Daily Chat Tuesday 15th September - hopefully no chocolate talk today!

Snaggles

Squizz - he did say in his email 'I didn't realise the strength of your feelings', so I guess you are right, except this is what I sent to him after we went to Cambridge for the weekend, and he had told me he only wanted friendship:

'This isn’t easy but I’ve been thinking a lot since last weekend and I can’t cope with things as they are.
I had an amazing time with you, but I realised that spending time with you just makes me like you more and more, and knowing you don’t feel the same is hard to take, and is making me unhappy.
I can’t continue to be your friend because I can’t stop myself falling for you.
And I can’t hide those feelings and pretend everything is fine and I am happy with a platonic relationship with you, because it’s not fine, it makes me feel sad and lonely and frustrated'.

So how didn't he not 'realise the strength of my feelings'?? Did he think they had just died, in the few weeks between then and now? And in that case, does he just think I'm a bit of a sl*g, sleeping with someone I DON'T have feelings for??

What a c0ck. :mad:

redsquirrel80

He's just making excuses Snags - he's not going to say "I knew you liked me a lot but I thought I'd just take advantage anyway" because then he'd be admitting he did something wrong.

Toto

snags he is a complete @rsehole. Now you listen to me. This !!!! does not deserve your tears. How dare he say that he only slept with you because he was drunk. He is worse than shrek, he pretends to be mr lovely but when he was caught being a cheating maggot he turns the tables and makes it sound as if he was doing you some sort of a favour by allowing you to spend time with him. Who the hell does he think he is?

The comment about being drunk was designed to do nothing other than hurt you. Grrrrrr I really don't like this bloke.

So, mrs fabulous what are we going to do to help you pick yourself up and move on? If you fancy coming down here with the kids for the weekend you are most welcome.

Snaggles

Thanks guys, and that's such a kind offer Toto, but can't get any time off work at weekends at the moment.

The comment about being drunk wasn't quite as blatant as that, but that's exactly what he meant. On Saturday he said that rum makes him do dumb things. I jokingly challenged him about that at the time, and he immediately said he hadn't meant it how it sounded, and that some of the things he does whilst drunk are just damn good.

Then in the email last night, he said the reason he felt dumb on Saturday was because he realised he shouldn't have slept with me, and if he had been thinking straight, he wouldn't have.

So maybe it's just me paraphrasing a bit, but I didn't have to jump too far to find the conclusion.

jacs76

bank_of_slate wrote: »

After reading lots of the posts over the last few weeks on here about man troubles I consider myself very lucky to have a hard working, lovely, cuddly, considerate hubby.
Didn't want to let go of him and let him out of bed this morning
...Linda xx

i have got one of them linda, so i too feel lucky, just wish he didn't have to go away for 6 months....but that will be it end of tours and him helping me with my impending career that starts in 13 sleeps :eek::j

jacs76

Snaggles wrote: »

What a c0ck. :mad:

:rotfl::rotfl:sorry.......i could just hear you muttering that out loud.

he is hunny and i don't know what to say so i gonna say almost nuffin ok x

k_bagpuss

becky_rtw wrote: »

and if its a lazy morning you get naughty morning cuddles too :D:D

(the best way to start the day )

Abso-bloomin-lutely! :kisses2: They are the best mornings of all! :rotfl:

jacs76

oh before I go and shove my smelliness in the shower (just took dogs round the woods 2 hours later:eek:)

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TOTO AND MR TOTO:T
i spent mine on my own last week too, which is plop, but hey ho.

bank_of_slate

Excellent, DHL man has just brought my new Belkin ipod arm strap!
my old one was dead!
...Linda xx

beanielou

Good luck with application Sally

Happy anniversary Toto & Fran