Trying For a Baby part 4

sir_monster

Morning Ladies, is a beautiful sunny day here but oh so cold. .

Anyway did test this morning and was a BFN and I'm getting AF type cramps so I reckon I will be out this month. Trying to look on the positive as is my work Xmas do on wednesday and want to be able to have an odd glass of wine without everyone wondering why I'm not drinking :beer::beer:. Also don't want to feel sick over Xmas so reckon will be BFP in the new year for me.

QQuaver

mennie wrote: »

tested this morning and now no second line at all

I am confused. Will wait until tuesday, day before fertility app and re test.

Finger and toes crossed for you;)

MERFE

morning everyone

mennie sorry about there being no 2nd line this morning, dont have any advice sorry, just have to wait and see.

sir monster love the PMA, it doesnt matter if its not this month because there is always next month.

**confuzzled**

Make-it-3 wrote: »

I'm so used to AF arriving, reseting the clock and getting buoyed up about a new month ahead and now I don't even know where I am at all.

Ah its rubbish when AF doesn't turn up when she should:rolleyes: Got my fingers crossed for you:)

mennie wrote: »

tested this morning and now no second line at all

I am confused. Will wait until tuesday, day before fertility app and re test.

Another set of fingers crossed for you too:)

Not much to report here, I had my last day of bunnyness yesterday and I got into such a strop after my failed attempts at seducing a tired DH that I cried:o:o Mainly out of frustration tbh and after a lovely lengthy chat at 1am:eek: he decided he understood a bit and was sorry for the lack of interest but he didn't realise I was OVing even though I'd told him the day before:rolleyes: He also didn't realise it was 9months since we decided to ttc, he is on a totally different wavelength to me when it comes to this baby making lark:mad: After his interest in what we should be doing etc the other month and me telling him a few things I thought we were onthe same track, although he didn't mention anything about how I know I'm OVing etc so I started to tell him and he shut me up...apparently it grossed him out:rotfl: So i have a hubby who not only doesn't like surgical documentaries but one that also doesn't like to sound of cervical mucus:rotfl::rotfl:
Sometimes I feel like I can't win!!! But anyhoo I got lucky last night:j Think it was mainly from guilt, but I'll take a guilty bd..it's better than none:D

Sirmonster remember it's not over til AF shows;):)

Sticky babydust to everyone and ((((HUGS)))) to those in need xxxxxxxxx

QQuaver

We just started TTC from Dec (mc in Aug) as planned, but it's CD29:o
Not even 2WW as we didn't BD last month - I've been away.
Can't wait to do that 2WW thing, thinking maybe I'm prego.....:p

Exciting times huh? (OK, so I'm a newbie).

smartie12

Morning

I'm feeling poorly this morning Supposed to have my course this morning but haven't gone.... got my first exam next week so it was quite important to go today:eek:

MYLITTLESISTERLOLA did you go out and buy all that baby stuff or do you already have it because of previous child??? Please don't take it the wrong way but to get things like that before even being pregnant is a bit crazy!! You get around 9 months to get everything anyway;) And for me I'm looking forward to knowing I'm pregnant and the excitement of going shopping:j And I think DH would divorce me if I started buying stuff... he shouts if I even look at Mothercare:rolleyes::rotfl:

Fingers crossed for those who need fingers crossing;)

(((HUGS))) for those who need hugs:A

And I'll have a tissue and a cup of lemsip please!

Puzzledbubbles

Jenni - HUGS for you, hope the DR's can help you soon! Really wish i was there to give RL support!

Thanks for the advice, i forget that my friend has moments where she cant see past the end of her nose and that everyone should be sharing her misery, i told her about mine and OH's plan (not in as much detail as i have told you ladies though lol) and she was a bit horrible to be honest

She said i should know she is always there so when it goes wrong dont be afraid to call - that i shouldnt be trying with OH at all becuase we havent been together long enough in her eyes (we are discussing ttc when we have been together over a year and arent rushing into it - after both having long and horrible relationships that ended with us both reassessing our priorities we know this is right for us)

She totally ignored the fact that im happy, that he is happy, that we can priovide a safe, loving and stable home, and that we are DISCUSSING not BD at the moment (well, only practicing lol) and she basically went off on a rant about me having all the things that i want and her having nothing (all because of a stupid conversation we had at 21 where i said i wanted to be married by 25, baby by 30 and safe and secure, she thinks im getting everything when i didnt ask for ex h to be vile, cheating scum and doesnt really see how hard i have to work to get anywhere bah.)

Right, anyway, ranting over - i guess like all of you lovely ladies have said its about what OH and i think is best for us and any little ones that may come along

Sticky baby dust to everyone and hugs all around im learning so much just by lurking, thank you ladies

xxxxx

mariagti

Hi

Im just popping my head in if you dont mind.

Yesterday at 11 weeks 6 days i found out at an early scan my baby had no heartbeat. I was told ive had a missed miscarriage. So ive been booked in for a ERPC on monday, which seems forever away.

ATM my head is all over the place, my OH has said he wants to try again, but right now i feel im too scared to ever try again when its possible incase this happens again.

Just wondering is there any ladies on here trying again after a M/C? How long did you wait until trying again?

Thanks

maria xxx

**confuzzled**

QQuaver wrote: »

We just started TTC from Dec (mc in Aug) as planned, but it's CD29:o
Not even 2WW as we didn't BD last month - I've been away.
Can't wait to do that 2WW thing, thinking maybe I'm prego.....:p

Exciting times huh? (OK, so I'm a newbie).

Hehe you'll soon be sick of ssing and thinking every bit of trapped wind is a sign:rolleyes::D

smartie12 wrote: »

Morning

I'm feeling poorly this morning Supposed to have my course this morning but haven't gone.... got my first exam next week so it was quite important to go today:eek:
And I'll have a tissue and a cup of lemsip please!

Hope you feel better soon hun:)

Puzzledbubbles wrote: »

She totally ignored the fact that im happy, that he is happy, that we can priovide a safe, loving and stable home, and that we are DISCUSSING not BD at the moment (well, only practicing lol) and she basically went off on a rant about me having all the things that i want and her having nothing (all because of a stupid conversation we had at 21 where i said i wanted to be married by 25, baby by 30 and safe and secure, she thinks im getting everything when i didnt ask for ex h to be vile, cheating scum and doesnt really see how hard i have to work to get anywhere bah.)

Ignore her, shes probably bitter seeing how happy you are:) And if it helps, if I'd had listened to my best mate & Mum(they were only thinking of me, they're not bitter or anything!), I wouldn't have moved in my DH after 6months(100miles from home) and definitely wouldn't have got engaged after 11months:D And so totally wouldn't be married right now:rotfl: You need to do whats best for you and sod everyone else:D:D

Maria I'm so sorry to hear you news:(:( There have a been a couple of girls here who have mc'd recently so unfortunately you are not alone:(:(
((((HUGS)))) to you and you OH, you'll both need time to grieve and come to terms with it and only you know whats best for you with regards to carrying on with ttc xxxx

**confuzzled**

Forgot to mention...I'm suddenly a bit more optimistic in my efforts to secure a bfp......we bd'd on the right day according to mmc:j:j I'd got my dates mixed up:j:j

Fingers crossed!! I'll be in my 2ww as of tomorrow....oh the joy:rolleyes::D x