Weekly Flylady Thread 23rd November 2009

SGT

kazmeister wrote: »

SGT - HAPPY BIRTHDAY Are you still in sunny Spain?

Thank you everyone for the birthday wishes.

Kazmeister - Yes, I am still in sunny Spain, it doesn't feel like Christmas here at all

Level 1 completed for each day, getting there slowly but surely. (Too much knitting being done, but I need to complete my Father Christmas) :rotfl:

Sorry I haven't had chance to read all the thread, but hugs for anyone in need.

carlsberggal

Vanilla - all I give is coping vibes. Ask them how they have come to the decision, the woman must of said something? Sounds suspect to me, ask to have DNA testing to prove that the SAID child isn't his and then your in the clear. Much love sent xx

Dustykitten

Carlsberg - I'm sure you can't delete a thread yourself. You need to PM the board guide for that thread and ask them to delete it. Can you find that info or do you need me to help - and yes we know you are a fab Mum!

Decluttering my second glass of wine.

Vanilla - I don't know the answer sweetie but if they sorted it 3 years ago then I'm sure they can sort it again. Just what neither of you need right now.

froddington

greenbee wrote: »

Froddy - a holiday sounds like a great present for your dad, and it'll be nice for the two of you to spend some time together away from home.

I'm glad you said that cos I've booked it :j

3 nights in Belfast in April - and I'm really pleased with the prices for the flights - and I got the special offer rooms from Premier Inn too

vanilla wrote: »

**Advice needed please.**
Hubby got a letter today from the child support people saying he has to pay money each week to a woman he doesn't know, for a child thats not his. We've had this conversation 3 years ago with them and they said it must be a mistake and that we'd hear no more about it. Today hubby asked where she was from with county thinking it most be in NI somewhere and she's from England but hubby hasn't been to England since he was a child. Plus this child would be only a year younger that DD who's nine. Hubby is completely stressed out about it so it's not good for him as he's doing so well. Surely this woman most have give his details or something? He honestly doesn't have a clue who this person is, nor do i and me and hubby have always had the same friends since we meet 10 years ago. Don't know what to do?

vanilla - I wonder if he has the same name as the actual father? I remember reading something in the local paper a while ago where that had happened and the person getting the letters had the same name. You need to contact them and explain - is there a phone number on the letter? Hope you get it sorted soon xx

carlsberggal - huge hugs x Maybe send a PM to PenPen in case she hasn't seen your post yet? Or use the 'contact us' details at the bottom of the page to get someone on MSE to delete it for you

sunnyzo - hugs for you too; I know how hard it is - you're just thinking you're coping so well and then something happens :mad: I think maybe blocking his number would help x

carlsberggal

Dusty - they are just sooooo vile! Hope PenPen could sort it for me - and that's bad of me to suppose she would want to. Haven't got a clue about this site really as normally only go on this lovely thread. I have to have the same make of phone as I'm so useless at anything remotely techno!

vanilla

Thanks everyone, it's just so weird. They were suppose to phone back today but never did. It will be interesting to see how it's worked out.

Right i best get the hot water bottle ready,will do the packed lunch in the morning for DD.

The teacher had said there was a white top in her bag that she needs for tomorrow,it needs ironing, does this woman not know that i don't iron.:rotfl:Think i'll make an exception this time.:D

Dustykitten

Diva - just looking on book people and they have 6 Alex rRder cds for £14.99 - mine love talking books

Dustykitten

Carlsberg - the Board guides are Glad and Mrs Tine - they will need to do it for you I don't think PenPen's powers work outside of old style and greenfingers as wonderful as we know she is - drop them both a PM - when you are on your thread click on the board at the top of the page to get the index - at the bottom are the guides - click on their names and PM them.

carlsberggal

I've PM'D PenPen - so sorry to have her try to help me after all it's my problem, just don't know what to do. Sorry Penny

Valli

Lady-Liberty wrote: »

I have taken delivery of a wheelchair this morning :eek: I am trying to look on it as a positive move because I am finding it increasingly difficult to get out & about with a stick but it still feels like another step to losing my independence :sad: God.....I really hate cancer sometimes........sorry don't mean to complain but feeling quite down at the moment :sad:

Dustykitten wrote: »

Lady Liberty don't apologise to us we hate it too and we hate that you have it xx

seconded...or by now about fiftiethed IYSWIM

Vanilla all I can suggest that he writes, denying it, and complains he is being harrassed and stressed and DOES NOT accept the allegation. Complain to MP? (((hugs)))

Have neen to DS's 6th form options eveining. Mad child dsays he might take LAW A-level
even MADDER mother said that if he beats HER score (I got a D on part time study:D) she will pay him £100


Cat litter tray emptied and washed and all bins emptied in time for crack-of-dawn binmen...

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