MSE Parents Club Part 7

money_maker_3

em, could he not be at his mums when she is there???

emlou2009

his ex never leaves her there and they usually turn up unannounced or that would be the perfect idea MM. we went round to the IL's last night and DSD apparantly asked who the photo of the baby was (seth) and the ex changed the subject, then when they were leaving threatened that none of them would ever see her again if she found out about seth cos it would upset her too much?! can you say freak?

weezl74

it's going to upset her more to get to 18 and discover she has a brother and her mum wouldn't tell her!

Glamazon

Weezl - question 4 - do I put 16 years? I have 5 years pension and I have 34 years til I'm 60 so 2/3rds is approx 11 - 5 plus 11 = 16

Love that calculator - on my earnings now my pension would be £12.5K a year but am hoping to be on at least £35K by the time I retire (if not more) so would be £17.5K a year with a whopping £52K payout!

That's why I've moved back to the PCT cos you automatically move up a pay point every year AND get your cost of living allowance - in my 'current' job we get cost of living only! If I stayed in the same job I'd be on £32K in about 5 years without promotion :j

elle - OMG back to work prep already! :eek:

weezl74

Glamazon wrote: »

Weezl - question 4 - do I put 16 years? I have 5 years pension and I have 34 years til I'm 60 so 2/3rds is approx 11 - 5 plus 11 = 16

28 yrs I make it glam, 2/3rds of 34 is 22.66666666 +5= 27.66666666 and they always round it up above.5

hth

emlou2009

weezl74 wrote: »

it's going to upset her more to get to 18 and discover she has a brother and her mum wouldn't tell her!

:T i'm glad to see i'm not the only one with a brain!!



on a completely different subject, the postie has brought seths cup from bizzie baby... in a box that states suitable from 9 months, and in a lovely shade of pink!!!

feelinggood_2

My goodness, have you seen the announcment at the top of the page?!

Toby fell backwards and bumped his head First fall in over 2 months of sitting, he cried Do I need to do anything? He is feeding now, am I okay to let him sleep?

Glamazon

weezl74 wrote: »

28 yrs I make it glam, 2/3rds of 34 is 22.66666666 +5= 27.66666666 and they always round it up above.5

hth

2/3rds doh :doh:
I worked out 1/3rd and forgot to double it!!!

Thanks!

So would they get the lump sum and then half and quarter the annual amount?

emlou2009

i hadnt til you said feelie, but what a long closure for daytime!! i am scheduling some cleaning for that afternoon

i clicked post too quick! he should be fine feelie, when i took seth to a&e after his falling off the bed incident they said any fall should be fine as long as its not from higher than he is tall, IYSWIM. they also said if he cries then thats a good sign, but if he goes quiet then that isnt a good sign. HTH

tiamai_d

Feelie, I worry more when they don't cry. Has he been sick? Does he look out of it? If no, then he is probably fine, but call NHS 24/direct if you are worried. The times when Chris and Michael have had serious bumps, they both vomited almost straight away and looked dazed. And boy have there been a few trips to A&E! Gotta love boys

I'd say you probably got the bigger shock.