MSE Parents Club Part 9

feelinggood_2

DKAM, glad to hear from you, sorry it isn't under happier circumstances. When you say 'go' are you going to be moving area? How are things with the team you are dealing with? I still think you should relocate to where I live

csh_2

Dontknowanymore wrote: »

Hi all, hope everyone is ok.
I've got a hangover! My best friends hen did was wicked! I'd recommend it deffo, it's called adonis cabaret, although it's not for the faint hearted as there is full frontal nudity! :eek: :rotfl:

But unfortunately other things arent going too well, I went to my house on Sat to pick up some stuff and found my front door wide open, went in to find I'd been burgled! My 42" plasma was gone as was my virgin V+ box.
I'm sure it was Dan because not only was them 2 items stolen, my carpets, and curtains were slashed to pieces
I know it was him, why would a burglar do that? they wouldnt.
The worst thing is the bedroom carpet in Astons room was slashed too, I'm so !!!!ing angry, I know it was him, even the crime scene officers said that it doesnt look like a typical burglary.
I cant beleive it, I'm gtted, but it just makes me realise that I'm better off without him and that I think moving is the best option, I've been speaking to my Mum about it too and even she says she thinks I should go.
So I might be going tommorrow, but you know what, I'm just going to accept it, take it on the chin and make the best out of the situation, I have to for my babies.

OMG DKAM thats flucked up! Hes a serious nutter.
You really have no option now other than to move and keep yourself and your boys safe.

Huge hugs x

eta:eek: at the willies!

Dontknowanymore

searching_me wrote: »

omg :eek: dkam .. are you ok?? how are the kids?? your ex is a word that no words compare to ... karma is a b!tch and it will come back at him 3 fold i truly believe that x

We are all fine thanks, just want to get this all sorted and move on now, they will never let me home now anyway so might aswell just face up to it. the more I fight it the harder it will be.
I think he might of tampered with my car too, well my family do because my breaks failed last night as I was driving along, (had a break check a month ago?) nearly had a head on, so my uncle is going to have a look at them for me.
ALso my tyre was off the wheel the other morning.

Dontknowanymore

feelinggood wrote: »

DKAM, glad to hear from you, sorry it isn't under happier circumstances. When you say 'go' are you going to be moving area? How are things with the team you are dealing with? I still think you should relocate to where I live

Yeah going to have to move area, might try for Brighton if it's far away enough for them.
Dont een know where you live lol

SugarSpun

DLAM, what a nutter! I'm so glad you and the boys weren't there

TVs and curtains can be replaced, you wouldn't need the carpets in a new place (cause they probably wouldn't fit anyway) and you can look forward to a new life. Think of it as him giving you the gift of freedom - there's no looking back and wondering if you made a mistake after something like that.

:grouphug:

ETA: just read about your car, did you report that to the police too?

Dontknowanymore

SugarSpun wrote: »

DLAM, what a nutter! I'm so glad you and the boys weren't there

TVs and curtains can be replaced, you wouldn't need the carpets in a new place (cause they probably wouldn't fit anyway) and you can look forward to a new life. Think of it as him giving you the gift of freedom - there's no looking back and wondering if you made a mistake after something like that.

:grouphug:

ETA: just read about your car, did you report that to the police too?

The thing id, I've got to still pay for the telly for another 18 months
Havent reported it to police, i didnt even think about him doing something to it until my family suggested it, but to be honest I dont think he has, but my uncle is going to have a loook at it tommorrow morning for me.

searching_me

Dontknowanymore wrote: »

We are all fine thanks, just want to get this all sorted and move on now, they will never let me home now anyway so might aswell just face up to it. the more I fight it the harder it will be.
I think he might of tampered with my car too, well my family do because my breaks failed last night as I was driving along, (had a break check a month ago?) nearly had a head on, so my uncle is going to have a look at them for me.
ALso my tyre was off the wheel the other morning.

then you definately need to be somewhere he doesnt know thats scary how far hes gone ..

Dontknowanymore wrote: »

The thing id, I've got to still pay for the telly for another 18 months
Havent reported it to police, i didnt even think about him doing something to it until my family suggested it, but to be honest I dont think he has, but my uncle is going to have a loook at it tommorrow morning for me.

do you have home insurance?? ..

i was gonna text you last night but saw your status and that you were sat in a limo so thought id leave it til tonight .. didnt want to disturb your fun .. but you know my number if you wanna chat x

jillie1974

DKAM- (((((hugs)))))
the further away you are from him the better.

cant believe he would do that. just as well you and the boys were out at the time. that is very scary if he has indeed tampered with the car. if your uncle finds that something has been tampered with, are you going to report it to the police?

jillie1974

me and Kian have been for a walk with PIL. went round nearby country park .was lovely. and had a proper ice-cream cone with syrup afterwards!! havent had one in years!!!

Dontknowanymore

jillie1974 wrote: »

DKAM- (((((hugs)))))
the further away you are from him the better.

cant believe he would do that. just as well you and the boys were out at the time. that is very scary if he has indeed tampered with the car. if your uncle finds that something has been tampered with, are you going to report it to the police?

Oh yes without a doubt, I'm in full angry biatch mode now as my friend calls it, I'm not protecting that bastage no bloody more, he dont care about me or my boys, so why should I care about him?

SM, no insurance:mad: stupid me!