MSE Parents Club Part 7

Sami_Bee

tiamai_d wrote: »

...Well done t'other Christopher (we had 1 poo and 1 wee pee)
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Bruno, should we tell our menfolk that if they do the dishes they will get more sex because we will feel less frustrated with them .

We ended with 6 wees, 4 accidents :j
Thats the only way dishes get done by OH here!

ladybirdintheuk wrote: »

Congratulations Mel!

You're making me broody too...

I didn't get the job. Good feedback though - she told me to keep applying for jobs at the council as I would be an asset to them, which isn't bad going. Someone else had more experience though, which is the luck of the draw with interviews I suppose. Never mind.

sorry about the job but at leastyou wom the skibz bib comp through BB (did you know you've won?)

SugarSpun

Really, MM? My doctor was really scary when telling me all the things that might happen

3, it's not that I didn't do it properly, I think it's just that it was an emergency, I was on oxygen and given so many drugs that my body went into shock, and then we had a baby and it's only now I have time to breathe that I can feel a bit sorry for myself that it didn't go the way I wanted, and I'm frightened for the next time while wanting to have more babies.

Skinty, it would be a good idea to stash cereal bars around the place. Don't neglect your food intake, it'll have an effect on the fat content of your milk as well as the quality - and most importantly an effect on your mood. Look after yourself :grouphug:

Tia, that was lovely.

My_Fathers_Daughter

tiamai_d wrote: »

But we can all give you advice all day but when it comes down to it, you will find a way to get through it yourself, we all do because we are Mums and thats what we do. Mums are amazing.

:T:T:T



Skinty - if you are not eating properly then your milk will be of a lesser quality - you need to feed you up to feed your daughter. You may find that increasing your calorie intake decreases Lilia's feeding frequency - the baby needs good, creamy milk.



Edit - SS beat me to it - and said it much more eloquently.

3onitsway

SugarSpun wrote: »

Really, MM? My doctor was really scary when telling me all the things that might happen

3, it's not that I didn't do it properly, I think it's just that it was an emergency, I was on oxygen and given so many drugs that my body went into shock, and then we had a baby and it's only now I have time to breathe that I can feel a bit sorry for myself that it didn't go the way I wanted, and I'm frightened for the next time while wanting to have more babies.

I remember them saying something about a 1/100,000 chance of a problem with the scar in future pregnancies, but I don't remember them saying how long to wait before the next one.

Was there a reason for the emergency? Like, is there a chance it would happen again, or was it just one of those things?

Mine was 'one of those things', and there was no reason to not go on and have a VBAC (or two ) - but I did get a lot of extra tests/scans/care when I was pregnant with No.2. which was reassuring.

angelfairy

hi all,

just came on to see the brilliant news of Mel. congratulations!!!!!!!

going back to catch up (although i should have an early night, LO was up neay once every hour last night, waking up screaming)

x

money_maker_3

SS, I had a really bad emergency c section with Jas so had the planned section with Dylan so it was controlled and I knew what was happening. Apart from Dylan being sick, the whole experience was fantastic. I had complete knowledge of what was happening when, and got to hold Dylan as soon as he was born and was relaxed. One scary birth doesnt lead to another

feelinggood_2

I can email my HV, if that is an idea Skinty?

I keep meaning to talk to her, although to be honest I get the impression my problems are a bit out of her experience. Need to go back to GP. Medication has increased to a level that makes me sleepy but isn't helping. Think this counts as med resistant now. I thought it;d be 10th time lucky!

weezl74

sugarspun you might find this link reassuring

angelfairy

i forgot to say but i was lucky enough to be picked to test a highchair for BB. pleased as i have been feeding LO on my lap/sofa/bumbo (which she tries to arch back out of standing up)

emlou2009

redmel1621 wrote: »

If I Remember Correctly

i've been wondering that for ages!!!

My_Fathers_Daughter wrote: »

Been a rough day all round in MFD towers

why was it a crap day? hope you're feeling better now :grouphug: