5 OS Pleasures in your Day Today part 2

Chickenopolis

Kittikins wrote: »

Feeling insecure about OH today He didn't realise how hurt I got about something when I was at his earlier today, and I don't want to talk about it on text, as after all he doesn't know (a) that I'm feeling rubbish or (b) why.........*sigh* Just want to cry and kick and curl up into a little ball....but then I'd spoil my new makeup, and if he is mucking me around, I shouldn't let him have the satisfaction of getting to me - I'm 40 and fabulous (well, will be, whatever happens with him! After all, I only need DD in my life, everyone else can go to heck if they're going to hurt me)

((hugs)) to you kittikins - you have a lot going on at the moment - with the house and your health . Take it easy xxx...

Purple_kitten

1 A bacon sarnie – well we have to be up and out to run an event tomorrow so my theory is its leftover quick brekkie for tomorrow.
2 Checked the prices of houses in the area and came to the conclusion staying put may be the best idea.
3 Toad in the hole for tea, cooking as I type.
4.Popped over and set up the hall for tomorrow, with the best intentions and the bridge club came in ops didn’t know this, they were not fussed as we had effectively saved them setting the tables up and I’m sorry if this offends bridge players on here, but they just didn’t come across as the nicest people. Hey ho we will have to be early to set up tomorrow morning.
5. I found chocolate in the kitchen cupboard! Ahem past its sell by date but it didn’t seem to make any difference as there is now just an empty wrapper

VillageLife:- I am so sorry for your loss
kittikins: I hope things pick up
Ladyhawk: I know what you mean about the NHS, had a serious accident shattering my leg a few years ago now, when I read how much it costs in other countries, I am so thankful for the NHS despite it's bad publicity.

Ladyhawk

Kittikins - sorry to hear about your OH being disagreeable. I hope you manage to sort it out. Good luck for your viewings tomorrow.

Chicken - I must also have an inbuilt snooze button. Life would be so much more agreeable if siestas were mandatory!

Kittikins

Doesn't help that OH lives with his parents and has his teenage son staying this week, so we are not having any proper chats anyway, and then he obviously can't be ar*ed to see me once son has gone as he's going up to London to stay with friends on Monday night! (This was arranged before today's grump). Ho hum....

Frith

Hope you're OK, Kittikins.

Chickenopolis

Kittikins wrote: »

Doesn't help that OH lives with his parents and has his teenage son staying this week, so we are not having any proper chats anyway, and then he obviously can't be ar*ed to see me once son has gone as he's going up to London to stay with friends on Monday night! (This was arranged before today's grump). Ho hum....

I think that maybe you need to tell him that you are feeling a little "neglected" and why - but you might want to "sleep on it " and see how you feel about things tomorrow xx please feel free to tell me to mind my own business at any point xx

Kittikins

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Chickenopolis

kittikins - oh dear now I can see how this could put a whole different spin on things. I take it he doesn't know that you have seen his current status on the site ?? you can pm me if you need to x

Purple_kitten

Kittikins, I know it must be hard, but remember to try and think of a positive, e.g. every birthday I receive emails off ok cupid, wishing me a happy birthday saying while they see I am happy now, but here’s a selection of people you may want to check out, we find it funny.
You need to feel confident and secure a relationship.

Kittikins

Sorry, I'm a bit pants to put this all online aren't I......oh well, hopefully he'll call me soon and put my mind at rest. I have had trust issues in the past, was very very insecure when we met and he would just hug me, reassure me, make me feel loved, but tonight I'm feeling wobbly