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Hypno's "me, me, me, me, me," diary.....

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  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    hugs hun, you are doing so well and banks well we all know what !!!!!! they are!

    :grouphug:
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,132 Ambassador
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    Crapola Hellifax.
    Dont let it detract from an otherwise potitive weekend though.
    Wise words from Z as usual.
    Huggles hun xx
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  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
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    Thanks everyone - I know I'm doing ok really.....I'm a coper, I can get through this. It won't always be easy, but I can do it.
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
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  • skint_spice
    skint_spice Posts: 13,475 Forumite
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    hypno06 wrote: »
    Thanks everyone - I know I'm doing ok really.....I'm a coper, I can get through this. It won't always be easy, but I can do it.

    Also better to break down and weep in the comfort of your own home than over the counter in the branch;). Yes you can do it and we are all here cheering you on.
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  • Wol2
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    Awww Hypno

    There's a lot of emotional pressure building up for you and you've said you don;t want to release it untill you;re ready. But as we all know, sometimes you have to lift the valve on the pressure cooker to release some of it before you open it ....otherwise you end up with a very messy kitchen.

    It's good you have let off a bit of steam tonight - whether it be anger, tears or both....and you had good reason and it was directed towards the right people at the time. You are doing brilliantly and you have in no way let yourself down.

    Keep going Hun :T:T

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  • macgirl
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    have a good old howling session, clear out all that anger, frustration, sadness and grief, better and cheaper than colonic irrigation any day.....

    and pin up a wedding photo in the spare room for darts practice - score 50 if you get the groom in the testicles....

    I like your style Nargle ;)
    ZTD wrote: »
    :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug:

    You are doing well, even though you probably feel that you aren't.

    Yep, hear, hear :T Halifax are sh*te - End of.
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  • You've had a such a positive productive week H. Don't let the bank balls up get you down. You are doing so fantastically, staying positive and in control. As someone else has said its good to let some of the emotion out sometimes, cry, rant, rave, throw darts, whatever feels right for you.

    Stay strong. You've so much support around you, positive vibes are coming at you from all over the country in spade fulls.
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  • InaPickle
    InaPickle Posts: 5,968 Forumite
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    Ugh. That's just rubbish of the Hellifax. They have put you in a horribly embarassing situation for no good reason. I know you gave them both barrels, but I hope they realise the awkwardness this has caused unnecessarily. I know you probably don't have the time/energy, but if you ever get a particularly eloquent angry moment, let rip on paper and send in a scathing complaint (You know how much more attention they give writing complaints). Still, it's not the most important thing here, so focus on you and the kiddiwinkles.

    The huggiest of hugs. xxx
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  • Hypno my heart goes out to you, don't worry honey it will get better and easier eventually. Try to stay strong and sane! cgx
    ps well done on the painting you put me to shame
    CC Debt: Jan 10 £21,660 now £8,170 hurrah!
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,132 Ambassador
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    Hope yopu sleep well & have a happy-ish Monday x
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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
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