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Weekly Flylady Thread 28th December 2009

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  • MrsChaos
    MrsChaos Posts: 2,069 Forumite
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    That's the longest lie-in I've had in ages - got up just after twelve. I didn't drink much last night, so I'm not feeling too bad. Have decluttered breakfast and catching up with the thread may not happen after all. Time to get washed and ready to go out.
    I want to find time today to earn at least one snowman and for some reflection/planning for next year.

    One major issues for 2010 is to get my finances organised. I want to work out a DFD and plan a realistic budget. I know that many flyladies are very experienced with all of this and I wonder if you can help me with some advice. Whatever system I put in place needs to be easy to keep up and not time consuming. I can't afford to get involved long-term with any other threads. Could you tell me what has worked best for you?

    I'm mindful that this is off-topic - maybe you could reply via pm, so it doesn't clutter up this thread? I'd really appreciate your help.

    Apart from that, my list is still quite long:

    Monday ~ Kitchen and Dining Area
    Level One
    Sweep and mop the floor
    Level Two
    Clean the hob and oven
    Clean out the fridge.. – still too full, will aim for Saturday
    Level Three
    Clean out the drawers which house the cutlery and the big utensils – one done
    Dust and deweb
    Wipe over the units and large appliances
    Extras
    1. wash windows
    2. Scrub down any tiles that are looking icky
    3. Wipe over all the small appliances
    Tuesday ~ Living room, Hall and Stairs
    Level One
    DONE
    Level Two
    DONE
    Level Three
    dewebbing
    Wipe sticky marks from sofas and paintwork
    Binbag dance!
    Extras
    1. make a start on those tax forms –they’re DH’s and I really don’t feel like doing anything for him at the moment, so they’ll wait
    Wednesday ~ Master Bedroom and Landing
    Level One
    Strip, wash and replace the bedding!
    Declutter the floordrobe!
    Level Two
    Tidy a chest of drawers or a cupboard
    put all the christmas paper etc in loft ready for stashing away with tree and decorations on Sunday
    Vacuum the floors
    Level Three
    Polish mirrors and windows
    Put away all the bags and shoes that are lurking
    Clear the bedside units/tables/bookpiles
    Extras
    1. Sort through a box of gibble
    2. dust and deweb
    3. Straighten the linen/towel cupboard
    4. Do a small job you have been putting off for weeks and weeks
    Thursday ~ Childrens rooms and the bathroom!
    Level One..
    Collect ALL the dirty laundry
    Clear and mop the bathroom floor
    Throw away all the empties and put the new toiletries in the bathroom in the correct places!
    Level Two
    fill a binbag with rubbish, or stuff that is no longer used for charity shop/bin
    Clean the loo, the bath and the shower and the basins and the bidet and the tiles!
    Wash any shower curtains/bath mat
    shine the taps!
    Level Three
    Vacuum the floor and take down to the kitchen any dirty cups/pots/beakers
    Inspect the childrens rooms and help them make room for their new stuff if they are not old enough to do this themselves! Empty bins etc from upstairs
    Strip and wash childrens bedding
    Extras
    1. Wash any windows in these rooms that need it
    2. Binbag dance
    3. Use up any remaining christmas food before it grows legs and starts running!
    4. HHI.. or more for those trying to complete the challenge!
    OPTIONAL LIST FOR THE MASOCHISTS AMONG US!
    1. Tidy a cupboard or 10 of your choosing!
    2. Run appliances through a clean cycle.. degunk filters etc too
    3. Budget and meal plan for next month.. most of us will be a little strapped for cash.
    4. Wash any grotty windows so you can see out.. and light can get in!
    5. Binbag dance
    6. Make sure homework/uniforms etc are ready for school/work next week
    7. S&S kitchen
    8. Vacuum a neglected floor!
    9. 15 minutes filing/shredding
    10. Call a friend/relative you've not seen in a while
    11. HHC-doing something
    12. Empty out your handbag of receipts etc
    My extras for today:
    Take bday cards to SIL
    cook a roast pork dinner and have one more last-ditch attempt at yorkshire pudds
  • vanilla
    vanilla Posts: 3,277 Forumite
    Just updating list.

