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MSE Parents Club Part 9

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  • SugarSpun
    SugarSpun Posts: 8,559 Forumite
    DLAM, what a nutter! I'm so glad you and the boys weren't there :(

    TVs and curtains can be replaced, you wouldn't need the carpets in a new place (cause they probably wouldn't fit anyway) and you can look forward to a new life. Think of it as him giving you the gift of freedom - there's no looking back and wondering if you made a mistake after something like that.

    :grouphug:

    ETA: just read about your car, did you report that to the police too?
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  • SugarSpun wrote: »
    DLAM, what a nutter! I'm so glad you and the boys weren't there :(

    TVs and curtains can be replaced, you wouldn't need the carpets in a new place (cause they probably wouldn't fit anyway) and you can look forward to a new life. Think of it as him giving you the gift of freedom - there's no looking back and wondering if you made a mistake after something like that.

    :grouphug:

    ETA: just read about your car, did you report that to the police too?
    The thing id, I've got to still pay for the telly for another 18 months :(
    Havent reported it to police, i didnt even think about him doing something to it until my family suggested it, but to be honest I dont think he has, but my uncle is going to have a loook at it tommorrow morning for me.
  • searching_me
    searching_me Posts: 18,414 Forumite
    We are all fine thanks, just want to get this all sorted and move on now, they will never let me home now anyway so might aswell just face up to it. the more I fight it the harder it will be.
    I think he might of tampered with my car too, well my family do because my breaks failed last night as I was driving along, (had a break check a month ago?) nearly had a head on, so my uncle is going to have a look at them for me.
    ALso my tyre was off the wheel the other morning.

    then you definately need to be somewhere he doesnt know thats scary how far hes gone ..
    The thing id, I've got to still pay for the telly for another 18 months :(
    Havent reported it to police, i didnt even think about him doing something to it until my family suggested it, but to be honest I dont think he has, but my uncle is going to have a loook at it tommorrow morning for me.

    do you have home insurance?? ..

    i was gonna text you last night but saw your status and that you were sat in a limo so thought id leave it til tonight .. didnt want to disturb your fun :) .. but you know my number if you wanna chat x
    :)Still searching .....:)
  • jillie1974
    jillie1974 Posts: 6,997 Forumite
    DKAM- (((((hugs)))))
    the further away you are from him the better.

    cant believe he would do that. just as well you and the boys were out at the time. that is very scary if he has indeed tampered with the car. if your uncle finds that something has been tampered with, are you going to report it to the police?
    'Children are not things to be moulded, but are people to be unfolded'
  • jillie1974
    jillie1974 Posts: 6,997 Forumite
    me and Kian have been for a walk with PIL. went round nearby country park .was lovely. and had a proper ice-cream cone with syrup afterwards!! havent had one in years!!!
    'Children are not things to be moulded, but are people to be unfolded'
  • jillie1974 wrote: »
    DKAM- (((((hugs)))))
    the further away you are from him the better.

    cant believe he would do that. just as well you and the boys were out at the time. that is very scary if he has indeed tampered with the car. if your uncle finds that something has been tampered with, are you going to report it to the police?
    Oh yes without a doubt, I'm in full angry biatch mode now as my friend calls it, I'm not protecting that bastage no bloody more, he dont care about me or my boys, so why should I care about him?

    SM, no insurance:mad: stupid me!
  • searching_me
    searching_me Posts: 18,414 Forumite
    dkam .. have you tried calling where you got it from and explain what happened .. see if you cant cut a deal with them worth a shot x
    :)Still searching .....:)
  • feelinggood_2
    feelinggood_2 Posts: 11,115 Forumite
    edited 17 January 2010 at 6:39PM
    Yeah going to have to move area, might try for Brighton if it's far away enough for them.
    Dont een know where you live lol

    Brighton sounds nice. I'm in x, so probably a bit near?
    Stay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.
  • Dontknowanymore
    Dontknowanymore Posts: 5,522 Forumite
    edited 17 January 2010 at 8:45PM
    Brighton sounds nice. I'm in , so probably a bit near?
    No, it'a 5o miles away, about the same distance as I was beofre in the refuge.
  • dkam .. have you tried calling where you got it from and explain what happened .. see if you cant cut a deal with them worth a shot x
    No they wont budge, its Brighthouse, didnt even want to get the poxy thing inn the first place but he made me, bastarge! :mad:
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