MSE Parents Club Part 9

BeenieCat

3onitsway wrote: »

Bizarre - they wouldn't have your details if you'd not applied. Unless, is there any possibility the Ex has applied to pay? It can happen!

Actually, is he already paying for the other two via the CSA? If he is, he may have informed them of the Amber to keep them up to date iykwim?

If he's taking home £185 and already paying for 2 others through the CSA, you'd get £14.33 per week :j:rolleyes:. This wouldn't effect your IS (or anything else!).

I can say with confidence that there's absolutely zero chance of him contacting them himself :cool::rotfl:
But he was paying via the CSA in his last job for the other kids and then when he was claiming JSA for a bit, not sure if he is now cos i looked at his bank statement and it showed no outgoings and his full wage going in every week

They possibly have something on file for my DS cos i contacted them back in 2003 and had a letter asking me to explain where my ex was even though already said i didn't know) and i've had a grand total of £0 but i didn't chase it as i didn't really want anything from that ex.... So could it be something to do with that? Tis very strange. Unless of course, they were ringing me about DS but that would be freaky after almost 7 years of nothing :rotfl:

Thank you - i had no idea how much it'd be, so with Amber's money and if he pays for the other 2, he's going to be heartbroken, he's riddled with debt nowadays, good incentive for him to stay an 'ex' i think!

SeptemberBaby_2

searching_me wrote: »

happy birthday for chris for tomorrow sami .. hope he has a great day and gets spoilt rotten ...

elle if i dont 'see' you before hope tomorrow all goes well ...

mm hope you get the hours you want if i dont 'see' you before ..

right off to bed for cuggles nighty night xxxx

What SM said!


And also good luck with the Nanny tomorrow, Feely!

Hope you're ok, SS? Lots of hugs.



Off to bed now. Only a few chapters left of Dan Brown . Then to choose another of the many I've bought over the last year but couldn't read as Jamie Jack was in bedroom residence!

Nighty night everyone.

xx

3onitsway

BeenieCat wrote: »

I can say with confidence that there's absolutely zero chance of him contacting them himself :cool::rotfl:
But he was paying via the CSA in his last job for the other kids and then when he was claiming JSA for a bit, not sure if he is now cos i looked at his bank statement and it showed no outgoings and his full wage going in every week

They possibly have something on file for my DS cos i contacted them back in 2003 and had a letter asking me to explain where my ex was even though already said i didn't know) and i've had a grand total of £0 but i didn't chase it as i didn't really want anything from that ex.... So could it be something to do with that? Tis very strange. Unless of course, they were ringing me about DS but that would be freaky after almost 7 years of nothing :rotfl:

Thank you - i had no idea how much it'd be, so with Amber's money and if he pays for the other 2, he's going to be heartbroken, he's riddled with debt nowadays, good incentive for him to stay an 'ex' i think!

I'd say its a bizarre coincidence and they must be calling about DS!
Especially as you've not claimed CB for Amber yet - they can't do anything until you've got your CB number. Maybe they've traced ex-ex?im?

If he's taking home £185 - the total payable is £43.00 a week, but this is split equally between all three children.

As I said, if you need anything, PM me.


I'm really off to bed now. xxx

elle_gee

carlamagee wrote: »

hey,
just popping in, because if my mind serves me correctly, which it usually doesnt,i think Elle start her breastfeeding trainign thingy tomorrow!? ?If so, good luck chick! Hope it all goes well and hope you enjoy it and get as much out of it as well as the other ppl who are looking to you for guidance/support/whatever it is that happens!!!
xx

Thankyou hunnie! And everyone else too.. I'd better be some good at it after all this! :cool:

Sami_Bee wrote: »

:wave: no flipping way :mad: he's in Aberdeen, not back until thursday

Oh no, that's pants.. big pants!

Sami_Bee

3onitsway wrote: »

...
Sami Chris and V are obviously geniuses (or is it genii?) with their early understanding of straws.

Genii I think :cool: best start saving for their uni fees then lol

money_maker wrote: »

aww sami, I bet hes gutted
Are you doing anything special tomorrow or are you waiting for him to come home ?

I'm just deciding wheather to go to boobie group and/or a soft play place tomorrow, MIL is doing a lil buffet on sunday.
OH is really p'd to say the least!

MadDogWoman_2

Straws - I think Katie was about 7/8 months old when she discovered straws, she grabbed my McD's Strawberry Milkshake and started gulping away - it has now developed into a full on love if she can drink through a straw she will, we have a box in the cupboard and she even asks for a particular colour!

Sami - Happy Birthday for Chris, boo that DH is in Aberdeen and can't get home - positive spin Chris celebrates twice once with mummy then with mummy and daddy.

My tickets for The Gruffalo live have arrived just need to keep them somewhere rememberable and safe for the next 4 months!

elle_gee

Will have to try Rhys with a straw (eventually, I don't mean tomorrow!).. that's another thing the SALT said he'd never do.. Might send her a pic

Sami_Bee

Thanks for the happy birthdays

before I forget good luck Elle, I totally hate role play (of that sort ) too

MDW - Chris is the same, today he had to have a red straw to match his red smoothie

elle_gee

Sami_Bee wrote: »

Thanks for the happy birthdays

*waiting 9 more minutes*

Sami_Bee

elle_gee wrote: »

*waiting 9 more minutes*

If we're being precise it's not for 13hrs 1min