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CCStar wrote:I feel blooming lonely most of the time too and I have a husband, so being alone isn't the issue. I feel a void most of the time.
He won't talk to me and he certainly has bad communication skills
My flatmate has bad communication skills. I'm the only male friend she has, and she's not like it with females, although she got aggressive with my ex.
Everything she says is leading, and if things go wrong, it's my fault.
She also does nothing around the place, and I can't ever do anything right.
Sounds like your husband?0 -
I have never understood why women go for b'stards. I would rather be alone than be with a b'stard. I thought my husband was a kind and friendly person but he isn't.:(Miroslav wrote:It does my head in too. I just want to meet a nice female who wants to be loved and cared for, and will do the same in return.
I've met 'S' now, but that's just for friendship. It's more than I had, and I didn't think i'd ever meet another nice girl. It's cool we are going to have fun, with no strings, but also support each other. My next target is a nice young lady, who realises I have baggage, and also appreciates I don't want a sexual relationship yet.
Expecting too much I know, it's taken me nearly 15 years to find a supportive friend. I don't include my flatmate as i'm more supportive to her, or my ex, who basically was a nasty person who took advantage of me.An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T
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:eek::mad: :beer:
I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.0 -
He blames me for his faults and why he has failed. He is 12 years older than me and I didn't know him for his young life.Miroslav wrote:My flatmate has bad communication skills. I'm the only male friend she has, and she's not like it with females, although she got aggressive with my ex.
Everything she says is leading, and if things go wrong, it's my fault.
She also does nothing around the place, and I can't ever do anything right.
Sounds like your husband?
How is she leading? He does things now and again but he needs asking.
If I am happy, he will put the 'face' on and argues about his right to be him and why should he be happy just because I am.? I dare not show my happy feelings around him.An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :rotfl: :rotfl: :eek::mad: :beer:
I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.0 -
CCStar wrote:I have never understood why women go for b'stards. I would rather be alone than be with a b'stard. I thought my husband was a kind and friendly person but he isn't.:(
Forgive me if you've said this before, but how long were you with your husband, before you married?0 -
CCStar wrote:He blames me for his faults and why he has failed. He is 12 years older than me and I didn't know him for his young life.
How is she leading? He does things now and again but he needs asking.
If I am happy, he will put the 'face' on and argues about his right to be him and why should he be happy just because I am.? I dare not show my happy feelings around him.
Well, it's his own insecurities, not your fault.
She asks leading questions and when making joint decisions about things around the place, she makes the decisions and basically tells me to agree :rotfl:
Sounds like another bloke who just wants to have someone at home to make him feel manly. Sad really.0 -
He is still giving me the silent treatment and not going to solve it. He has gone to bed. I feel he is being cruel. I shall stay very cool with him. Not being happy is the only way I can cope, otherwise I am setting myself up for a fall. Being happy with a ice cold lemon would test anyone!
I was starting to feel OK again after my bad cold and now he's being a c*nt. I can't take this:(An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :rotfl: :rotfl: :eek::mad: :beer:
I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.0 -
CCStar wrote:He is still giving me the silent treatment and not going to solve it. He has gone to bed. I feel he is being cruel. I shall stay very cool with him. Not being happy is the only way I can cope, otherwise I am setting myself up for a fall. Being happy with a ice cold lemon would test anyone!
I was starting to feel OK again after my bad cold and now he's being a c*nt. I can't take this:(
It's sad when you have be miserable, because if you are happy, someone will make sure it doesn't last :mad:
Cut all his shirts up, that'll teach him..........not very money saving though 0 -
I knew him for 6 months. I should have seen the signs but as I was having a hellish time with my hormones, I blamed my mother and thought being married would solve it, or at least get away from home. I couldn't afford to live alone, and thought my husband cared, so felt I would have support and a home.Miroslav wrote:Forgive me if you've said this before, but how long were you with your husband, before you married?
He never copes with me when I am low and he either goes quiet or rants. I can't cope with it when he does that.
I had a very bad period which made me feel very depressed early in our relationship and I needed him to reassure me. He didn't and I felt he didn't care. Ever since, I felt very insecure and he never really reassured me. I thought by being married etc it would solve it.
After we got married, he blew hot and cold with me. I felt happy to start with but him being all odd with me, upset me. He never did any cleaning and we both worked full time. I told him I didn't do ALL the housework and I am not a housewife. I felt tired and he was horrible to me when I wanted to goto bed early. Sex was a minefield and he frequently rejected me and never made a move.
He is still giving me the silent treatment. I usually go and see him but I don't want to. He has been a prize c*nt tonight and he's blaming me.
I wish there was somewhere I could go so I can relax away from here. I feel really tense. I really hate the way he is treating meAn average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :rotfl: :rotfl: :eek::mad: :beer:
I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.0 -
CCStar, sorry things are hard
I'm not the most useful person tonight, so I won't offer any pearls of wisdom heheStay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.0 -
I wish - lol, as u say not very money saving.Miroslav wrote:It's sad when you have be miserable, because if you are happy, someone will make sure it doesn't last :mad:
Cut all his shirts up, that'll teach him..........not very money saving though
I am finding it hard to cope with this tension. I know if I see him he will be OK but he made it this bad, not me.
He wears me out. That is why I can't be bothered half the time. I feel he will ruin anything nice.An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :rotfl: :rotfl: :eek::mad: :beer:
I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.0
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