MSE Parents Club Part 9

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Hi Glam xx

angelfairy

hi all,

forgive me for not catching up very well, but have a poorly bubba asleep in my arms at the minute, but wanted to comment on bruo's post.

bruno - as you know, i am in a similar situation to you and your wife. i can understand the bout of depression and hopelessness as i had a recurrance of this not long back. i know i have said before how difficult i have found being a new mum and being away from my family.

however .. i know that my life at present is here in the UK with my husband and our little girl. it took everything i had to get on the plane to come back but my marriage is extremely important to me and for the time being, our life is here inthe UK, even though i find it difficult at times.

also, as you already know, do not underestimate the stress that the immigration process will put on you. i finally have full residency here in the UK, but it took many years, loads of money and now loads of grey hairs. it is one reason i am not jumping at the chance to go back home becuase i just cant handle all that stress again (as hubby and bubs will have to go through the process).

i appreciate your wife may find it hard to make friends and i did to, initiallhy only having friends through work and an ex girlfriend of hubby's mate, but i forced myself to make friends through baby clinic/group and now i have two really good mum friends and our girls were all born within a month.

sorry if i have rambled and not made a lot of sense.

Fitzio

csh wrote: »

I see Scruffy has a full iternary but I can meet you any time in Livingston. Just give me a shout when you're next coming through and we could have lunch

Ok. I was only joking about meeting tomorrow, and I am a little bit shy, but not that shy, so we should arrange to meet up one day. Once the weather shifts I will give you a shout. Tomorrow I am taking down the Christmas tree etc. DH is back to work so I need to get the house organised and back to normality.

Hello Glam - nice to have you back!

carlamagee

phew. im shattered. dinner, sickybad baby, tree & decorations down, whole of downstairs hoovered n polished n cleaned (only one "dumping" corner to sirt out!), dishes done, kicthen pristine, Katie bathed, Christopher calpoled, teething powder-ed, milk-ed and currently sleeping in between coughing fits and AHHHHH.
oh,no wait. OH just came in avery grumpy mood.....whats next! *sigh*

Glamazon

csh wrote: »

Hi Glam, nice to see you. K has been waking at 5.30am ish for his bottle for the last 5 days so there must be something in the air!

ETA he drinks it then sleeps til half nine/ten so can't complain!
Away to bed now, night ladies x

yeh Jack did that thank god! has been between 6.30am & 7am before now then back to sleep again

he is chomping for his dream feed now so I'm going to feed him & pop back on here in the morning

night

scruffy96uk

Hello Carla.

csh and Fitz I'm shy to but would have loved to meet you both. Hopefully we can get something sorted so all the scots including Caz (hopefully) can meet soon x

elle_gee

scruffy96uk wrote: »

.. Move out coz of mice, don't be silly i was big and brave when I found it;):eek::rotfl:

And then you killed it good with the tupperware lid!

scruffy96uk wrote: »

.. Elle MM where r u????

I was asleep Then playing games with Rhys.. who won't sit up for me and OH for love nor money! :rolleyes:

scruffy96uk

elle_gee wrote: »

And then you killed it good with the tupperware lid!



I was asleep Then playing games with Rhys.. who won't sit up for me and OH for love nor money! :rolleyes:

Ah so glad you could join us :rotfl:
Elle what happened to that routine of early to bed for the wee fella

angelfairy

oh carla, has your little one got what mine has??? loads of coughing and then is sick??

scruffy96uk

Sorry hello AF it's horrible havin a poorly babe is it?