Mariagti's new chapter,the MSE way!

miemie

Hi Maria, glad your feeling a bit better today, as you know i had the op, i had what i can only describe as bad period pain and bleeding for a couple of days, i also waited till after my first period to start trying again, everyone is different you may not feel like trying straight away, do what you feel is right for you.
Take care and pm me anytime you want to talk.

kavics17

I had really heavy period after miscarriage, it was also 2 weeks late and lasted for 10 days. When I say heavy, it means really heavy-there was blood everywhere at one point. We still don't really "try", but don't really do anything against it-we have other goals to achieve before having a baby. You just need to follow your body and your head, you will know when you are ready to try again.

mariagti

I only cried this morning first thing when i woke up today, i actually got out of my PJ's today which must be a good sign. Ive spent most of the day having a good clear out today, chucking out all the baby magazines, coupons etc that clubs set me.

I have always suffered with heavy painful periods, the first day when the witch comes i am always cramped over in pain for the first few hours.

I have stocked up on heavy sani towels though which i dont normally use but i dont want an infection and dont really think tampons would be wise if its going to be clotty!!!!

Kavics- Thats a good idea...not trying but not preventing. I used Ovulation testing sticks when i fell pregnant, and we only done the deed on that one day when the stick read postitive!( We hardly got to see each other that month obv! lol) Which was pretty luckly, i know alot of women do it a twice a day everyday so not to miss there Ovulating day. My poor OH wishes he was that lucky!

kavics17

Yes, not trying means no disappointment-well, I am still very sad when I get my period but at least I'm not looking at baby stuff, etc. You will be alright Maria, just take it easy and let everyone pamper you.

mariagti

Morning

Im not sure what to do today, ive been stuck at home now since Thursday 'just incase'.

Last night i didnt feel too well at all, i had awful diarrhorea and cramping. I got in bed after and felt shakey, like i couldnt breathe and faint. OH grabbed my inhaler for me which helped a little but i think it was more a panic attack than asthma attack. i still felt faint and dizzy so he popped all my pillow under my feet so they were higher than my head. after about 5-10 mins i felt ok again.

Now im worrying over the op 2moz as ive been reading through the risks.....1 in 100 risk they might damage your cevrix, 1 in 1000 they might make a cut in your womb. The nurse hadnt told me about the risks when she offered me either the op or tablets. I asked her would the op effect future pregnancies and she said no thats why i opted for the op as the tablets she said i would have to take every 3-4 hours and say in the hospital and they would give me painful contractions to get every moving out.

The sooner 2moz evening is here the better, i have the op at 11.30am i should be there for 4 hours in total if all goes well.

Then tuesday ive got to drop off my car to the bodyshop and pick up my courtesy car up. It has to be me that signs for everything so i cant send anyone esle to do it for me. Hopefully i will be feeling alright, OH isnt going back to work until wednesday s his going to come with me.

lilmissmup

Hi Hun.

I haven't been online much at all but I saw your FB the other day.

I am really sorry hun, just like the others say take your time, only you will know when your ready to try again.

I will be thinking of you tomorrow sweetheart xxxx

mariagti

Thanks lilmiss

Ive just taken advantage of free listing on ebay and listed a few bits of mine and some more games for my OH.

Everyone keeps asking me what i want for christmas but i havent got a clue, theres nothing i really want or need.

yukkibear

Hope tomorrow goes ok will be thinking of you x

miemie

Hi Maria, just wanted to say i'll be thinking of you tommorrow, take care hun.
miemie

mariagti

Hi ladies,

Im back home and feeling OK.

I went in at 11.30am and didnt have op until 2.45pm, i came back round at 4pm. The op went ok but i suffered a bit of bleeding so they had to stop, but surgeon seems sure he removed everything anyway.
He said i will need a scan in next 2 days to have a look and see if any tissue got left behind, but assured me if there was i will pass it naturally.

I felt fine i was up and walking and eating 15 mins after i come back to my room. It wasnt until 3 hours later when they removed my needle that i felt really really hot, faint and dizzy and could feel blood coming out. I told the trainee nurse that was had just took the needle out and all she said is the window open. Which it was! So my OH flacked my magazine over me trying to cool me down he said i was as white as the bed sheets!

I felt fine after 10 mins then i was discharged they asked me what i wanted to do with the remains, did i want to take home to bury or take to funeral director or they will get it cremated and all is dealt with sensitively. I was rather freaked out thinking people take home the remains of tissue in the jar!:( So i said they can take it and cremate it for me.

Ive been cheered up as i just won an instant prize with rizla a mystery prize so i dont know what it is until it comes! Im hoping a nice LCD TV! lol, but it will probably be something small with rizla wrote on it.

Ive been told not to work or drive for 48 hours so my OH will have to drive my cortesy car home for me 2moz, i will drive it down the of the road until out of sight then let him drive it home for me!