    Monday ~ Kitchen and Dining Area
    Level One

    Sweep and mop the floor
    Level Two
    Clean the hob and oven
    Clean out the fridge..
    Extras
    1. wash windows
    Wednesday ~ Master Bedroom and Landing
    Level One
    Strip, wash and replace the bedding!
    Declutter the floordrobe!
    Level Two
    Vacuum the floors
    Level Three
    Polish mirrors and windows
    Clear the bedside units/tables/bookpiles

    Extras
    1. dust and deweb
    2. Do a small job you have been putting off for weeks and weeks
    Thursday ~ Childrens rooms and the bathroom!
    Level Two
    Parents jobs: Clean the loo and the bath and the shower and the basins and the bidet and the tiles!
    Wash any shower curtains/bath mats that are in need
    shine the taps!
    Level Three
    Childrens jobs: Vacuum the floor and take down to the kitchen and dirty cups/pots/beakers
    Parents jobs: Inspect the childrens rooms and help them make room for their new stuff if they are not old enough to do this themselves! If it looks good then they are permitted a reward for their hard work.. :p
    Empty bins etc from upstairs
    Strip and wash childrens bedding

    Extras
    1. Wash any windows in these rooms that need it
    OPTIONAL LIST FOR THE MASOCHISTS AMONG US!
    1. Change any unclean beds
    2. Run appliances through a clean cycle.. degunk filters etc too
    3. Budget and meal plan for next month.. most of us will be a little strapped for cash.
    4. Clean pets out.. and their beds and bowls!
    5. Wash any grotty windows so you can see out.. and light can get in!
    6. Make sure homework/uniforms etc are ready for school/work next week
    7. Vacuum a neglected floor!
    8. 15 minutes filing/shredding
    9. HHC-doing something
    10. Empty out yours handbag of receipts etc
    Sometimes it seems that the going is just too rough.
    And things go wrong no matter what I do.
    Now and then it seems that life is just too much.
    But you've got the love I need to see me through.
    :j :j
  • MrsChaos
    MrsChaos Posts: 2,069 Forumite
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    jinky67 wrote: »

    so do I...we had the most fabulous carrot cake at the Trafford centre last week....best I have ever tasted, it was lovely and moist and the icing was to die for:drool::drool::drool::drool:

    I tried Costco's carrot cake at a friend's a few days ago - it was delicious.
  • AnW'sMum
    AnW'sMum Posts: 4,416 Forumite
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    Showered, DW emptied, lunches made, nice phone call with a friend (and challenge accepted!) Online banking checked and money shuffled.
    MrsChaos wrote: »
    One major issues for 2010 is to get my finances organised......Whatever system I put in place needs to be easy to keep up and not time consuming.

    I use MSMoney to keep track of our finances, have done since we got our first pc back in 2001 :eek: One of the best bits of advice I could give is to get a print out of all your DDs/SOs (from the bank if you can't get a list online) and go through them. Which are necessary and which are luxuries, then how can you go about reducing the cost of any of them ie switching, ditching or renegotiating. Always go through your bank statements and try to note down where all those cash withdrawals are going. It is amazing how much cash gets spent on nothingness. It will take a little time to get into the habit but like flylady it should get easier and quicker. HTH

    Lunch eaten WM about to be fed!:rotfl:
    Official Mascot and Chief Cheerleader for the 'Mortgage Free in Three' Gang :D
  • xx_Jo_xx
    xx_Jo_xx Posts: 2,858 Forumite
    Uniform Washer
    hex2 wrote: »
    Ben does that too despite being well fed. I did some research on it and it is something to do with the high fat content - the equiv of chocolate for dogs apparently. Disgusting!

    Asbo dog is horrendous for all this sort of stuff too - when I asked the Vet about eating poop (He is 3 and still does it), she told me that they see it as 'wasted protein' so they eat it again! :confused: Gross. He eats EVERYTHING and anything. We have to be careful what we leave in his reach. His particular favourites are socks and tissues.....

    They worst thing he has eaten to date was a needle and thread - having to have the needle removed from the vet still didnt teach the daft dog a lesson.

    This past year has been so full of stresses and strains that I dont even want to list them again to be reminded. But I can categorically state that you Flyladies made my life easier in so many ways and helped me in ways I never dreamed. Words cant really convey my gratitude - but FedUp pretty much nailed how I feel.....
    I have filled my glass with wine to raise it to all the Flyladies who supported me through the last year.

    All the friendship and support on here helped me more than I ever imagined.

    Now it is at the end of the year I am ready to say ta ta to it and goodbye and welcome in a New Year.
    Wishing all the Flyers a healthy and happy and prosperous New Year!

    What would I have done without you all - house in order, regimented cleaning easy now! Decluttering away - miles away from where I was a year ago.

    Feeling a positive and happy New Year is on it's way with the New Moon!

