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OH Advice please.. bit long!!

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  • emsywoo123
    emsywoo123 Posts: 5,440 Forumite
    Money_maker wrote: »
    But if the cleaner knows nothing...:confused:

    Where did he go?

    I assume he did go to the cleaners, but she was upstairs and didnt answer the door. He was going round to see her. That is what I assume OP meant?
  • woof_12
    woof_12 Posts: 24 Forumite
    mumslave wrote: »
    no it wont stop him but will make it harder for him, ie no excuse to pop down to the 'cleaners'. Have you challenged him about the cleaner? Any other signs something might be going on? If he is into her, it sounds like she isnt him, or she would have gone along with his lie about the money.


    He is home alone all day so who knows what goes on!
  • emsywoo123
    emsywoo123 Posts: 5,440 Forumite
    woof_12 wrote: »
    Thats the answer I would like!!

    Have you asked him?
  • woof_12
    woof_12 Posts: 24 Forumite
    emsywoo123 wrote: »
    I assume he did go to the cleaners, but she was upstairs and didnt answer the door. He was going round to see her. That is what I assume OP meant?


    yep...that right
  • emsywoo123
    emsywoo123 Posts: 5,440 Forumite
    woof_12 wrote: »
    He is home alone all day so who knows what goes on!

    Oooooo I'd have to think long and hard about this, is this is what I thought about my OH.......:confused:
  • woof_12
    woof_12 Posts: 24 Forumite
    emsywoo123 wrote: »
    Have you asked him?


    yep.. lots of head shrugging and mubbling never really got an answer tbh...

    Then all the stuff with the text I just felt like giving up with him!
  • snapping_crocodile
    snapping_crocodile Posts: 839 Forumite
    woof_12 wrote: »
    Thats the answer I would like!!

    Well unfortunately we can't give you an answer, you really need to talk to him again. Have you spoken to the friend he said he was off to see to ask whether they had planned to meet up?
  • woof_12
    woof_12 Posts: 24 Forumite
    yep.. see above!!!
  • Bogof_Babe
    Bogof_Babe Posts: 10,803 Forumite
    Next time she's due to come and clean I suggest you pop home unexpectedly.
    :D I haven't bogged off yet, and I ain't no babe :D

  • Barneysmom
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    If he's home alone all day, why do you need a cleaner? Tell him to do some housework in between whatever it is he's doing?
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