depression

feelinggood_2

Miroslav wrote:

Never had a really nice dentist, but this one seems the best i've had, on 1st impressions. He's either German, Austrian or somewhere around there

Try and see if you can get another dentist?

I'm only looking positively as i've been given a bit of hope. As soon as it goes wrong, i'll fall again

Sad thing is, I'll see it as a reflection on me, as I never get on with people, so it must be something to do with me

There isn't any other dentists in my area. I always go funny after having anestitic, and she brushed it off as me having a phobia of needles. I think I'd know if it was a phobia! I'm fine with all other injections. Last time I went, I cried the whole way thru the extraction and they all looked at me odd. Its just a weird thing, when I have the anestitic, I cry and go faint. My other dentist understood that!

I don't think its anything to do with you, you seem really nice, and anyone would be lucky to have you as a friend. Why do you think you don't get on with people?

rose07

CCStar wrote:

I dont understand what this is meant to mean.

I do hope I am not being ganged up on. Rose and I sorted it ages ago and don't want to get involved with a third party about it. I stated my opinion about what was said to me, it was not an attack and she seemed to be OK with it. I don't like people, saying they will set others on others. It is a form of ganging up and I don't agree with it.

I am glad to give a sympathetic ear to people and stand up for people whom I feel have been attacked, there was someone earlier who attacked another member and basically dissed this thread. Perhaps you could use your energies for dealing with her. She posted as a wind up we think. It was certainly a trigger for a lot of people.

I have issues with feeling ganged up on and won't post here again and take appropriate action, if I feel I am.

Hey CCStar

how you doing?
i dont like to see anyone feel like they are being picked on and upset.

this thread is not for that.

i am glad we have sorted things out as everyone here is part of a team, and if one person gets upset or one part of us falls away well,. . . . its like a necklace full of beads and one of the beads dissappearing, withhout all the beads it would not be complete, (am i making any sense here, i admit i have funny logic. lol)

and i wouldnt have thought that, ... actually no i know tiff wouldnt have wanted to upset you in any way, as i know she values you all like i do. x

there are some people that think its great to wind people up, we are not here for that.

and i understand you may feel threatened if you feel like you are being ganged up on, but we are not against you we are with you.
does this all come from a childhood experience?,

i have quite bad paranoia around this time of year and it makes me feel all kinds and see all kinds a things

no offence meant and we are all here together
take care
x

feelinggood_2

Silly silly heart, stop feeling all emotional!

Any tips on how to take my mind off someone I'm missing?

rose07

Miroslav wrote:

Hello

Im going to do a tiff....lol

I've learnt alot about her tonight, after my flatmate visited her She has so little She lives so basically, has very little, other than an ex b/f who leeches and she's had a terrible life
glad you have learnt alot about her, maybe she likes things simple, try not to worry too much about thingsas the more you worry the more you will think of how many things can go wrong.

My flatmate says she has very little, but doesn't accept many people in her life, especially ones who want her for just her, as she doesn't understand why they want her Nowhere to go at Xmas
sounds like she may have depression too, you both can either be a greeat team and help each other, but this starts with helping ourselves first. why dont you spend christmas together?

We are all going to meet Tuesday for coffee. I know she won't like me, but hey
this is great a step in the right direction and you are able to see her, but breathe, 1..... 2.........3.

I hope in time she'll like me. I want to help her even more now........she has barely any money, barely eats, and literally just enough in her flat to fill a suitcase She just doesn't accept help. My flatmate can help there though, she seems to have got 'in' past the barriers.
who wouldnt like you, you seem like you are a great guy and there arent many of you left so just be yourself and try, sounds like you feel sorry for her, and this is not a great basis for a relationship, keep positive hun.


I'm now gonna wet myself until Tuesday I know she won't like me, I just know it.

god you are going to have no clothes left... lol :rotfl: , or alot of washing to do.

take care
xxx

Sazbo

rose07 wrote:

Hey CCStar

how you doing?
i dont like to see anyone feel like they are being picked on and upset.

this thread is not for that.

i am glad we have sorted things out as everyone here is part of a team, and if one person gets upset or one part of us falls away well,. . . . its like a necklace full of beads and one of the beads dissappearing, withhout all the beads it would not be complete, (am i making any sense here, i admit i have funny logic. lol)

and i wouldnt have thought that, ... actually no i know tiff wouldnt have wanted to upset you in any way, as i know she values you all like i do. x

there are some people that think its great to wind people up, we are not here for that.

and i understand you may feel threatened if you feel like you are being ganged up on, but we are not against you we are with you.
does this all come from a childhood experience?,

i have quite bad paranoia around this time of year and it makes me feel all kinds and see all kinds a things

no offence meant and we are all here together
take care
x

Hiya rose, I was wondering how you were today - you had a very early start this morning if I recall correctly? Hope you had a good day.

CCStar I think rose is right, I genuinely don't think anything was meant as ganging up, maybe it was a crossed wire as sometimes happens on message boards. But we're all here for each other. Take care x

fg - I totally understand you not wanting to go back to that dentist, but you really should get that tooth seen to hun.

Bigs hugs to everyone, and miroslav all the best for tomorrow but I'm sure you'll be fine.

I'm leaving work in a minute. Didn't sleep too good last night so have been feeling a bit wrecked today. I'll catch up with you all again later when I'm back home.

Take care all, Saz xxx

rose07

feelinggood wrote:

Silly silly heart, stop feeling all emotional!

Any tips on how to take my mind off someone I'm missing?

distractions
nice bath, creativity, dinner, food, tele, reading, music, erm i will keep thinking
much love huni
xxx

Sazbo

gillette147 wrote:

Hello everybody xx (for the girls),

I've had a hectic morning getting ready to go to germany. I've got 10mins before taxi comes. I feel alot better today. You lot and a friend have realy brought me back to normal-ish.
I wish i could read the tons of stuff you've all posted in the last 12 hrs - you all must be the gobbiest members - lol.

I will look when i get back (could take a few hours by then).

Bye xx
(for the girls - look just take it as a handshake/slap on the back for the lads)

Hey there Gillette, hope you have a safe trip. And don't work too hard in Germany. Glad to hear you're feeling a bit better about things. If it helps, keep posting and chatting when you return... in a blokey sort of way, o'course!

rose07

hi saz
how are you?
oh yes i will tell ya bout me day later
hope you have a alright time at work? what do you do, if you dont mind me asking?
oh im good at questions today, lol;)
xxx

feelinggood_2

rose07 wrote:

distractions
nice bath, creativity, dinner, food, tele, reading, music, erm i will keep thinking
much love huni
xxx

I don't want to stopping thinking about them tho, I want to talk to them lol.
I'm sad aren't I! :rotfl:

Sazbo

LOL that's ok I don't mind rose! I edit stuff - really, really boring, but the up side is that I can go on the net and pretend it's "research" know what I mean?! :whistle: :shhh: Catch up with you later, Saz x