Buffy Cracks the Egg Diary 2010

elantan

thought i would pop on by for a lurk then read your post ... have you seen the challenge that is going on the main dfw board? looks like your doing well with it all and we could do with some tips ...

re families oh where would i even attempt to start with mine ... i think all i can say there is ... you cant change someone else you can only change yourself ...and sometimes you dont even need to ... you just need to accept what has happened and move on ... no regrets no guilt cross the line and walk away

Buffythedebtslayer

What challenge Elantan? I could do with a new one! and again freaky - bt I have just literally posted the samething about you can't change people on FB.......it is so true and it is certainly not worth changing me into something I don't want to be - spent far too long doing that.

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elantan

yep i did that too ... hurt myself alot in the process as well ... took me a good long time to find me again ... so i am more determined than ever not to loose me ever again .... its the wake up call challenge on the main dfw board ... just the way you were writting thought you were doing it lol

Buffythedebtslayer

*goes to find the wake up call challenge *

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elantan

https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2499667 there ya go

its not long started so wont take you long to catch up if you decided to join ... not that i am forcing you or anything just saying

Buffythedebtslayer

found it and will read once I am back from work, thanks Elantan xxxxx

Pippajo

Hiya, good plans going on there x

I've been reading the wake up call thread and its spookily what i need right now. I'm just thinking about my targets before i post.

beanielou

For what its worth I think you are right about your sister.
& remember hun its your home/house too not just your mums.
LOve ya hun xxxx

Buffythedebtslayer

Love you too Beanie xxx

Had a busy day, driving lesson, went fairly well, I am not as worried as I used to be. came home had a read some lunch and then went shopping, paid in my 120 pounds of savings (100 in £2 and £20 in £1) plus an overpayment cheque of £87 pounds oh and £3.60 in 20ps!

Then I went shopping..............

new black sandals - £29.99 (old pair have died and are 4 years old)
Dress 15.00
Top 5.00
scales (for e bay) 4.99
Top 5.00
bra 9.00

£68.97

I am almost certainly failing the 100 pound challenge. I have been giving so much to charity that I literally have nothing to wear. I am at the point were I hate clothes (cos I am now properly overweight) I wear black all the time m and s t shirts, I have two other tops one makes me look pregnant, no infact they both do. I have no idea what to wear any more.

Anyhow I am pleased to report that I still have had no chocolate (it was close tho - nearly forgot and had an ice cream) resisted buying 2 more bras, silly shoes and various items that I don't need.

xxxx

hypno06

Well done on resisting the chocolate - you are doing really well :T