dentist did apologise for the mix up but I was shaking with anger when I got there.

Then we spend hours trying to find our MOT certificate and believe the garage still has it when we had the mix up over the mileage - they converted it to Km, rather than miles so it looked like it had done more miles.

Why are there so many ruddy idiots? and why do I attract them? arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgh!!!!!!!!!!!!