depression

feelinggood_2

Where are you all :-p

Miroslav

Well..........

We got there, before her, and she arrived, said hello, and I cacked myself.

When we got upstairs, it took me 20 minutes to say anything (My flatmate and her did most of the talking, and I was nodding and yeah'ing), when I did, she admitted she was very nervous, and we talked about good things, how we feel when down, what we are going to do in the future, complimented each other, and basically understood each other. She's a bit crazy when with the few girlfriends she knows, loud, very forward but friendly, flatmate says it's her way of not letting anyone push her around and her way of coping, but she was very friendly and was very sweet the whole time. I think she is manic because it's her way of coping. She said it was excellent I wasn't like other men (and i'm more like a female than a male!), we're going to go watch football, go to each other's flats and do things (NO! Not That!), do things together like shopping, cinema etc, go for trips out.

We even swapped numbers!!! :j

She held out the hand to shake goodbye, before rubbing my shoulder as well, as she left

Whether I will hear anything again Well, she seemed genuine and flatmate says she was.

It confirmed to me, a friend like her would be better than any sexual relationship. She's coping well, although admits she struggles and was nervous of meeting me, but is glad she has.

:j :j :j :j :j :j :j :j :j

I just hope she does contact me and she meant what she said. She said it was okay for me to text her, as I said I would do later to say thanks........because i'm polite

If she meant what she said, I reckon i've found a great friend here. I'll go slow, be very nervous, but I hope this works out, cos she's great

flis21

Miro - well congrats, it sounds like it went really well and she really does like you. You must feel so much better now. When do you think you will see her next?

Miroslav

flis21 wrote:

Miro - well congrats, it sounds like it went really well and she really does like you. You must feel so much better now. When do you think you will see her next?

I hope she likes me. She's really sweet. I wouldn't say g/f material, although you never know, but a good friend most definitely. She is girly, to a point, but because of all her problems, she's very determined, but in the same way very nervous, and she's glad she's met me now, a guy who is very very different to other guys she's been around.

I have no idea when I will see her next, i've left the ball in her court. She said 'soon', and we talked about lots of things we could do, so i'm hoping soon is within 2 weeks? Am I hoping for too much? Soon, tomorrow would be great. My flatmate will see her Friday, and she'll report back any feedback.

My worry now, is until she phones me, I'm gonna be scared she'll never want to be with me again, although I feel it went well.

feelinggood_2

Just popping in to say well done Miro!!x
xx

Miroslav

CCStar wrote:

You say you feel rampant. Does your husband appreciate it? Mine wasn't so rampant, so felt sooo frustrated most of the time and felt he was trying to control me. I thought men wanted sex more than women, so was so upset and confused.

Sometimes sex can be a temporary relief from the misery but it is tiring.

Alot of men do, but i'm not ready for it yet. I still get sexual fantasies, but wouldn't be able to. I hope I meet a lady who is patient..........or just a lady would be a start

Miroslav

CCStar wrote:

That reminded me of the scene from 'There is something about Mary', where he was nervous before his date and he relieved himself:D

Shame I have no hair, as without any, what would I say it was? Shaving Foam?

Miroslav

CCStar wrote:

It is 4.35pm - I hope all is OK:)

At your time of posting, I was just getting into conversation

Miroslav

CCStar wrote:

It is understandable you liking women after what happened. I like the company of women but not sexually attracted to them, never was.

Well, as a male, I like women, not just sexually, but also I find it easier to get along with females. Males I rarely talk too, no time for the old pals, macho, egotistical, acts.

Miroslav

CCStar wrote:

I shouldn't laugh but the thought of squeaky shoes:D

I think the excessive indulgence of sex is a form of escape and control

The new ones didn't squeak

I'm out of the sex now, I just want friendships. If anything else happens, over time, then so be it, but not yet.