A Situation.......We are Stuck!!

Bootski

the-jackson wrote: »

Well I took offense to it aswell, That wasn't a nice thing to say! at allunder any cirumstance. Sorry if you took my post the wrong way but it wasn't meant to upset anyone. I had a friden who hada bad back and played on it and got DLA whilst his wife was with him as soon as she left him all of a sudden his back was fine! So he played on it and got DLA and did not need it1 All I meant was in some circumstances people sometime dont get it the ones being who are genuine! I cannot believe the comments that have been left especially about TERMINATION!, You evil git! Thanks - This was my last post and am now leaving this forum. Thanks to all the people who where kind there are some nicer people out there and regards to not being to afford to start a family!! WELL if you wait until you can afford it it may never happen! Thanks again for everyones help except for the person who called another human FAT and Lazy. Never again will I use this forum! C.

What a shame that you took offence, It was meant, as I've explained and I've made that clear. Nevertheless Bye Now! Good Luck to youxxxxxxx

Agbe

the-jackson: have sent you a PM.

Bootski

the-jackson wrote: »

Oh and by the way the way my wife is a member of this forum too wait until she sees some of these comments Think shes not gonna be upset by some of them ?????

Well don't show them to her then if you think it'd upset her. Mind you she may take the it a whole lot differently as you have and not be so offended - in fact I imagine she'd probably have a bit of a laugh!

Bootski

Bootski wrote: »

Well don't show them to her then if you think it'd upset her. Mind you she may take the it a whole lot differently as you have and not be so offended - in fact I imagine she'd probably have a bit of a laugh!

I didn't mean to offend Jackson - i'm sorry, so so sorry, so very sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry

Bootski

Oh well, from his original post he was expecting an awful lot anyway and he's a fat chance of succeeding!!

safesound

sunnysea83 wrote: »

For your information my aunt has an underactive throid and shes a size 6 and cant put any weight on because of it. So not every one is the same.

Are you sure its an UNDERactive thyroid and not an OVERactive thyroid, as that's usually what causes weight loss and an inability to gain weight.

kunekune

Oops, thanked Bootski when I meant to press ABUSE. That is utterly offensive and outrageous. I can't report you because my computer isn't set up to be able to use Outlook, but i hope someone else did. I just can't believe someone could say what you said there and the post is still displayed. Yuck.

Jewel_2

the-jackson wrote: »

Hi Folks,

I'm new here and would love some quick help!

Basically we live in Hull (me and the wife just married in April) and we would dearly love to move to Bridlington so we can start trying for a family and live more economically.

Now then, my wife is disabled and we are on income support. Unfortunately as she keeps getting turned down for DLA we are not in receipt of DLA.

I am finding it hard to find work now even though I'm a qualified IT Engineer.

What would be Ideal is for us to get a council house in Bridlington possibly on the grounds of my wifes disabilities and move there before Christmas. We can get good references from our landlord and we can get backup from her GP.

But, It's looking difficult to move to Bridlington through the Town Council straight away.

We cannot afford to go private due to paying for bonds etc.

As we privately rent in Hull we can't do an exchange.

Does anyone have any ideas on the best way forward ?



Thanks alot in advance!!!

Chris & Victoria

Did you want to move to Bridlington because that's where there is more work for an IT Engineer?

If I were you, I would start by looking at where your job prospects are best, and then see. Why not apply for jobs in lots of different cities, especially if your wife doesn't work, because then you are both free to move somewhere else. Then you could possibly afford private rental, which would give you more choice.

Bootski

kunekune wrote: »

Oops, thanked Bootski when I meant to press ABUSE. That is utterly offensive and outrageous. I can't report you because my computer isn't set up to be able to use Outlook, but i hope someone else did. I just can't believe someone could say what you said there and the post is still displayed. Yuck.

Your computer isn't set up for it? I don't believe you.

Is this still a touchy subject? Question is should the disabled be helped or still live a life being discriminated against? Does the suggestion of abortion upset you. It's not that long ago, that these people were either aborted or, if they lived, experimented on by Nazis'

You've completey changed the discussion. If you want to talk reality and not this OP's personnal circumstances and let rip - then open another thread in the Discussion Forum.

We're now, finally, talking about and accepting assisted suicide - will that offend you too :cool:

Bootski

the-jackson wrote: »

hi folks,

i'm new here and would love some quick help!

Basically we live in hull (me and the wife just married in april) and we would dearly love to move to bridlington so we can start trying for a family and live more economically. urrg??

now then, my wife is disabled and we are on income support. Unfortunately as she keeps getting turned down for dla we are not in receipt of dla.

I am finding it hard to find work now even though i'm a qualified it engineer. hmmm!

what would be ideal is for us to get a council house in bridlington possibly on the grounds of my wifes disabilities and move there before christmas. We can get good references from our landlord and we can get backup from her gp. no chance - what for ?

but, it's looking difficult to move to bridlington through the town council straight away. again, you've no chance

we cannot afford to go private due to paying for bonds etc. you mean a deposit and rent in advance?? Again, you've no chance

as we privately rent in hull we can't do an exchange. hull? You mean the end of god's earth? Again, you've no chance

does anyone have any ideas on the best way forward ? i doubt their's any ideas that would spring to mind, even to the most experienced



thanks alot in advance!!!

Chris & victoria

no, you really are stuck and should be happy with what you've got