Trying For a Baby part 4

tinkwings

skintscotslass wrote: »

Did you find out the answer to this one tink? I think its about £3k, but I could be wrong. Its only about 30% success rate, I know that. Loads of girls at work going through it. One had 10 cycles and finally had a wee boy.

Thanks SCL x DH was asking the other night when i had a stress head on.

It is a diffulcult one as in my head Ithink we have been trying for 3 months as for two months before we got married i was rubbish at taking my pill & was really poorly being sick etc. But I guess in reality it is only since we got marrried in October that I have not taken any pills AT ALL. Have been feeling very upset & scared and down. I need to instill in me that in reality I have only been TTC for ONE month and that these things take time. And a baby is something that I would like more than anything so I just have to keep trying and learn to reflax and not stop living.

On a +++ note I am due to OV next week so have booked in for a massage & a reflexology session. Every little helps!

xoxo

neneromanova

skintscotslass wrote: »

No!!!!! While you are actually POAS???? It takes a couple of minutes for the lines to show, he doesnt need to watch you pee does he? :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:

Yep. While I'm peeing. He want's to find out the same time that I do as he thinks it appears almost instantly. Bless him. It's his first child so I guess it's ok for him to be like this.

tinkwings

:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek: Our December Testing list is HUGE! :j

**confuzzled**

tinkwings wrote: »

It is a diffulcult one as in my head Ithink we have been trying for 3 months as for two months before we got married i was rubbish at taking my pill & was really poorly being sick etc. But I guess in reality it is only since we got marrried in October that I have not taken any pills AT ALL. Have been feeling very upset & scared and down. I need to instill in me that in reality I have only been TTC for ONE month and that these things take time. And a baby is something that I would like more than anything so I just have to keep trying and learn to reflax and not stop living.

On a +++ note I am due to OV next week so have booked in for a massage & a reflexology session. Every little helps!

It does get easier...honest:) I think to begin with you're so excited you over analyse everything and then gradually common sense takes over...at least for me it did:D

tinkwings wrote: »

:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek: Our December Testing list is HUGE! :j

Yup:D How many bfps u predicting?!?! I reckon 3:D

skintscotslass

tinkwings wrote: »

Thanks SCL x DH was asking the other night when i had a stress head on.

It is a diffulcult one as in my head Ithink we have been trying for 3 months as for two months before we got married i was rubbish at taking my pill & was really poorly being sick etc. But I guess in reality it is only since we got marrried in October that I have not taken any pills AT ALL. Have been feeling very upset & scared and down. I need to instill in me that in reality I have only been TTC for ONE month and that these things take time. And a baby is something that I would like more than anything so I just have to keep trying and learn to reflax and not stop living.

On a +++ note I am due to OV next week so have booked in for a massage & a reflexology session. Every little helps!

xoxo

Yes, easier said than done, but try to chill out. It's only been a month. Also, IVF is NOT an easy option. It's a horrible process and I have supported a close friend through it 3 times with no success. You have to inject yourself every morning. I never did quite understand the complete technical bit, but I'm pretty sure you 'trick' your body into shutting down ovulation and then 'trick' it back in to starting up again so that loads of eggs are released. Your hormones are all over the place. Then the eggs are taken out, they are examined to see what quality they are and then mixed with the sperm in vitro and then implanted. And like I say, its only 30% success rate. We read so many stories in magazines about success stories...but I know so many girls for whom it doesnt have a happy ending

skintscotslass

Oh Fuzz...stick me down for testing on Christmas Day for a laugh

balijay

**confuzzled** wrote: »

It does get easier...honest:) I think to begin with you're so excited you over analyse everything and then gradually common sense takes over...at least for me it did:D


I dunno - I had my first two at 18 and 22 - I was totally naive as to the things that can go wrong and the problems people have - I had 2 easy pregnancies. This time round I am a lot more clued up but am also a nervous wreck just thinking about being pregnant again! :rotfl:

**confuzzled**

skintscotslass wrote: »

Oh Fuzz...stick me down for testing on Christmas Day for a laugh

Done:D:D Now that would be an amazing xmas pressie:D

balijay wrote: »

It does get easier...honest:) I think to begin with you're so excited you over analyse everything and then gradually common sense takes over...at least for me it did:D

I dunno - I had my first two at 18 and 22 - I was totally naive as to the things that can go wrong and the problems people have - I had 2 easy pregnancies. This time round I am a lot more clued up but am also a nervous wreck just thinking about being pregnant again! :rotfl:

For me it's one thing at a time, I'm concentrating on getting pg then once I've cracked it I'll become a neurotic mess I'm sure:D

tinkwings

Thank You FUZZ & SCL xoxo

You ladies are truly amazing xoxo

jacobsmum

hey all hows everybody today?!
got work in an hour so thought id pop on before i go
yey i got the link right:T:cool:
thanks for the recipe becs shall have a go,maybe over the weekend how long does ginger bread last? personally i dont eat it yukkk
ohs birthday today hes 25! going to make his fav for tea lasagne:drool:

xx