Trying For a Baby part 4

LilDevil

sir_monster wrote: »

Yeah I feel like that too!! Good news that AF has finished :j:j

Well done to all the ladies :j:j:j . . . . . .

but please please don't take this wrong way I think I will be disappearing from here until after Xmas as is a long wait till I ovulate now and even longer wait until I can test again (poss second week of Jan!) and no offence I'm finding it hard to see all the BFPs (especially in large font!) at the mo as keep thinking I should be nearly 10 wks pg if not for the m/c - just finding it tough at the mo and I don't think it is helping me! I'm sure some of the ladies have gone through this and can understand . . .

Have a good Xmas and will see you after all the festivities :xmassmile

Sorry to hear you're feeling so down at the moment, I totally understand though! Hope to see you in the New Year. Have a great Xmas.

Sammy_Girl wrote: »

Hello

Firstly, I wanted to say a huge and heartfelt congratulations to Tinkswings, Courgette, MYLITTLESISTERLOLA, KitKat and Nemenerova. I am genuinely happy for you, and wish each and every one of you a very happy and healthy 8 months.

Secondly, I can't remember who posted it, but please don't feel bad about posting your happy news. This thread is about Trying for a Baby, and the desired outcome is that we get pg. When the time comes for the rest of us to get our BFPs, we would want the others to be happy for us too.

Thirdly, on a personal note, even though I am happy for the BFPs and wouldn't change them - it makes me very jealous! You lovely ladies have got what I want I've deliberately tried to spend less time on here as lately I just seem to be more and more depressed and worried that I'm never going to get the allusive BFP. In RL, everyone around me seems to get pg at a drop of a hat, and now it's happening on here too! I don't know if that makes any sense - I am genuinely happy for you girls, but I can't help but feel sorry for myself. But I do want to repeat that no one should ever have to hide their extreme joy and happiness at their BFP on here. I'm just wallowing in self pity at the mo.

Enough ramblings from me. I wish everyone on here all the best, and ideally we will all be on the pg thread together soon

I agree with this too!! Very happy for all you BFPers, but also very jealous!

Courgette wrote: »

*nervously peeks round the door, not gloating, not wanting to offend or upset anyone*

Um, I kind of feel like I am still ttc. Yes I've had a BFP but AF isn't even due til tomorrow, it will be 3 weeks til I'm past the stage of the mc then a further 5 weeks up to 12 weeks so I feel that although I'm over the first hurdle I've got a very very long way to go.

Although I want this soooooo much I daren't be happy cos I'm scared it will be taken away from me again, then I feel guilty because that's unfair on this baby - I want to enjoy every second of this pg just like I enjoyed every day (except the day I mc'd) of my last pg.

I'm still in shock to the point I pranged my car in the car park at work this morning - been driving for about 8 years and have never done this.

I would love to still be able to hang around here, I don't want to go over to the pg board where I don't even know anyone. If I could wave a magic wand and give everyone here their sticky BFP I would do it in a heartbeat.

Lots and lots of love ladies, you're awesome and thanks for putting up with my mood swings

xxx

I know what you mean, if/when I get my next BFP, I'd like to hang around for a while after what happened last time.

tinkwings

*nervously peeks round the door, not gloating, not wanting to offend or upset anyone*

Morning ladies......I am really sorry and feel really upset if I upset or offended anyone on here. It would be the last thing i would ever want to do.

It is complete limbo stage now I feel so happy & scared in equal measure.

I am sorry xoxo

balijay

Whats up Tinks?? I'm sure you haven't offended any one? I for one am absolutely thrilled for you! Don't be sorry and don't be scared - try and enjoy every minute!

**confuzzled**

becs wrote: »

Edit to say I think confuzzled is the expert on cervical mucus and feeling the cervix which will also give you an idea but I'm no good on those I'm afraid as don't get much cm.

I'm sure I can think of better things to be an expert in:rotfl::rotfl:

The top 29 things women want to achieve before they have their first child are:
1 Travel the world
[STRIKE]2 Buy a house[/STRIKE]
[STRIKE]3 Get married [/STRIKE]
4 Establish a good career
5 Pay off their debts
6 Become fully qualified in a profession
[STRIKE]7 Pass their driving test[/STRIKE]
8 Establish financial security
[STRIKE]9 Save money(if its particularly for having a baby then it's done)[/STRIKE]
[STRIKE]10 Take part in an extreme sport such as skydiving, bungee jumping or abseiling[/STRIKE]
[STRIKE]11 Own a car [/STRIKE]
12 Renovate a house
[STRIKE]13 Fall in love[/STRIKE]
[STRIKE]14 Learn another language[/STRIKE]
[STRIKE]15 Establish a good social life[/STRIKE]
16 Achieve goal weight
17 Live or work abroad
[STRIKE]18 Learn to play a musical instrument[/STRIKE]
19 Get fit
[STRIKE]20 Learn to swim [/STRIKE]
21 Run a marathon
22 Set up or run their own business
[STRIKE]23 Move to a new location[/STRIKE]
24 Teach at home or abroad
25 Learn to horse ride
26 Learn to ride a motorbike
27 Publish a book
28 Learn to deep-sea dive
[STRIKE]29 Climb a mountain[/STRIKE]

The ones in red are the ones that I have no inclination to do ever!!

