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Daily Chat Tuesday 15th September - hopefully no chocolate talk today!

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  • becky_rtw wrote: »
    Awwww I wish i had mine in the week to cuddle in the mornings - although I did put an order in by text for cuddles tomorrow night (because he popping over from Leeds) :D

    He's normally long gone to work before I wake up but this morning I was awake early for some reason. This is a very rare occurrence, I am NOT a morning person.
    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Toto wrote: »
    awww snags, I hate that you feel like this... bloody men!

    Have you heard from him?

    Thanks. Yes, he contacted me last night to ask why I had deleted him from FB. I sent him an email explaining, which he replied to - that's when he told me that he slept with me because he was drunk, and if he had been thinking straight, he wouldn't have. :(

    There was a lot of other stuff that he said too, his email wasn't nasty, and he tried to phrase everything as kindly as he could, but it doesn't change the fact that he has strung me along knowing that I really liked him.

    Suddenly feel slightly sorry for his wife - seems that wasn't quite as clear cut as he makes out either, considering he had an affair.
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
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  • becky_rtw
    becky_rtw Posts: 8,393 Forumite
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    He's normally long gone to work before I wake up but this morning I was awake early for some reason. This is a very rare occurrence, I am NOT a morning person.
    ...Linda xx

    I LOVE mornings :D:D:D (;))
  • becky_rtw wrote: »
    I LOVE mornings :D:D:D (;))

    :eek: Why????????? :eek:

    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • Snaggles wrote: »
    Thanks. Yes, he contacted me last night to ask why I had deleted him from FB. I sent him an email explaining, which he replied to - that's when he told me that he slept with me because he was drunk, and if he had been thinking straight, he wouldn't have. :(

    He's an absolute tw4t Snaggles!
    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • pepe2008
    pepe2008 Posts: 5,158 Forumite
    Snaggles wrote: »
    Thanks. Yes, he contacted me last night to ask why I had deleted him from FB. I sent him an email explaining, which he replied to - that's when he told me that he slept with me because he was drunk, and if he had been thinking straight, he wouldn't have. :(

    There was a lot of other stuff that he said too, his email wasn't nasty, and he tried to phrase everything as kindly as he could, but it doesn't change the fact that he has strung me along knowing that I really liked him.

    Suddenly feel slightly sorry for his wife - seems that wasn't quite as clear cut as he makes out either, considering he had an affair.

    Get it out of your sytem Snags....he says he slept with you cos he was drunk! That makes two of you? ****hole.

    edit...tryping with left hand only is not easy...puppy sleeping in right hand, snoring loudly bless her!
    :D:D stay wonky :D:D

    ....one-way ticket to Portugal booked !
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    What a !!!!!! Snags....
    If he knew how you felt about him and he wasn't interested then he should just have stayed away and not tried to do the whole friend thing! TBH I think he knew exactly what he was up to!
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Right I must go and do some work for half an hour..boss might be turning up! Am a bit worried about how quiet it has been in the shop....Think if things don't pick up she is going to be struggling!
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • pepe2008 wrote: »
    Let it out Squizz...........then just sit down calmly

    Just... aaaaargh!!!

    Snags, it sounds like he's realised you like him and has been taking advantage of it - it's probably happened to most of us at some point, know I've been there, a few years back, guy who had lots of money, did the whole nice dinners things etc, being 'gentlemanly', sending lots of really sweet texts as if he was really smitten and overwhelmed by the whole thing... even introduced me to his parents very early on, then suddenly after I'd slept with him he "wasn't looking for something as serious as I seemed to be" - we had mutual friends and I saw him do the same to several other girls after me.. I'd still like to slap him now :mad:
    Debt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012.
    "I cannot make my days longer so I strive to make them better."
  • becky_rtw
    becky_rtw Posts: 8,393 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    :eek: Why????????? :eek:

    ...Linda xx

    Well I work my best in the mornings (after coffee of course), I run my best in the mornings and if its a lazy morning you get naughty morning cuddles too :D:D:D

    (the best way to start the day :p)
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