MSE Parents Club Part 9

tiamai_d

Hello WM! Nice to see you!

CSH, that is a great snowdog, the boys were laughing at it!

Tara, thats why I went for the woodline even though they are so hard to track down.

I sat and did a SOA and we should have £300 a month free... so the question is... do I go for it and do a large monthly DD to teh credit card?

ladybirdintheuk

Tia - if it was me I would set up a smaller one, then pay extra off each month depending on what is going on! Or have you already taken into account putting some money asside incase the car brakes down etc?

elle_gee

I joined in with Rhys' nap..

:hello: WM, MM and ladybird.. everyone okay at your houses?

csh, fab snowdog! My parents have a border collie.. 14yrs old now though so a bit less spritely than your Zac!

tia, go for it.. you might have some spare from no ebay buying this month anyways

Tigs, what's the appointment for? Feeling okay about it?

choppy, *hugs* I've got all this to come at theend of the month once Rhys actually has a cot!

ETA: No pink milk this morning... cos I know you all wanna know the state of my nipples really

tarajayne

That's ok then SM, just thought that it was why the payment was delayed. X

Yeah for Dylan doing so well but hope you're ok today MM. X

Great news about work Carla. X

Depressing subject talk last night, my childhood was carp! Hate thinking back. Being laughed at every day as your Mum got all your clothes even as a teenager from the jumble sale and other kids knew it as it was their parents who had given it away. And her telling me I was so horrible that even social services wouldn't have me and I was only 5!!! Used to spend all school breaks at my grandparents and godmothers. I still remember my tantrums at 3 when I used to throw myself down the stairs, she said I did it a few times, well I was obviously an extremely unhappy little girl even then. Vowed to make my life better.

tarajayne

Millie's_Mum wrote: »

Tara, i've got the first one you link to (the east coast one), we really love it, we just bought a padded liner for it from mothercare. Any questions just shout, ours is going strong 6 years later.

Thank-you for checking the links for me, hate buying wrong then regretting it. How does a little one stay secure as there is nothing between their legs to stop from slipping?

tarajayne

Why not set up £200 a month Tia as you can make extra payments if you do have £100 left at the end. X

searching_me

nah tara ended up being an error at there end and apparently i wasnt the only one :rolleyes: .. doing some right maths now ... im hyper about maths how sad is that :rotfl: x

redmel1621

Hi milliesmum, I was wondering about you last night. I was thinking you hadn't been on for ages.

Sm - you any further with your budgetting? How is your gift planning coming along?

tarajayne

How are you feeling Weezl, you must be about 29-30wks now???

ManOnTheMoon

Kids off school, Lucy off work:jand because of that, i'm not doing any either. Just have the day together indoors.

I hope everyone is having a good day, snowed in or not!

Buttonmoons wrote: »

I think it's great you buy your girls tampons MOTM. I made OH get mine the other day and had a right moan on about it, and was like "Get it yourself" and I was like WELL I WOULD IF I HAD A TAMPON!!

My dad has never ever ever ever bought sanitary products, for any of us, and my mum. Embarrassed apparently - Why? It's obvious it's not for them, it's not like they are buying Take a Break!

Oh did I mention the other day? I went into town on Saturday - If you remember my real dad who I hadn't seen in 18years added me on FB, well he was talking to me as I was getting ready, and asked how I was getting into town and I said bus, and he offered to give me a lift. So I said yes! It was a bit surreal, he seems okay, refers to my Step dad as my dad which is right.

But he texts me now and then now too? Tis odd!

Part of my job. I don't understand why anyone would be embarrassed. It's like buying toilet roll, condoms or deodorant, at least in my view.

Take a break? :rotfl:

You're brave, taking a lift so soon and texting him too.

chopsticks wrote: »

MOTM - glad you got the phone bill issue sorted out

Well, it's still needing to be paid, which is easily done, but she'll be paying 50% and working 50% :cool:

redmel1621 wrote: »

motm - btw my dad kicked me out because I got a boyfriend......who now happens to be my husband. He didn't even know for sure, as I had been friends with him and going round his house for 6mths before we got together, didn't stop him going psycho and launching at me trying to punch me though!!! What he thought having a boyfriend would mean, I have no idea....I had already been sexually active for a year!!

:rotfl:Well, at least it wasn't some guy you got over. Ugh, psycho dads. Mine was the same and he did punch me. Always told myself i'd be a better father and use completely different methods, hence when their mothers got physical and verbal, I always took the kids side, even if they were in the wrong, as the nasty adult stuff overshone a child misbehaving, as it's what children do.

:rotfl: @ sexually active for a year, You hid that well!