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Updated **8/08/06** for those interested- my cervical cancer.

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  • Thriftylady
    Thriftylady Posts: 594 Forumite
    Good luck.
  • jo_b_2
    jo_b_2 Posts: 7,120 Forumite
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    Best wishes, shelly xx
  • emma_b_4
    emma_b_4 Posts: 1,292 Forumite
    hi! you havent hijacked my post at all! you have been a great source of support to me and you know where i am if you need a chat.
    sounds like you are going through a lot at the moment, but at least there is good news too that it hasnt spread.

    also good news that you can try for a family in the future, sounds like you have a very understanding and compassionate doc/surgeon on your side

    good luck and keep us posted xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
  • jellyhead
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    good luck shelly, hope it all works out fine.

    was this poicked up in a routine smear?
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  • Will be thinking of you.
    Please keep us posted.

    *hugs*


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  • shelly
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    jellyhead wrote:
    good luck shelly, hope it all works out fine.

    was this poicked up in a routine smear?



    No it wasn't picked up by routine smear. I had my second miscarriage at end of March and the "products of conception" (their words-not mine) they took away during the d&c were sent to pathology. As they took the "poc" out through my cervix they must have collected some cells from my cervix too. This showed up some abnormal cells which, after a biopsy, were confirmed as cervical cancer.


    I must say my head is still in a whirl. Its all happened so fast. Its not been 3 weeks yet since my diagnosis but so much has happened. MSE is a great source of support and I praise the day I stumbled across it by accident.


    Thanks again everyone, I appreciate all the support and good wishes.


    shelly
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  • AnnieH
    AnnieH Posts: 8,088 Forumite
    OMG, Shelly, my thoughts are with you at this time. I had to have a small op for abnormal cells last year but it had not progressed to cancer thank God. I wish you all the best and hope you still get the family you want.
  • Scarlett1
    Scarlett1 Posts: 6,887 Forumite
    Shelly big hugs to you, you are so strong, good luck for your surgery ! xxxxx
  • shelly
    shelly Posts: 6,394 Forumite
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    Scarlett1 wrote:
    Shelly big hugs to you, you are so strong, good luck for your surgery ! xxxxx


    Thanks. Hubby keeps saying how strong and brave I am too. I feel I have no choice but to be strong because there's no way I'm going to let this disease get me down and beat me. I have quite surprised myself though, because if I'd been asked 6 months ago how cancer would have affected me I'd have said it would have done my head right in and I'd never have coped with it. Its amazing though what you can do/feel when you have to. I'm very much a glass half full person rather than half empty. I worry about things as and when I have to because worrying won't make things better.
    :heart2: Love isn't finding someone you can live with. It's finding someone you can't live without :heart2:
  • Penny-Pincher!!
    Penny-Pincher!! Posts: 8,325 Forumite
    Good Luck Hun-thinking of you. (((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))

    PP
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