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  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    Miroslav wrote:
    Mr? ooh how formal :p

    I dunno, most people just ignore me :rotfl:

    Builders are nuts, and driving me nuts!

    We now have a yellow kitchen and blue bathroom.........hmmmmmm :o

    Scaffolders - we have them soon, don't know when :o

    Well, I have to put my feelings first, although if 'S' calls and says she wants me to run through hoops and jump when prompted, tonight, I will :rolleyes:

    However, she can't, as phone is switched off........I can't have it on right now, incase of what she may say about the CD.......and anyway, she can wait a few days for any reply, she makes me wait all the time........i'm not going to be her 'yes' man. If she wants me, it's as an equal!

    And anyway, she'll contact flatmate too, so if she can't get me, she'll ask where i've gone.

    Imagine this

    Flatmate = F, 'S' = S, Me= M.

    'S': Where's 'M'
    'F': Here
    'S': Why's he not answering my text
    'F': He hasn't mentioned anything
    'S': Have I offended him
    'F': Don't know
    'S': Confuzzled
    'M': (Says to himself "Not nice is it")

    :rolleyes:


    What work are you having done? How long is it expected to go on for?

    You have my sympathies having the workmen in - they drive you nuts. At least if they are cute or friendly, it helps

    About that fire installler...................;)
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    Miroslav wrote:
    Disaster!

    Had to call workmen back out, loo is leaking and so is stop-!!!! in kitchen!

    Hmmmmmmmmmm
    Argh! They are wrecking your place big time:eek:
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    feelinggood wrote:
    Well, finally, I am crying lol.

    WEll its stopped now. Managed a couple of minutes. I wish I could just let go and cry and let it all out, but it doesn't work. I need the relief but can't get it :(
    Why are you crying? You need a real hug and a friendly person. It will help.

    I can send a virtual one (when you wake up)
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    EthelBloggs wrote:
    Hiya peeps.. to many replies to answer each.. you lot been busy today huh?

    Well.. b/f is being a complete prat again.. he's going to visit his family this weekend and I told him I don't want him to come back. Tonight he's angry because I left the house this morning at 8am and got home just after seven and shock horror I hadn't put the washing into the tumble drier.. he's been home since 5 and hadn't done it soo.. :confused: Oh.. and I didint make dinner.. how awful that he has to sort something out for himself to eat!!! so I got the usual rant and rave about how selfish I am... I reminded him that he has waaaaaaaay more free time than me and does even less so who's the selfish one? !!!!!! he wont even change a lightbulb even tho he only has to reach up and do it, I have to climb up to do it. He hasn't even looked at my laptop so he's screwed me that way because I know that one of the essays I have due in this week is on there but he wont help me to get it off there soo I've got to redo it all...... arrggh Im soo !!!!ed off again!! Oh yeah.. and he's on a really high salary but he's broke..... so he needs to borrow money from me :mad:

    btw he wont leave.. he keeps coming back because he knows its cushty here more than at his mums. Bloody men!!!

    Change the lock whilst he is away and tell him to sling his hook
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    Miroslav wrote:
    Busy..........bored ;)

    Don't ask him to leave...........kick him out. If he's not treating you right, in your home, then what claim can he have?

    When he goes away, change the locks :)

    Take the weekend to think about things, what you really want and try and stick to them. If he's acting like a child, do you really need that?
    Well said!
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    geminilady wrote:
    "S" Is staying and your miserable? thought it was what you wanted.I can understand you being upset because she did not answer your text(been there bought the t-shirt)but she is STAYING so you have a much better chance of making it work.PLUS she loves your song and wants to meet Tuesday! you should be over the moon maybe you are suffering from shock lol.You could reply and say you would love to meet Tuesday but you had been wondering all week why she did not answer your text or make contact.No harm in mentioning it.I think more problems are caused in relationships by people not been honest about their feeling and not saying how they feal.If you don't tell them how on earth will they know?people are not mind readers.I do think her asking to meet is a big step forward and she really does like you just confused because you are unlike anyone she has ever met.
    Yes, I agree

    Get the courage and tell her!
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    Miroslav wrote:
    Still not a man then.........

    Maybe a teletubbies DVD for Xmas?

    I'm sure he's a lovely guy, but how long can you be miserable for? You deserve more respect and equality, not a young man's disrespect and demands.
    Isn't that a bit mature for him?
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    I have been talkative tonight for the first time in ages - a bit manic. Must be the packing.

    I'm making a Thanksgiving meal for later - I am English but do like the American food and culture.

    For dinner

    Southern Fried Chicken
    Mash
    Roast Sweet Potato
    Sweetcorn
    Cranberry Sauce

    Pudding

    Peach Cobbler - had this in Atlanta and it is fab
    with cream or ice cream.

    Will make popcorn, have peanuts and marshmallows for nibbles.

    Cooking that in between packing and posting on here

    Feeling manic just now:D
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • blinky
    blinky Posts: 1,684 Forumite
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    CCStar you've been busy tonight. Hope you're not feeling too bad, I know how bad sleepless nights can be.

    You should never feel you have no friends as you have plenty here. If I had more free time I would drive up to Edinburgh to see you but I'm sure you understand currently 'R' is currently top of the list of people to see when I am free . :happyhear

    Depending on how busy the rest of the day is I might be able to post back before this evening.

    Forgot to give hugs out last night so hug2.gifhug2.gifhug2.gifhug2.gif

    Take care all.
    Hug provider for depression thread :grouphug:
    "I'm not crazy, I'm just a little unwell.." - Unwell by Matchbox Twenty
  • EthelBloggs
    EthelBloggs Posts: 2,740 Forumite
    CCStar wrote:
    I have been talkative tonight for the first time in ages - a bit manic. Must be the packing.

    I'm making a Thanksgiving meal for later - I am English but do like the American food and culture.

    For dinner

    Southern Fried Chicken
    Mash
    Roast Sweet Potato
    Sweetcorn
    Cranberry Sauce

    Pudding

    Peach Cobbler - had this in Atlanta and it is fab
    with cream or ice cream.

    Will make popcorn, have peanuts and marshmallows for nibbles.

    Cooking that in between packing and posting on here

    Feeling manic just now:D


    oooh.. can I come up to yours for dinner? sounds loveeeeeeeeeely!!!! Cant reember the last time I had a proper meal.. cept when i go to me mums, lol
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