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MSE Parents Club Part 9
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jillie1974 wrote: »thanks SS
have only said that before to my mum.......
It is difficult Jillie, and more so when it's not your direct relative because you have the complicating factors of it being a relative of someone you love, so you have your own feelings as well as the need almost to deny them for the sake of your loved one. Vent whenever you need.
I find it heartbreaking when people commit suicide because I can't empathise with that level of desperation and feel so sorry for the people on both sides. But if a suicide attempt is successful then I think you have to triage for the people who are left behind. Someone who attempts suicide but is found in time needs just as much understanding and love.
FWIW, I'm finding it hard to express what I want to because I know there are people on both sides in the thread and I don't want to accidentally hurt anyone.
Edit: 3, I didn't get the BFP I was looking for and when Krystal tested I kind of hoped she'd get it instead. But she didn't... someone's got my BFP (Glam, any stick-peeing to report?)Organised Birthdays and Christmas: Spend So Far: £193.75; Saved from RRP £963.76
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Sorry - did I miss something? :eek::o
There you go...Krystal and Glam - I hope you both get the results you're looking for from the sticks - and if one of you wants my BFP you can have it cause it clearly isn't my turn
A very proud Mummy to 3 beautiful girls... I do pity my husband though, he's the one to suffer the hormones...My Fathers Daughter wrote: »Krystal is so smart and funny and wonderful I am struck dumb in awe in her presence.
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Krystaltips wrote: »Jillie, I can only offer a ((Hug)) It's somehow more difficult because it's OH's family... And there's things you feel you can't say to OH in case you offend him... (or I remember before you mentioned you weren't comfortable telling neice her Mum was watching down from heaven because the family isn't like that...) But you can say whatever you like to us
yep, thats correct krystal. and thanksIt is difficult Jillie, and more so when it's not your direct relative because you have the complicating factors of it being a relative of someone you love, so you have your own feelings as well as the need almost to deny them for the sake of your loved one. Vent whenever you need.
I find it heartbreaking when people commit suicide because I can't empathise with that level of desperation and feel so sorry for the people on both sides. But if a suicide attempt is successful then I think you have to triage for the people who are left behind. Someone who attempts suicide but is found in time needs just as much understanding and love.
FWIW, I'm finding it hard to express what I want to because I know there are people on both sides in the thread and I don't want to accidentally hurt anyone.
SS, thanks....from what we can gather, she had attempted prev with tablets, but had been found/called someone
so DH says it was only a matter of time before she did succeed.
he has said to me in an argument, that i didnt like her...its not that its what she did to his mum,dad,daughter and him i didnt like! (before she died)
of you feel you can say more to me but cant on here please feel free to pm me.
and with that... i'm being
for the rest of the day...
just go and get K he's awake banging his rattle on the cot.'Children are not things to be moulded, but are people to be unfolded'0 -
jillie1974 wrote: »HOW COULD YOU DO THAT TO YOUR DAUGHTER!!!
and relax......
It's good to say it Jillie. And right to be angry.
When she was well I bet your SIL would have agreed with you. Biggest of hugs
:hello:Jonathan 'Fergie' Fergus William, born 05/03/09, 7lb 4.4oz:hello:
Benjamin 'Kezzie' Kester Jacob, born 18/03/10, 7lb 5oz:)
cash neutral gifts 2011, value of purchased gifts/actual paid/amount earnt to cover it £67/£3.60/£0
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Hubby commented on Caitlyn peeking out of the cot bars the other day and said what she really needed was a tin cup to rattle along them lol..jillie1974 wrote: »just go and get K he's awake banging his rattle on the cot.A very proud Mummy to 3 beautiful girls... I do pity my husband though, he's the one to suffer the hormones...My Fathers Daughter wrote: »Krystal is so smart and funny and wonderful I am struck dumb in awe in her presence.
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thanks csh...'Children are not things to be moulded, but are people to be unfolded'0
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he's now happy in his activity centre...
which reminded me...
SS- how did your OH get on with ringing about the activity centre?'Children are not things to be moulded, but are people to be unfolded'0 -
In Laws are imminent... After the face on SMIL last time I'm not completely over joyed to be expecting them... Especially after being up since 4:30am... And it's the day before payday and there's not a scratch of food in the house... FIL said they'd 'bring a loaf' with them... Don't know what they think I can do with that... We don't have any sandwich filling and the toaster started smoking yesterday...
Hey ho...A very proud Mummy to 3 beautiful girls... I do pity my husband though, he's the one to suffer the hormones...My Fathers Daughter wrote: »Krystal is so smart and funny and wonderful I am struck dumb in awe in her presence.
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Phew! :eek: I thought i'd totally misread the last weeks posts!:beer:0
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