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urban_spirit

I've just eaten a teensy bar of chocolate. Needing a glass of red now.

George - from BB - is selling his BB suitcase on ebay for....£500! No bids yet

(did I wish you happy birthday?? Memory is broke, soz, dont remember!)

urban_spirit

Night friends, hope youre having sweet dreams xxx

wannabe

Morning all
Thanks again for yesterday I needed a pick me up - felt really gutted.
I have tried to catch up with all your news.
Good luck with the reports/ parents eves, we handed ours out yesterday - what a lot of work and we had our final parents evening so that is a huge relief.
As for Ofsted we had ours last term and what a lot of stress - I recomment Argent Nit it was great for keeping calm or Bach rescue remedy, I got through and we got Outstanding so its worth the cash!!
I decided that there is a lovely hotel in Bournemouth that has a spa place I may look into, or one in hedge end. I would like to do forest mere (champneys) but don't think I should be on this site and contemplate that kind of dosh!
I am definitely going bag and shoe shopping this weekend and treat myself to early birthday pressies
- as loreal says "I'm worth it"!
Hope you are all ok
Have a good day
Its the weekend (well nearly eh)
xxx

whatamess_2

Morning wannabe,
glad to here you are feeling a bit brighter today,

Bags and shoes shopping ,:D my idea of heaven, even though I hate shopping.

Treat yourself to the best you can afford and enjoy it.:A
Dont think, I wish there was someone here to enjoy it with, think I can do what I want when I want.:D

School holidays 25 days and counting:j

Messy

whatamess_2

Morning all,
jumped out of bed like my !!! was on fire thinking I was late for work:eek: then remembered its Friday my day off.:o
Looks like its going to be a beautiful day:j
Test driving the car this morning but have been looking around and its way over priced:eek: The company did their credit search yesterday, that could be interesting.:rotfl:
Got to post some ebay stuff hope I charged the right postage.

Have a good day all, catch up later and let you know about the car.

Messy

wannabe

thanks you - am counting down the days!!
Let us know how you get on today - good luck
xx

urban_spirit

well crunch time has happened. Got letter instead of phone call from work. Sposed to ring asap - dont know what to do AGAIN!

Post is in office where get threatened outside work. If I take, will make me relapse. If I dont, they threatened to remove the offer so back to current office that caused me to relapse last year.

Phoned up about new job this morning, post has been closed due to high volume of applicants. Has happened in last 3 jobs ive applied for, prob cos there's not too many vacancies here.

Am flapping. No one to talk to. Tempted to ring friend but get 'never mind - will work itself out/will all be for the best' DONT BE STUPID!!! How will it do that???? Such flippant answers hurt when you're in the middle of a mess and want some support.

Sorry friends. Hello to you all, hows your day going? Lovely sunny day here.

whatamess_2

(((((((hugs))))))))))))) Urbs
Really dont know what to suggest Maybe take the least worst of the two but keep looking.
Take time off when you need to, the cannot dismiss you for being ill, they would have to pay you off.

Dont know if you have said and tell me off if I am being to nosey:o but what do you do?

Messy

urban_spirit

Thanks messy. I feel a bit lost, and a bit alone/isolated. pants.

I'm a civil servant messy. Had unblemished career with uber good reports and about to get promotion in job I loved when I got ill. Since then, well its been juat as you read on here.

If I had a partner/family living with me i'd walk away and say blx to it but trying to be sensible and think of the bills and no cash if I walk.

How did teh test drive go????

Have to pick your brains on how to seel on ebay - not done it before but like to start!!

whatamess_2

Car lovely to drive but not very comfortable to sit in, after all of that didnt get finance anyway.
Not surprised credit file is pants.:o

If you have an account on ebay selling is easy, register as a seller.
I prefer paypal, there has been some bad press about it, but what percentage of transactions is that? Bet its not a lot.

Look at other listings of what you want to sell to get an idea of price, postage costs etc.. I always start things at 99p and set a reserve to the minimum I want to get for something. If its stuff I have kicking around will do it on a `buy it now` cheaply.

Turbo lister is a good tool to use but i made the mistake of listing some things the other day (collectables) and didnt stagger the upload so they all finish at the same time.:eek:
Thought I was clever timing it to finish on early Sunday evening:D but if a bidding battle starts and they can only bid on one of them at a time it will knock the prices I get for them. Never mind:rolleyes:

Work can be sh*t, I had a misconduct charge last year and despite all my good reports and super quick promotions, they put me through the wringer.

This all happened at the same time as `it` decided to want to be a single man again.:eek:
Messy