depression

Miroslav

feelinggood wrote:

I personally wouldn't shake hands, just a nod and a smile I think is best. Some people don't like having to shake hands, might make her feel a little bit uncomfortable.

If things go well, I'd just casually mention that you'd like to do this again, if she seems keen, then say, do you want me number to let me know when your free? That way, it leaves her in control, and lets her think about things, which she will probably want to if she isn't used to nice guys.

Try not to fret (easier said than done!), try and be yourself. You don't have to try and prove anything, or be anyone, or say anything witty or funny. Just be you - hopefully she'll be able to see how nice and genuine you are.

What time is it tomorrow? Will you be back to let us know?

Okay, unless she wants to shake hands, i'll smile and say hello and be polite. I'm paying and I know she'll try and pay, so i'm gonna have to insist, but nicely.........I could say, you can pay next time Like what i've done there?

I'll speak to my flatmate as to what I should do, before we get there, if certain situations occur. I can't make plans, as it may go wrong........or she could meet me, stick her tongue down my throat......if she can reach and tell me Brad Pitt has nothing on me :rotfl: .......then i'll be the one who wants out :rotfl:

I'll be me.......thing is, I joke around alot, especially when nervous

It's 4pm tomorrow, so at 4pm, send positive vibes my way and pray for success!

rose07

Miroslav wrote:

It is Tuesday tomorrow

What happens if we meet (remember my f/m8 will be there) and we talk and stuff, but afterwards we just say goodbye? Would it be too forwards to say i'd like to meet again? What do I do..........tell her to go through my f/m8, give her my number........???? Never had to do this before

I hope I am 'normal', I mean, I could make a prat of myself, or not say much, or make her think I was after something else

My flatmate will introduce us......

Hello, i'm Miroslav, it's lovely to meet you? (Shake hand???)



If it goes ahead

ok lets go through a few steps

1... your flat mate introduces you

2, you say hi, my name is miroslav, nice to meet you.

3. she will say, hi

4, you say, so how are you?

5, she will prob say im fine.

now usually this is the point wher people dont know what to say....

dont clam up.

think about something you like and talk about it. or think of something you both have in common and talk about it, if your flat mate will be there i am sure she will tilt things in the right direction,

and when you leave. say i hope to see you soon, give me a ring if you would like to talk or meet up for a drink anytime, (give her your number).

then, erm, thats it i think, oh you could hug here if you want, depends how you feel.

hope this helps ya

will be thinkng of you.
xxx

feelinggood_2

Miroslav wrote:

Okay, unless she wants to shake hands, i'll smile and say hello and be polite. I'm paying and I know she'll try and pay, so i'm gonna have to insist, but nicely.........I could say, you can pay next time Like what i've done there?

I'll speak to my flatmate as to what I should do, before we get there, if certain situations occur. I can't make plans, as it may go wrong........or she could meet me, stick her tongue down my throat......if she can reach and tell me Brad Pitt has nothing on me :rotfl: .......then i'll be the one who wants out :rotfl:

I'll be me.......thing is, I joke around alot, especially when nervous

It's 4pm tomorrow, so at 4pm, send positive vibes my way and pray for success!

Sounds good, Will be thinking about you at 4pm!

Miroslav

rose07 wrote:

ok lets go through a few steps

1... your flat mate introduces you

2, you say hi, my name is miroslav, nice to meet you.

3. she will say, hi

4, you say, so how are you?

5, she will prob say im fine.

now usually this is the point wher people dont know what to say....

dont clam up.

think about something you like and talk about it. or think of something you both have in common and talk about it, if your flat mate will be there i am sure she will tilt things in the right direction,

and when you leave. say i hope to see you soon, give me a ring if you would like to talk or meet up for a drink anytime, (give her your number).

then, erm, thats it i think, oh you could hug here if you want, depends how you feel.

hope this helps ya

will be thinkng of you.
xxx

1-5 sounds good

Well, she likes Shakira and Buffy, and I erm.........like both, maybe I could say something funny about that "Remember, when you watch Buffy, Sarah Michelle is already taken by me, so hands off"

I was hoping to give her my number..........I wouldn't ask for hers.

I won't attempt to hug, too much I think, unless she dives on me of course

feelinggood_2

I'm silly aren't I, I'm getting all nervous for you miroslav!!

Miroslav

feelinggood wrote:

Sounds good, Will be thinking about you at 4pm!

Early night tonight, hope to get some sleep. Up around 10am maybe........wash all over, every last hair and pimple, hair wash, shave, brush teeth, make sure I smell nice, cack myself until 3.30 when flatmate and I walk down there, then on way double cack myself, and triple cack myself when I meet her

I'm cack at this

Sazbo

feelinggood wrote:

Sounds good, Will be thinking about you at 4pm!

Yes, we will be sending you positive vibes at 4pm! Know it's hard but try not to plan out every eventuality, it might just make you feel more stressed. Once you've got chatting, you'll be able to gauge better how to play things... HTH, Saz x

Miroslav

feelinggood wrote:

I'm silly aren't I, I'm getting all nervous for you miroslav!!

Don't you get nervous, you're making me nervous

Sazbo

Jeez this site is slow tonight - it's like wading through treacle. Or maybe it's just me LOL :rotfl:

Miroslav

Sazbo wrote:

Yes, we will be sending you positive vibes at 4pm! Know it's hard but try not to plan out every eventuality, it might just make you feel more stressed. Once you've got chatting, you'll be able to gauge better how to play things... HTH, Saz x

Okay, will try not to plan and let it go naturally........gonna chew flatmate's ear and see if get some hints about her

Although she seems to be bored of me asking