MSE Parents Club Part 8

wi3adora

Evening all x

I'm tired and my feet hurt, but if I will spend 6 hours walking round the christmas market and in Debenhams then I've only myself to blame :rolleyes:. However I have finished my dad, both brothers, most of DH and part of my mums presents off so all in all a good trip. I got Daniel some gorgeous mittens off the market made out of the same marterial as moccasins
I ate far too much carp as well, I had a coconut macaroon, 6 marshmallows (they got squashed so was only fair that I eat them all :rotfl:), some cheese, a tuna crunch sandwich and a starbucks gingebread latte - hmm now I sound like a heifer, that's ok though as I know I am but I enjoyed it and I don't care:rotfl:

(Hugs) to Feelie and AM, hope you are ok ladies xx

feelinggood_2

Mfd - I just didn't manage to get to the GP. Then I ended up up here and the doctor here will only prescribe about 4 days worth and I'm not up to going that often. Normal GP only gives 10 to 14 days worth and I struggle to get there. Will mention that at December appointment. Don't know when I'm home, 21st or 28th. Appointment on 7th or thereabouts. Sorry for all this whinging and moaning, others' have got things so much worse. It feels like it gets harder as he gets older. I could deal with sitting and cuddling him all day. Now its a constant circle of getting finers out of the video, hands off wires, paper out of mouth. So many bumped heads, banged chins. Tantrum after having the remote taken away. He doesn't laugh like he used to

searching_me

question .. (just coz its getting to me) ... you know what your flat broke and doing what you can to get by you talk to your friends about how things are tight ...... then they talk about how broke they are and can they not get you a xmas present just make a chocolate slab (after id given the idea) when you know they blow there money and still have plenty to get them by ... does it make you angry inside? x

cazscoob

feelinggood wrote: »

Now its a constant circle of getting finers out of the video, hands off wires, paper out of mouth. So many bumped heads, banged chins. Tantrum after having the remote taken away. He doesn't laugh like he used to

i sympathise with this! all i feel like i do is say no and move erin from one place to the next. she was in the mop bucket tonight 5 mins after having clean PJs on, i get stressed and i know she doesnt realise she is doing anything wrong but she is my no5 and i still get like that! ITS NORMAL

tarajayne

(((Hugs))) Feelie, and hang in there. The fact that you worry about doing a good job shows what an amazing, careful Mum you are. And as for doing things wrong and being judged, well if you'd have heard the tuts at me this afternoon, , not gonna go in the playground in the morning, the perfect mothers won't want to talk to me!!! :mad: In other words, we all mess up (being human and all that). XXX :A

searching_me

feelinggood wrote: »

Sorry for all this whinging and moaning, others' have got things so much worse. It feels like it gets harder as he gets older. I could deal with sitting and cuddling him all day. Now its a constant circle of getting finers out of the video, hands off wires, paper out of mouth. So many bumped heads, banged chins. Tantrum after having the remote taken away. He doesn't laugh like he used to

to get zoe to laugh when she was tobys age you had to do a song and dance and extras seriously she was a miserable child for ages. and tantrums dont get me start honestly could of killed her at times .. its a good job i love her .. but its all normal darling x

money_maker_3

not really SM, everyone has a different view on being skint. 5 years ago, I thought I was broke if I couldnt afford a holiday, now I'm broke cuz I cant buy food for another week till wages come in !!

cazscoob

i would be annoyed too SM i think we will be telling people not to buy this year as we are mega skint and are strugling to buy for the kids, just got a bank charge too

money_maker_3

Oh !!! on the subject of possible bad parenting ...... I was at B & Q today and parked next to a car which had a baby no older than Dylan in it asleep on his own, I went in, bought a couple of things and when I came out he was still on his own !!! Now, I have no problem running in to pay petrol or something , but a trip round B & Q !!!! Thats ridiculous !!!

searching_me

money_maker wrote: »

not really SM, everyone has a different view on being skint. 5 years ago, I thought I was broke if I couldnt afford a holiday, now I'm broke cuz I cant buy food for another week till wages come in !!

the thing is i wouldnt so annoyed if she didnt go on about being as broke as me ....... i feel like shouting well you shouldnt of bought a f**king PS3 and Xbox 360 and maybe you would

cazscoob wrote: »

i would be annoyed too SM i think we will be telling people not to buy this year as we are mega skint and are strugling to buy for the kids, just got a bank charge too

im on min as it is but the ideas i have done to free up abit of cash shes took and going on about how she needs the money but dont worry she's blown loads already x