depression

Horasio

feelinggood wrote:

Glad you are getting closer, thats very positive! Keep us informed

Random note, I think I've found my muse.

Yes I am curious about this muse too

feelinggood_2

CCStar wrote:

Yes I am curious about this muse too

Its just a guy who seems to inspire me - he makes me think about things, helps me understand. I like who I am with him. No future tho

Horasio

feelinggood wrote:

Its just a guy who seems to inspire me - he makes me think about things, helps me understand. I like who I am with him. No future tho

Oh yes, I have had them.

I bet if you lived with him, he would be just as annoying as any other man.

Use this feeling to inspire you and be glad you don't have to do his smelly washing

feelinggood_2

CCStar wrote:

Oh yes, I have had them.

I bet if you lived with him, he would be just as annoying as any other man.

Use this feeling to inspire you and be glad you don't have to do his smelly washing

Yeah I know, its just hard to remember all that when I really really want him lol. Men eh, can't live with 'em, can't live without 'em!

At least he (probably) knows how to use a washing machine and cook, unlike someone! Grrr

Miroslav

:wave:

Can someone find me something to punch that won't hurt

Flatmate and I aren't getting along again. Had I not found out by accident, I wouldn't have known she was meeting 'S' for lunch today, instead of her going to the funeral. So I sent a nice text message saying I was thinking of her today as I knew it was going to be hard, and if she wanted to talk tomorrow, then i'd be there for her.

I got no reply from 'S', THEN I find out flatmate is meeting her for lunch, instead of 'S' going to the funeral, so my message was not needed at all, so she hasn't replied, and is instead probably thinking i'm a total barnpot!

To make things worse, when I heard, I had even more doubts over meeting her tomorrow, told my flatmate I was thinking of cancelling, and that I would tell 'S' once i'd thought about it, so I was on my way to an appointment, walking part of the way with flatmate who was going elsewhere, and flatmate goes "I'll tell her" in an angry voice, so I now have no idea what she is going to say.

I've text flatmate, telling her to say nothing, but she hasn't replied, so i'm left hanging!

I bumped into flatmate again, as routes clashed........I just looked at her, nodded by head sideways and walked on.

:wall: :mad: :wall: :mad:

I've had my 1st counselling assessment today, and the lady said I should meet 'S' but now, flatmate may have ruined it, or my stupid SMS may have :mad: :wall: :mad: :wall:

feelinggood_2

Miroslav wrote:

:wave:

Can someone find me something to punch that won't hurt

Flatmate and I aren't getting along again. Had I not found out by accident, I wouldn't have known she was meeting 'S' for lunch today, instead of her going to the funeral. So I sent a nice text message saying I was thinking of her today as I knew it was going to be hard, and if she wanted to talk tomorrow, then i'd be there for her.

I got no reply from 'S', THEN I find out flatmate is meeting her for lunch, instead of 'S' going to the funeral, so my message was not needed at all, so she hasn't replied, and is instead probably thinking i'm a total barnpot!

To make things worse, when I heard, I had even more doubts over meeting her tomorrow, told my flatmate I was thinking of cancelling, and that I would tell 'S' once i'd thought about it, so I was on my way to an appointment, walking part of the way with flatmate who was going elsewhere, and flatmate goes "I'll tell her" in an angry voice, so I now have no idea what she is going to say.

I've text flatmate, telling her to say nothing, but she hasn't replied, so i'm left hanging!

I bumped into flatmate again, as routes clashed........I just looked at her, nodded by head sideways and walked on.

:wall: :mad: :wall: :mad:

I've had my 1st counselling assessment today, and the lady said I should meet 'S' but now, flatmate may have ruined it, or my stupid SMS may have :mad: :wall: :mad: :wall:

I didn't really understand much of that, but if you are saying what I think you are saying, I can't see it going that wrong. If your flatmate does tell her you don't want to see her, you can just text S and tell her that it was crossed wires. What made you think she was going to a funeral?

Miroslav

feelinggood wrote:

I didn't really understand much of that, but if you are saying what I think you are saying, I can't see it going that wrong. If your flatmate does tell her you don't want to see her, you can just text S and tell her that it was crossed wires. What made you think she was going to a funeral?

She was going to a funeral, but didn't want too, but felt she had too. Obviously she's decided not to go now, but flatmate knew this, and knew I was going to text her my best wishes for today, but didn't tell me, so I went ahead and text

No idea what is going on now, I may as well just leave like I was going to anyway. No future here anymore.

Oh well, it was nice, for all 8 days!

Ciao! :wave:

feelinggood_2

Miroslav wrote:

She was going to a funeral, but didn't want too, but felt she had too. Obviously she's decided not to go now, but flatmate knew this, and knew I was going to text her my best wishes for today, but didn't tell me, so I went ahead and text

No idea what is going on now, I may as well just leave like I was going to anyway. No future here anymore.

Oh well, it was nice, for all 8 days!

Ciao! :wave:

I think its nice that you sent the text, it shows you are thinking about her. I'm sure she would appreciate that even tho she didn't go. If I were here, I'd think that was nice. Just take things slowly and try not to worry about it.

Sorry things aren't good with your flatmate. How close are she and S?

can_it_be_different

Hi all,

Kind of been a lurker on this site (picking up money saving tips) for a while now but have decided to make a post here because of some other issues (and it is not really related to money so not sure if it is relevant or not)

But will try anyway. Basically I am feeling and have been feeling very down and depressed for months now, and just seem to have nothing to live for bar my family. I am not contemplating anything serious I am just fed up being alone and sad. I live in a small remote area on the West Coast and it is a place where everyone knows everyone and no way am I going to see Doctor as I know them well. Not sure it is anything a doc can help with anyway.

The thing is I see myself as a nice, intelligent young and fun guy - but never feel fun when I am alone and lonely. But problem is I was bullied all through school life and have severe confidence problems, and don't go out much. It means that I have no real friends - mates but no friends. And do not particularly get on with the people who go out around me as they were the ones I had issues with during my school years. Although I am in mid 20s now.

It may not sound right but I need someone to care for and to be cared for by, but just cannot find that someone. Tried online 'dating' sites but it is difficult living where I do as it is not easy to get to population centres. Do you think it is not good to actively look for someone? I thought it may just happen but it never has.

Just being alone makes me so sad and I do not know what to do. I am contemplating moving to a big city just so I can get away from baggage and reminders at home and get myself out among people but not sure if this is such a good idea. Any opinions

Sorry if this post is anappropriate but any guidance appreciated - even pointing me in direction of a better medium for my issues.

feelinggood_2

Hey Can_it_be_different, nice to have you here.

I'm not the best person for advice really, but I would say keep trying to find someone, there isn't any harm in trying!

If you ever do start thinking things, please come and post here, alot of us have been there.

We're always here, if you want a rant or a shoulder to cry on. I'm sure one of the other guys will be back soon to offer more advice

I've got no real friends, and it does hurt. I'm just not very good with people, struggle to trust people, and I end up doing something wrong. Alot of the stems from being bullied too.

Once again, welcome Just jummp straight in to the conversation, I for one always appreciate another persons opinions on things