    So here I go, raise a glass and say Cheers to you all!
    greenbee wrote: »
    Why am I getting texts from exes I don't want to hear from and not from the one I wouldn't mind 'catching up';) with?:confused::confused:

    Ex Mr Jo felt the need to contact me to - and has done several times.....He got back with her, what the heck does he want me to say?? Muppet.

    xxx
    :)Sometimes lurking, sometimes posting, but always flying:)
    You are supposed to be the leading lady of your own life, for God's sake! - The Holiday
    DFW :idea: August 2013... Debt total £15,475.56 - Jan 15 £11,738.66 - DEBT FREE by 2015
    Feb GC £48.02/£250 (£201.98)
    :D I will declutter my house and debts :D
  • kazmeister
    kazmeister Posts: 3,338 Forumite
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    And my list UPDATE

    [STRIKE]DECLUTTER COFFEE[/STRIKE] - DONE
    Monday ~ Kitchen and Dining Area
    Level One
    Level Two
    Clean out the fridge.. make a note of the lovelies you bought for christmas and have not yet eaten.. work it into a meal plan -
    Level Three
    Extras
    wash windows
    Tuesday ~ Living room, Hall and Stairs THAT'LL BE A LIVING ROOM STAR (or SNOWMAN) THEN PLEASE (although the stairs are hairy again but I'll give them another wipe)
    Level One
    Level Two
    Level Three
    [STRIKE]Wipe and water plants while dewebbing[/STRIKE]!
    [STRIKE]Wipe sticky marks from sofas and paintwork
    [/STRIKE]

    Extras
    Wednesday ~ Master Bedroom and Landing
    Level One
    Strip, wash and replace the bedding!
    Declutter the floordrobe!
    Level Two
    Tidy a chest of drawers or a cupboard
    Stash away all the christmas paper for next year
    Vacuum the floors
    Level Three
    Polish mirrors and windows
    Put away all the bags and shoes that are lurking
    Clear the bedside units/tables/bookpiles
    Extras
    Sort through a box of gibble
    dust and deweb
    [STRIKE]Straighten the linen/towel shelf[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]Do a small job you have been putting off for weeks and weeks[/STRIKE] I put chains back on the bath/sink plugs that fit as for some reason they keep getting misplaced around the bathroom. Also tightened the screws holding the front room door on!
    Thursday ~ Childrens rooms and the bathroom!
    Level One..
    Parent jobs (includes daddy too!): [STRIKE]Clear and mop the bathroom floor[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]Throw away all the empties and put the new toiletries in the bathroom in the correct places![/STRIKE]
    Level Two
    Childrens jobs: fill a binbag with rubbish, or stuff that is no longer used for charity shop/bin - DS has cleared both his floor to ceiling cupboards/wardrobes out and chucked loads
    Parents jobs: [STRIKE]Clean the loo and the bath and the shower and the basins and the bidet and the woodwork![/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]Wash any shower curtains/bath mats that are in need[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]shine the taps[/STRIKE]!
    Level Three
    Childrens jobs: Vacuum the floor and take down to the kitchen and dirty cups/pots/beakers
    Parents jobs: Inspect the childrens rooms and help them make room for their new stuff if they are not old enough to do this themselves! If it looks good then they are permitted a reward for their hard work.. :p
    [STRIKE]Empty bins etc from upstairs[/STRIKE]
    Strip and wash childrens bedding - DS did his just need to change DD's
    Extras
    Wash any windows in these rooms that need it
    Binbag dance
    Use up any remaining christmas food before it grows legs and starts running!
    HHI.. or more for those trying to complete the challenge!
    OPTIONAL LIST FOR THE MASOCHISTS AMONG US!
    Tidy a cupboard or 10 of your choosing!
    Change any unclean beds
    Run appliances through a clean cycle.. degunk filters etc too
    Budget and meal plan for next month.. most of us will be a little strapped for cash.
    Clean pets out.. and their beds and bowls!
    Wash any grotty windows so you can see out.. and light can get in!
    Binbag dance
    Make sure homework/uniforms etc are ready for school/work next week
    S&S kitchen
    Vacuum a neglected floor!
    List 5 things on ebay/freecycle/amazon.. wherever
    15 minutes filing/shredding
    Call a friend/relative you've not seen in a while
    HHC-doing something
    Empty out yours handbag of receipts etc