Gymfiend...I stalk you too:o:D
I didn't realise EA stalked me:eek: The stalker has become the stalkee:eek::rotfl: EA I can't believe you're already contemplating another:eek: You're obviously hoping for the best woth LilyBump:D:rotfl:

Twinklie can't imagine how hard it is for you:( And tbh I can see both sides of the argument....you just have to do whats best for you:) x

Missy (((hugs))) to you...onwards to next month eh?:)

Becs I have major crossage of everything going on over here for you:D...out of everyone here you deserve it more than most, you've been VERY patient and VERY helpful to all of us:) xxxx

For those talking about PND, coping etc as much as I want a bubs once I get pg I will be papping myself:o I think it'll be at that point it'll suddenly dawn on me that this one person will be relying on me totally for the 1st few years of its life:eek: Scary days:D As for PND...I'm prone to bouts of depression for me it's identifying where/why it might happen and sorting it out before it does happen:o

Can't remember what else has been said coz you all gas too much:p

Sticky baby dust all round xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

tinkwings

balijay wrote: »

Whats up Tinks?? I'm sure you haven't offended any one? I for one am absolutely thrilled for you! Don't be sorry and don't be scared - try and enjoy every minute!

Thanks Honey. Just some comments on here made me think that my news had upset people. Hugs x

jennyfleur77

Morning ladies!!!

You lot have been rambling so much! I started trying to catch up last night and read about 5 pages but had to leave the rest to this morning!!!

Firstly welcome to all the newbies

Secondly WOW!!! So many BFP's!! That's amazing!

So huge congratulations to:

Courgette
Tinks
MLSL
Kitkat
Nemenerova

I bet you are all on !! Here's to a very happy 8 months!!!

I must say it has put an awful lot of pressure on the rest of us though!!! :mad:

I'm feeling lots lots lots better today! And about time I hear them all scream!! Went to the doctors yesterday and had some swabs done, while I was there I spoke to a really lovely nurse who totally put my mind at ease, she doesn't think that I have an infection, it's just taking my body a bit of time to settle down from all the prodding! She seems to think that after I've had a period that ther's no reason why we can't start TTC again!! So I'm going to drink as much as I possibly can between now and the arrival of AF!!!

For those who are feeling a bit blue at the moment, here's a bit of advice I keep telling myself (it may work for you too? ) Try not to dwell on what has or hasn't happened in the past, December is a month to forgive, forget and move towards a fresh new year! And remember there is a shining star out there for eveyone, say a prayer to it every night and your dreams will come true!

Or alternatively bury your head in the sand, get p***ed and cry!!!!!!! :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

**confuzzled**

Aww thanks for that Jenny its lovely:D...think I'll go with the 2nd option though...much more appealing:rotfl::rotfl:

smartie12

I spilt nearly boiling hot lemsip down my chest earlier :eek::eek::eek: Luckily my top soaked up most of it but it's looking rather red on my boob and just under:o Blimin hurt!:mad:

:D:D Nowhere near OV time and we're BDing EVERYDAY so far;):D Go me, go me!!!

Sooo busy on here recently:j

EDIT: Oh poo Got to go pick up poorly car

missymoo81

lol you go smartie!!! Good on you, my OH can't wait til next week, I think he wants to be Bding 3 times a day, I think I'll be worn out, either that or look like I've been horse riding to work!!!!!

Oh dear poor poorly car hope it gets better soon!

gettingthereslowly

Hi Everyone :santa2:

Have not been on for ages and in work so dont have enough time to read back (have to read when nobodys looking :rotfl:)

Congrats to those who got their BFP :j:j:j Fingers crossed to a happy and healthy 8 months

AF is due on Friday so waiting - not holding much hope though. Feeling really rubbish and under the weather at the mo but nothing an early night wont solve :rolleyes: (chance would be a fine thing!)

Welcome to all the newbies and BIG HUGS to anyone that wants one

Sticky baby dust to all xxxxxxxx