MSE Parents Club Part 8

searching_me

i dont care glam i tell them my baby my choice .. get sodded x

Glamazon

searching_me wrote: »

i dont care glam i tell them my baby my choice .. get sodded x

she was a right stuck up cow - it started cosd I heard the HV telling a new mum to make up each formula bottle & I asked those present who seriously did that & she looked at me like I was from Mars!

redmel1621

3onitsway wrote: »

I will if you will! I'll drive.

I want to come, but dh seems to think you are all axe murderers...or kidnappers, who will kill me or kidnap Kai or both:rolleyes: It is a mass conspiracy or something, you have all been posting on here for years under false pretences and all your facebook pages are fake and even though some of you have met each other it was pre-organised that youwould each come on and vouch for each other being 'real':rotfl: Well I am probably exageratting a little bit but you get the gist!!

I don't think it is helping matters that he has had his meds changed and it takes a couple of weeks for them to settle down.

So I could say yes, as he keeps stroppily saying..."Do what you want!" but I don't want him to start a row when the time comes and then I am letting you down:o He might be fine, I just don't know with him anymore:rolleyes:

Mel x

money_maker_3

mel, I know you dont want an argument, but sometimes, you just need to do something for yourself, even if he does kick up about it afterwards. Been there, I ended up just arranging a babysitter without him knowing and telling him I was going to see my mum and coming home without the baby at 2 or 3 in the morning drunk !! But it was slightly easier for me, as Chris doesnt really shout, we do silent treatments !!

SusanC_2

HypnoNu wrote: »

I'm really unhappy at the moment, I finally got back in to see the docs today and have now got daktarin gel for Austins mouth and Daktarin cream for my nips as it looks like it might be thrush that we have,
...
I'm so so so unhappy....why can't i do this?

I've not had it but I vaguely remember MrsTine had a lot of thrush problems early on and did a lot of exclusive expressing until she got it sorted out. And although I'm not suggesting you go on to formula instead, it's not poison and it doesn't cancel out the benefits of any breastmilk you've fed Austin so far.

scruffy96uk

I'm heading into town tomoro as I forgot to get some xmas cards!!! Poundland have 2 for £1 (relations cards) and they are good cards to. Decided I better start writing some tonight, I ain't writing loads this year........ Think I say that every year!!!!

ETA Chippie will be 4 in 5 days time!!

money_maker_3

I have lost my list of last years cards somewhere in this abyss !!! So do I just write a card to everyone, or do I keep looking and sent to those that sent me last year ??
I have the Australia and Canada ones ready to go once my photos arrive, which should be tomorrow, and then its all England, 1 in Scotland and the rest here.

Oh meant to ask, does anyone live in or around Newcastle, specifically Pruda

3onitsway

Mel Hunny! Don't worry about letting me down. I know that plans don't always work when you have three children!
But you've met me in RL - and I'm not weird and I didn't try to axe your head!

SusanC wrote: »

My OH was trying to discuss future children when Alice was two days old!

Exactly what you want to hear when you have a two day old baby! :rolleyes:

HypnoNu wrote: »

Thankyou elle, I don't feel like I'm doing well at the moment, I just feel like I'm making him unhappy and letting him down, I'm on fenugreek already but it doesn't seem to be helping but the flapjacks sound like a plan, sod the healthy eating for now!!

When DD2 was fighting the boobie, someone lovely on here told me oats was good. A couple of days of oats so simple for breakfast really seemed to work! Honest! You're doing a brilliant job - and I don't think anyone hv's or friends prepare you for how bl00dy hard having a new baby really is!


I've just gone through the letter from payroll and my payslips - and i'm totally confused! I don't think they match up! Hmmm, maybe I should look in the morning!


ETA: I'm off to bed now - thank you all for your help today/tonight! You're all fab. xx

scruffy96uk

Not sure if this is any good to anyone

Sami_Bee

Glamazon wrote: »

i'll text sparkle tomorrow but know she's had a lot on her plate.

am hugely worried about feelie though

just snuck on while feeding jack - he decided to give himself a shower while I was putting his bedclothes on :rotfl:

gosh its so cold!!!

hypnonu - you have done amazing & I'm sure these lovely ladies will be able to help. I'm no good . got very :mad: at myself today when I was explaining that my surgery was the reason I couldnt BF. this woman was giving me right dirty looks for FF

The gritters are out tonight! it's officially winter! :j
What a cow that woman was!:mad: