Single and in Debt Part 3- The problem of surplus and excess women

Souk08

Hey Buffy, what about hareem type trousers, they look good with gladiator sandals or heels? Or what about nice boot cut/wide leg black trousers? Sure you can get them in Next/Dotty P's for about £20/£30.

Just catching up on the last few days and contemplating going for a walk. Will post later X

Buffythedebtslayer

Thanks Soul xx Don't do fashionable in any sense of the word. Generally look like a badly dressed librarian from the 70's.

Will check out DP and Next xxx

niccatw

I've got good few pairs of dark grey, browns and navy boot cut trousers, generally with a faint pin stripe or check through them, mostly originally from Jane Norman or Zara (but usually bought in charity shop or ebay ) I'm 5'3 so the pin stripe is in the vain hope I look taller .

(Failing that, the 5' heels will do it .)

Lula-Hula

Hello niccatw

welcome to the madness of SAID (aka Frugality & Fabulousity or Wine Chocolate & Shoes)

If no one's about, that's because we're all secretly lurking over on the marriages board; feeling relieved that we can read about it without having to actually live it .

Oh hush my cynical mouth - am all out of Gordon, no wine in the fridge & waiting for square shaped water to turn into ice cubes

Single & loving it - having a fab flirtationship with really funny guy at work - it wont progress beyond that & that's the beauty of it .

Gwen -sorry to hear about the POF man :grouphug:.

Dont think of it as being dumped though; that would only apply if you had actually been seeing them for some time in a mutually agreed relationship. A guy you meet through a dating site is essentially a stranger that you are getting to know & you really shouldnt think of them as 'yours' until you have spent a considerable amount of time with them & you have both decide that you want to make some form of commitment.

If you want a serious relationship with like minded people then you would probably be better off using one of the sites with a proper matching system, & you would expect to pay for that, when it to dating sites, you tend to get what you pay for.

I dont want to see your hopes & expectations dashed when you're already feeling a bit low. You are worth so much more :A.

Shoe_Gal

misslauren wrote: »

Just wanted to say a big thanks to everyone, and I'm back on track and more motivated than ever Have found a fashion design course it melbourne that will let me do a year exchange at either FIT or Parsons design in New York... so fingers crossed that's where I'll be going next year! Hopefully Melbourne guys are slightly better...

Amazing news :j well done you :A Best revenge is being Fabulous (thanks for reminding us all from time to time Lula :A)

Shoe_Gal

Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »

I need some fashion advice, I want to wear trousers that aren't jeans or tracksuit bottoms.
any suggestions? am 5.4 and a size 14- 16 and I very much like breathing. Oh and boot cut jeans suit me very well

xxxx

Boot cut trousers are very flattering. I also like wide leg worn with serious heels (otherwise they look a bit clown ish ) M&S have a good choice and not too trendy (and therefore date quickly)

And I think black rather than denim jeans look really smart

Buffythedebtslayer

Do you think black jeans are ok then ? where would you buy them?


Just as an aside a bloke on ok just asked me if I wore demin skirts............

xx

Shoe_Gal

Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »

Do you think black jeans are ok then ? where would you buy them?


Just as an aside a bloke on ok just asked me if I wore demin skirts............
xx

I love black jeans - smart, slimming and make you look taller - what's not to like :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: (I'm 5'4'' too)

Mine are from Wallis, straightish bootcut. Had them for ages and they have stayed really black after being washed (wash them inside out)

Buffythedebtslayer

hmmm. I will investigate, I just find jeans SO uncomfortable!

xx

Shoe_Gal

Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »

hmmm. I will investigate, I just find jeans SO uncomfortable!

xx

I love jeans Have been to work in low-rise flares, fitted shirt and killer heels