    Need to find my boots and go and declutter DD from friends as they are now up!
    Mortgage, we're getting there with the end in sight £6587 07/23, otherwise free of the debt thanks to MSE help!
  • xx_Jo_xx
    xx_Jo_xx Posts: 2,858 Forumite
    Uniform Washer
    Monday ~ Kitchen and Dining Area
    Level One
    mop the floor
    Level Two
    Level Three
    Extras
    1. wash windows
    2. Scrub the sink and polish the taps
    3. Scrub down any tiles that are looking icky
    4. Wipe over all the small appliances
    Tuesday ~ Living room, Hall and Stairs :j:j:j STAR PLEASE TOOTS :j:j:j
    Level One
    Level Two
    Level Three
    Extras
    1. HHI
    2. Post any parcels/letters that need doing.. OR.. make a start on those tax forms!! :p
    Wednesday ~ Master Bedroom and Landing
    Level One
    replace the bedding!
    Level Two
    Tidy a chest of drawers or a cupboard
    Stash away all the christmas paper, presents etc for next year
    Vacuum the floors
    Level Three
    Polish mirrors and windows
    Extras
    1. dust and deweb
    2. Do a small job you have been putting off for weeks and weeks
    Thursday ~ Childrens rooms and the bathroom!
    Level One..
    Level Two
    Parents jobs:
    Level Three
    Childrens jobs: Vacuum the floor
    Extras
    1. HHI.. or more for those trying to complete the challenge!
    OPTIONAL LIST FOR THE MASOCHISTS AMONG US!
    1. Tidy a cupboard or 10 of your choosing!
    2. [STRIKE]Change any unclean beds [/STRIKE] Dont have any :D
    3. Run appliances through a clean cycle.. degunk filters etc too
    4. Budget and meal plan for next month.. most of us will be a little strapped for cash.
    5. Clean pets out.. and their beds and bowls!
    6. Wash any grotty windows so you can see out.. and light can get in!
    7. Binbag dance
    8. Make sure homework/uniforms etc are ready for school/work next week
    9. S&S kitchen
    10. Vacuum a neglected floor!
    11. List 5 things on ebay/freecycle/amazon.. wherever
    12. 15 minutes filing/shredding
    13. Call a friend/relative you've not seen in a while
    14. HHC-doing something
    15. Empty out yours handbag of receipts etc
    Oh - I forgot to tell you, my banoffee pie was lush :D
    :)Sometimes lurking, sometimes posting, but always flying:)
    You are supposed to be the leading lady of your own life, for God's sake! - The Holiday
    DFW :idea: August 2013... Debt total £15,475.56 - Jan 15 £11,738.66 - DEBT FREE by 2015
    Feb GC £48.02/£250 (£201.98)
    :D I will declutter my house and debts :D
  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,503 Forumite
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    Decisions decisions

    Shall I use my new bag today? (gift; will see giver at the party) - think I will...


    And where shall I put the roadkill?
    Don't NEED it for CCs so I could either boost my bathroom fund or begin the fund for the next project. (Windows/doors/kitchen)

    Anybody chipping in - the bathroom fund is in an ISA; when bathroom in and paid for the next project money will go in there.
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • pigpen
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    I feel left out that KH didn't text me lol.. ok.. so maybe I don't.

    He was meant to collect the children this morning and 15 minutes text to say he'd be half an hour.. guess he had a good night out last night... KH.. Anyway.. DD3 is growing a boob.. showered her this morning and she has one breast bud.. the other will no doubt appear in a week or 3.. I never mentioned it to her but she will be so very pleased.. she has wanted boobs since she was about 3!!!
    LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14
    Hope to be debt free until the day I die
    Mortgage-free Wannabee (05/08/30)
    6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)
    08/12/2023 £33602.00 (4.81% int.)
  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
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    hypno06 wrote: »

    OPTIONAL LIST FOR THE MASOCHISTS AMONG US!
    1. [STRIKE]Tidy a cupboard or 10 of your choosing![/STRIKE] did a kitchen food cupboard
    2. [STRIKE]Change any unclean beds[/STRIKE] didn't apply as all done in the last couple of days
    3. Run appliances through a clean cycle.. degunk filters etc too
    4. [STRIKE]Budget and meal plan for next month.. most of us will be a little strapped for cash.[/STRIKE] done......with a little imagination!
    5. Clean pets out.. and their beds and bowls!
    6. [STRIKE]Wash any grotty windows so you can see out.. and light can get in![/STRIKE] back door done, inside and out
    7. Binbag dance
    8. Make sure homework/uniforms etc are ready for school/work next week
    9. [STRIKE]S&S kitchen [/STRIKE]
    10. [STRIKE]Vacuum a neglected floor![/STRIKE]
    11. List 5 things on ebay/freecycle/amazon.. wherever
    12. 15 minutes filing/shredding
    13. [STRIKE]Call a friend/relative you've not seen in a while[/STRIKE]
    14. [STRIKE]HHC-doing something[/STRIKE] x 2 so far
    15. [STRIKE]Empty out yours handbag of receipts etc[/STRIKE]

    Updated list in the hypno household - getting there slowly but surely. I've also changed the curtains in both the childrens rooms, and changed the lightshade for DS to one more appropriate to his age - instant makeover......I now need to wash the old curtains and get them into the car boot box.

    Off to do another load in the washing machine - I will do the empty cycle when this next load has finished.........and the same with the dishwasher.

    msgnomey you are brave tackling the cupboard under the stairs.......it would take me a whole day to do ours.......something for me to do when I am on top of everything else, I think.......although it would be very satisfying to have it done, I must say! Good luck with your mission!
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
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