depression

Miroslav

Okay...........I kinda agreed to text her and let her know how I felt it went.

What do I say?

I want to say I was nervous, but she made me feel comfortable, I enjoyed it, very excited about meeting up again soon, but also very nervous.

Sazbo

Hey Miro - sorry I'm so late checking back in with you, I've had a really long day, but I have been sending you positive vibes whenever I had the chance!! So glad to hear the initial meeting went ok, or even, went well! I had a feeling somehow it would.

I don't see why you shouldn't text her and say exactly that - that you enjoyed meeting up, that she made you feel comfortable and would like to meet again. If it was me I'd feel reassured by that, without feeling pressured. I do wish you all the very best.

Please forgive me if I don't post a lot tonight as I'm a bit knackered (as I'm sure you are too!) and I need to crash before too long. But I just wanted to say well done and I hope it all works out for you.

And to all the rest of you good folk bigs hugs and I hope you're all doing ok.

love, Saz xx

Miroslav

Okay, so I text her with all of the above, and I told my flatmate that's what I was gonna say, and she said that was fine.

Hopefully, I worded it right, it took 2 messages, but I didn't think that was too much. I'm not expecting a reply as she rarely has credit.

Spoken a little to flatmate since, who agrees it went very well and is pleased it did.

I'm gonna call her 'girlie' from now, as opposed to 'This Girl'

So.............girlie was really nice, kept saying sorry when she thought she said too much.

I'm glad it went really well, I just hope she really does want to get to know me and wasn't just saying it

I feel kinda weird, not knowing, but the plans we thought of, and the things we said we could do, have me really excited.

Miroslav

Sazbo wrote:

Hey Miro - sorry I'm so late checking back in with you, I've had a really long day, but I have been sending you positive vibes whenever I had the chance!! So glad to hear the initial meeting went ok, or even, went well! I had a feeling somehow it would.

I don't see why you shouldn't text her and say exactly that - that you enjoyed meeting up, that she made you feel comfortable and would like to meet again. If it was me I'd feel reassured by that, without feeling pressured. I do wish you all the very best.

Please forgive me if I don't post a lot tonight as I'm a bit knackered (as I'm sure you are too!) and I need to crash before too long. But I just wanted to say well done and I hope it all works out for you.

And to all the rest of you good folk bigs hugs and I hope you're all doing ok.

love, Saz xx

It was excellent Thanks.

We cross posted. I did text, but as I said in last post, won't expect a reply too soon. Poor girl is poorer than me! And i'm poor

No worries about not posting much, I am indeed tired too. Emotionally tired more than anything.

Speak soon :wave:

Sazbo

Miroslav wrote:

I'm glad it went really well, I just hope she really does want to get to know me and wasn't just saying it

I feel kinda weird, not knowing, but the plans we thought of, and the things we said we could do, have me really excited.

Well from what little I know, she doesn't sound like the sort of person that would just be saying it. And it is exciting! Remember to breathe and as you said yourself - go with the flow...

Sx

Miroslav

Sazbo wrote:

Well from what little I know, she doesn't sound like the sort of person that would just be saying it. And it is exciting! Remember to breathe and as you said yourself - go with the flow...

Sx

I guess i'm going to be nervous for a while. It takes me ages to believe someone likes me.

We'll see how it goes. It all sounded great, let's just hope it happens!

Horasio

feelinggood wrote:

Mmm, scared everyone off hehe
Hope everyone is alright, and Miroslav, thinking about you!

I'm off to the pub tonight, so I'm drinking now to get me in the mood hehe.
Bit down, but alright. Need to have a shower and stuff, but can't be bothered.

I wasn't scared off, had a few pesky jobs to do. I hope you had a good evening.

Horasio

Miroslav wrote:

Well..........

We got there, before her, and she arrived, said hello, and I cacked myself.

When we got upstairs, it took me 20 minutes to say anything (My flatmate and her did most of the talking, and I was nodding and yeah'ing), when I did, she admitted she was very nervous, and we talked about good things, how we feel when down, what we are going to do in the future, complimented each other, and basically understood each other. She's a bit crazy when with the few girlfriends she knows, loud, very forward but friendly, flatmate says it's her way of not letting anyone push her around and her way of coping, but she was very friendly and was very sweet the whole time. I think she is manic because it's her way of coping. She said it was excellent I wasn't like other men (and i'm more like a female than a male!), we're going to go watch football, go to each other's flats and do things (NO! Not That!), do things together like shopping, cinema etc, go for trips out.

We even swapped numbers!!! :j

She held out the hand to shake goodbye, before rubbing my shoulder as well, as she left

Whether I will hear anything again Well, she seemed genuine and flatmate says she was.

It confirmed to me, a friend like her would be better than any sexual relationship. She's coping well, although admits she struggles and was nervous of meeting me, but is glad she has.

:j :j :j :j :j :j :j :j :j

I just hope she does contact me and she meant what she said. She said it was okay for me to text her, as I said I would do later to say thanks........because i'm polite

If she meant what she said, I reckon i've found a great friend here. I'll go slow, be very nervous, but I hope this works out, cos she's great

It sounds like it went well. It will take time but I think she likes you.:T

Sazbo

Miroslav wrote:

I guess i'm going to be nervous for a while. It takes me ages to believe someone likes me.

We'll see how it goes. It all sounded great, let's just hope it happens!

You deserve to be happy as much as anyone else. So here's hoping! :money: :j

Sx

Horasio

Miroslav wrote:

Well, as a male, I like women, not just sexually, but also I find it easier to get along with females. Males I rarely talk too, no time for the old pals, macho, egotistical, acts.

That macho sh*t really gets on my nerves - it does nothing for me.