Child Maintenance???????

sarahloveschris

shell_542 wrote: »

So give them his forwarding address if you know it. Yes, technically they're not supposed to take it, but they will.

Hi he will not give it to me......or more the true quote is 'hes not allowed to':rolleyes:

sarahloveschris

shell_542 wrote: »

How is she taking money away from your daughter? You are entitled to 15% of his net income. That doesn't go down because she's with him.

By spending his wages!!!!!!!

how is it then if they got married there incomes would be added together?

shell_542

sarahloveschris wrote: »

By spending his wages!!!!!!!

how is it then if they got married there incomes would be added together?

What they do with his income is of no relevance to you as long as you are receiving what you are supposed to legally, in child support.

Her income will never be included under the current rules, whether they are married or not.

Your beef should be with him, not her. I'm sure she's not stealing his money.

karenx

So go to the csa then if he isnt paying you

sarahloveschris

shell_542 wrote: »

What they do with his income is of no relevance to you as long as you are receiving what you are supposed to legally, in child support.

Her income will never be included under the current rules, whether they are married or not.

Your beef should be with him, not her. I'm sure she's not stealing his money.

I'm sure she is!!! she's a dirty skanky druggy :eek:
he is working ft although only 20hrs go through the books so the csa cant take wot im really entitled to...... it was £36 a week and is now £9 ive been waiting since August for it, but coz it thro his empoyer they've been delayin it was only when csa threatened them with courts etc that they have promised it will goto them 19 dec i should get it by then end of Dec

shellsuit

sarahloveschris wrote: »

Hmmmm of well worth a try!!

He does have debts at my house he is not paying, and he is also on the tenancy as a joint tenancy, it is in arrears of £500 plus there is council tax arrears is he liable for half of each of these amounts???:mad:

How did the arrears come about on the rent and CT?


His new girlfriend has nothing to do with money paid to you for your children, so you're gonna have to either battle it out with the ex or go through the CSA.

shellsuit

sarahloveschris wrote: »

I'm sure she is!!! she's a dirty skanky druggy :eek:
he is working ft although only 20hrs go through the books so the csa cant take wot im really entitled to...... it was £36 a week and is now £9 ive been waiting since August for it, but coz it thro his empoyer they've been delayin it was only when csa threatened them with courts etc that they have promised it will goto them 19 dec i should get it by then end of Dec

Report her if she takes drugs.

Report him for lying about his working hours.

Go to the CSA.

Hold your head up.

Don't feel bitter and jealous ~ it really isn't worth it.

sarahloveschris

shellsuit wrote: »

How did the arrears come about on the rent and CT?


His new girlfriend has nothing to do with money paid to you for your children, so you're gonna have to either battle it out with the ex or go through the CSA.

Through him not paying either!! he was spending it on things for his own pleasure, which i only found out about after he left,

Its gone through csa (see other post)

sarahloveschris

shellsuit wrote: »

Report her if she takes drugs.

Report him for lying about his working hours.

Go to the CSA.

Hold your head up.

Don't feel bitter and jealous ~ it really isn't worth it.

I'm trying, im very angry and im sorry if its coming out on u guys x x
im not quite sure how to prove to the csa about him doing more hours then they know about?

karenx

If there is arrears on the house you and your child is living in then I suggest you get that sorted out asap even if it means you paying it yourself otherwise you will risk getting asked to leave. Then you will be in an even worse position, and when a new potential landlord asks your current one for a reference they will be told you dont pay rent on time. Then you risk nobody letting you rent a house