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  • novagirl
    novagirl Posts: 1,578 Forumite
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    Was thinking of you on my daughter's birthday csh and was hoping it was gonna be the day for you but I see it wasn't :(

    Having an awful week as OH has decided to up and leave so now trying to sort out whether I can afford to keep the house, pay debts AND afford a new baby :( At least I've still got all the big stuff already so it'll just be the day to day baby things to get which aren't alot if you shop around for the bargains.
  • csh_2
    csh_2 Posts: 3,294 Forumite
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    Hugs, Novagirl. Is this defo a permanant thing or will some space for both of you help?
    Do you work?
  • BeenieCat
    BeenieCat Posts: 6,567 Forumite
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    Wow i just went to read what yorky was referring to. Gawd i'm gonna bite my lip....
  • novagirl
    novagirl Posts: 1,578 Forumite
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    csh wrote: »
    Hugs, Novagirl. Is this defo a permanant thing or will some space for both of you help?
    Do you work?

    I reckon so this time which is a shame but never mind. It's not the first time he's done it..:rolleyes:
    I work 3 full days a week at the moment which gives enough to pay all the bills etc so I'm sure we'll be ok...just no more treats for a while! :rotfl:
  • csh_2
    csh_2 Posts: 3,294 Forumite
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    novagirl wrote: »
    I reckon so this time which is a shame but never mind. It's not the first time he's done it..:rolleyes:
    I work 3 full days a week at the moment which gives enough to pay all the bills etc so I'm sure we'll be ok...just no more treats for a while! :rotfl:


    Make sure that if you are claiming CTC and WTC to tell them to cancel joint claim and get your new income adjusted soon as. If they are joint debts make sure he pays his!!!!
    Look after your health and try not to stress.
    Theres always a way to get treats, start stalking the grabbit board for bargains:money:lol
  • Hi All
    I have just found out today I am pregnant with my second baby. It still hasn't sunk in! But we're totally over the moon! :j :D
    So I am on a mission to have a frugal pregnancy and birth!
    Any tips, 3 years since I was last preg and need it to come flooding back :rolleyes:

    xxx

    Congrats Mrs Tradition and welcome :)

    Jillie I am so sorry, I must have missed your post about SIL (((hugs))) to you and OH

    Labour Vibes for Squishy, Harley and CSH

    Iheartfreebies - yay for team pink

    Congrats Yorkygirl :) my docs didnt test me, they took my word for it

    Musogirl - I am sorry you have had bleeding, but I am really pleased everytihng is ok

    I am going to go and read what happened on the TTC thread, and I know what you mean CSH but I got a BP my first month of TTC and they were really nice?

    Im sorry to hear that Novagirl :(
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  • csh_2
    csh_2 Posts: 3,294 Forumite
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    BeenieCat wrote: »
    Wow i just went to read what yorky was referring to. Gawd i'm gonna bite my lip....

    Hmmmmmm, I agree Beenie. Not a nice reception when you're just after a wee bit of advice
  • csh_2
    csh_2 Posts: 3,294 Forumite
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    I am going to go and read what happened on the TTC thread, and I know what you mean CSH but I got a BP my first month of TTC and they were really nice?

    Im sorry to hear that Novagirl :(

    At the time I was trying there was a lot of tension on the board about people joining and getting a quick BFP. It was like there were saying it wasn't deserved cos you hadn't been there long enough, which is ridiculous This was last year tho so no idea what its been like lately :confused:


    I have tummy cramps, am going to either have dia woo woo or a baby, can't decide which:rotfl:
  • BeenieCat
    BeenieCat Posts: 6,567 Forumite
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    Well it's just bitter jealousy. People post there first cos they prob feel like it's daunting to come straight here, almost like tempting fate in case it's wrong. I can see what they;re saying but if they've been TTC for so long there's another thread entirely for that. Maybe if we all went in the long term ttc thread "boasting" then i could see that would be a kick in the face for them.
  • novagirl
    novagirl Posts: 1,578 Forumite
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    They're all his debts csh but stupidly all in my name! What a plonker.

    Congrats Mrs_Tradition!

    I daren't look on TTC...I once had a look and got lost with all the random numbers and letters!LOL

    Off to ebay random stuff so take care everyone xxx (Hurry up csh's little boy!hehe)
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