Child Maintenance???????

bungle4x4

and he's liable for the part he was living there, no more. please be aware that if you are going to want to be dealt with a fair hand, you need to deal one.

getting your house in order has to be the priority, its damm cold outside.

CSA_Help

bungle4x4 wrote: »

im curious as to why the ex is still listed on the rent, and council tax. surely if he's not living there, its about time to remove his name from the important documents.

My ex done that with me kept my name on the rent book when she kicked me out to move the next one in to which the council refused at first to remove me from the tenancy .:D

I went to the council paid what i was due and then had the council tax arrears .She even had the cheek to post the bill through my mums door for me to pay .

Cheeky little madam :rolleyes:

Got to give her 10/10 for trying

sarahloveschris

bungle4x4 wrote: »

and he's liable for the part he was living there, no more. please be aware that if you are going to want to be dealt with a fair hand, you need to deal one.

getting your house in order has to be the priority, its damm cold outside.

There are places i can go................ we wont be cold!!

All i asked was a simple question, maybe 2??:(

shellsuit

kaya wrote: »

you sound like a lovely girl, your main concern in life is how much money you can screw your ex for, you should meet my ex, you have much in common

She wants what her and their daughter is entitled to. Wouldn't you feel the same in the OPs shoes?

sarahloveschris wrote: »

He doesnt see his daughter... see bottom of page why!!!

his girlfriend wont be seeing my daughter!!!! would you let a drug addict near your child??????????????

What drugs is she on and do you know that for a fact?

If you do, report her.

Have to say I had murder with my ex years ago when he had a new girlfriend who was an alcoholic and had had her kids taken off her.

I gave her a chance until they both took the kids out one day to the park and cracked open a bottle of cider.

She never went near my kids again, and of course it was all MY fault when they split up according to the ex.

It was simple. Stay away from the her when you have the kids, or don't see them at all.

That's fair enough isn't it?

Rikki

sarahloveschris wrote: »

He doesnt see his daughter... see bottom of page why!!!

his girlfriend wont be seeing my daughter!!!! would you let a drug addict near your child??????????????

Ideally no, but you would have to prove she is unfit to be near his child.

As difficult as it is you have to take the moral high ground and keep your standards high. You have to be seen as being in control and composed at all times.
Many of us have been through tough times like this and it is traumatic and upsetting, bite your tongue until it bleeds if need be, but don't lower yourself to their level.

sarahloveschris

CSA_Help wrote: »

bungle4x4 wrote: »

im curious as to why the ex is still listed on the rent, and council tax. surely if he's not living there, its about time to remove his name from the important documents.

My ex done that with me kept my name on the rent book when she kicked me out to move the next one in to which the council refused at first to remove me from the tenancy .:D

I went to the council paid what i was due and then had the council tax arrears .She even had the cheek to post the bill through my mums door for me to pay .

Cheeky little madam :rolleyes:

Got to give her 10/10 for trying

Ummmm its not like that!!!!!!
HE walked out, i asked council what todo about tenancy they said i have to goto court to have him removed..... it also says the same in my agreement!!!
Im not wanting for him to pay any debts i have, just the ones that are his:T

sarahloveschris

shellsuit wrote: »

She wants what her and their daughter is entitled to. Wouldn't you feel the same in the OPs shoes?



What drugs is she on and do you know that for a fact?

If you do, report her.

Have to say I had murder with my ex years ago when he had a new girlfriend who was an alcoholic and had had her kids taken off her.

I gave her a chance until they both took the kids out one day to the park and cracked open a bottle of cider.

She never went near my kids again, and of course it was all MY fault when they split up according to the ex.

It was simple. Stay away from the her when you have the kids, or don't see them at all.

That's fair enough isn't it?

We have plenty of distance between us. im in oxfordshire hes in gloucestershire!!! lol
she admitted to me about drugs....pills,cannibas
at the moment after 18mths my daughter needs to build the trust bk with him 1st

Kimitatsu

sarahloveschris wrote: »

YES it is, it will be sorted in the morning, to remove him from the tenancy i have to goto court, its written in my papers!!!!!
i do think he should pay his half, as he was living here for part of it!!!!

Realistically though you can only ask him to pay the half whilst he was there at the time. It may be that is badly worded but at the moment it has not come across well and I can see the reaction of others that will happen.

sarahloveschris wrote: »

We have plenty of distance between us. im in oxfordshire hes in gloucestershire!!! lol
she admitted to me about drugs....pills,cannibas
at the moment after 18mths my daughter needs to build the trust bk with him 1st

So if he has not seen her for 18 months because you wont let him, there are some NRP's that would point out that is contact blocking :rolleyes: Before you shoot the messenger, I agree that your daughters welfare should come first, BUT you wont let him see her and you complain that he wont pay for her. If he lives so far away how do you know that the facts you have about his employment and his social life are true?

I have to ask if it has been 18 months then he should have been off the tenancy and the council tax bill a good 12 months ago as both of you have obviously moved on :eek:

sarahloveschris

Kimitatsu wrote: »

Realistically though you can only ask him to pay the half whilst he was there at the time. It may be that is badly worded but at the moment it has not come across well and I can see the reaction of others that will happen.



So if he has not seen her for 18 months because you wont let him, there are some NRP's that would point out that is contact blocking :rolleyes: Before you shoot the messenger, I agree that your daughters welfare should come first, BUT you wont let him see her and you complain that he wont pay for her. If he lives so far away how do you know that the facts you have about his employment and his social life are true?

I have to ask if it has been 18 months then he should have been off the tenancy and the council tax bill a good 12 months ago as both of you have obviously moved on :eek:

I do only expect him to pay for the half of him being at the property.

Its not i wouldn't let him, he hasn't tried to arrange anything, making arrangements and breaking them, Ive seen it on his profile....... Ive not said he cant see her, we've been seperated 18mths hes been with the new gf for 2wks!!
Its confusing

CSA_Help

Its not i wouldn't let him, he hasn't tried to arrange anything, making arrangements and breaking them, Ive seen it on his profile....... Ive not said he cant see her, we've been seperated 18mths hes been with the new gf for 2wks!!
Its confusing [/QUOTE]

Sarah

Obviously he has moved on with his life by moving in with a new GF

Have you moved on !

It shouts out to me that you don't like the thought of him moving on with his life .Is this about you or your children ?