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Weekly Flylady Thread 14th September 2009

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  • Money_saving_Diva_2
    Money_saving_Diva_2 Posts: 2,914 Forumite
    edited 20 September 2009 at 4:04AM
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    Morning ladies!yawn2.gif

    Fedupandskint - big big hugs to you honey and personally if your OH is mad enough to play around on you then he isn't the one for you and maybe it's time you took control and ended it, so you can be free to carry on your life and meet the person you ARE meant to be with. You seem like such a nice person and deserve better. I hope you don't mind me commenting..
    MOAM - I really feel for you. I can see how much you love and adore your son. I always wanted children but after a horrid miscarriage in my twenties I was told I never could, so I understand the regrets and the dreams of what might have been.

    Ok so yesterday apart from my lists I also potted on and planted out lots of lavender babies. This does however mean that indoor things were just not even attempted!

    So, my list for today is as follows -
    Feed the cat at least twicecat.gif
    Brush the cat
    Sort and delete 10 emails
    reply to emails
    Clean bathroom sink
    Spray bleach on the bottoms of the shower curtains

    Extras
    [STRIKE]
    Put breadmaker on
    put washing in WM and switch on
    [/STRIKE]
    fill up bookcases with books from bedroom and bathroom
    Make a Get Well Soon card - sooo not inspired
    Make a new baby card - ditto
    Post on gardening Forum

    Paint my nails and do nail art

    I hope you all have a successful day flying. hugs.gifto all who need them.

    Diva.x
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  • toochoosey
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    Good morning all,


    Dailies
    washing, S
    swish and swipe kitchen and bathroom, S
    ironing T F S
    making beds, S
    vacuuming high traffic areas, S
    making meals etc S

    Night-time routines
    preparing clothes for the next day, F S
    making lunches,
    swish & swipes of the kitchen and tidying the living room S


    Twinkly Tuesday ~ Kitchen & Dining Room
    done



    Clean any chairs in these rooms
    1. 15 minutes filing & shredding
    Thursday ~ Kiddies rooms, Spare rooms or another neglected room
    Level One
    Declutter and vacuum the floor
    Tidy away all the toys and clothes and games and books that are in the wrong places

    Level Three
    Dust and deweb
    Wipe over the bedframes and paintwork
    Binbag dance!



    FRIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIDAY! ~ Master bedroom and Landing
    Level One
    Vacuum the floors
    Level Three
    Dust and deweb.. don't forget the bedframe and light fitting!
    Polish any glass bits.. table tops, lamps, mirrors etc


    just finding my list.......
  • SarahShattered
    SarahShattered Posts: 2,223 Forumite
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    edited 20 September 2009 at 8:17AM
    Morning All, :hello:
    I'm in mean mummy mode, so I've told them they can stay in teir rooms and read..... for crying out loud, you'd think I'd told them to stand on one leg in the snow for 5 hours!! :rotfl: :rotfl:

    So, I'm going to put my coffee on the brew, and then I'm back up to bed myself.
    We're off to my Dad's for lunch today. I'm going to take a belated birthday pressy too. :D

    Toots we're all good thanks, children are well, the usual trials and tribulations! DH is behaving himself too :D so all's great really. I just feel like I need to blitz the house, after I went with a friend to see an example of her builders work. This woman's house was immaculate, and large! I came home feeling very depressed about my little hovel! I think I need to take my own advice and list everything that I want to do here, and tackle it a bit at a time. Hope you're ok lady-lady. (((hugs)))

    See you laters..... :wave:
    SS
    xx
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    'Mean Mummies that set and stick to boundaries' :p

  • kazwookie
    kazwookie Posts: 14,278 Forumite
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    edited 20 September 2009 at 9:57AM
    Morning folks

    Sorry I missed out on last night, but I kinda got busy :o;) and the radio with the footie results was not needed.!! :rotfl:

    Greenbee count me in on the trip to Pigpen's / Triker's ....

    Shoes I would love them but cannot afford them!! so I'll just look at the pic.

    Catching up on James Bond as OH set the machine before we got busy...

    Folded washing sorted out, socks paired, just going to iron in a bit.

    Hugs and have a good day
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  • juliejim
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    Morning All

    It's been a busy couple of days as it was DS's birthday on Friday. Yesterday I wrapped a pile of Christams presents so they could go up the loft out of the way. We also went to Toys'r'us as DS wanted to spend his birthday money!

    We're out from about 10.30 but I need to do a few jobs before then really.

    Have a good day all and Froddy can I share your tent? I like pink and purple!

    Hugs

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  • greenbee
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    Triker wrote: »
    Also just decluttered the immediate are next to my bed and remove the 5 large stacks of books and moved them elsewhere in the room for sorting tomorrow. Trouble is all bookshelves are groaning.

    Well you know what you can do about that... organise a cardboard box by each bookshelf, and once a day try to locate one book in that shelf that you know you won't read again and [STRIKE]bung it[/STRIKE] put it carefully in the box. You'll have to decide what to do with the full boxes... 1. put in the attic because you can't bear to part with them and they make great insulation :p 2. sell on ebay/amazon/green metropolis 3. charity shop

    You have to do this every so often... the only other option is to keep extending the house to make room for the millions of books that are published each year. I hate doing it, but I also hate falling over piles of books.

    Triker wrote: »
    Whatabout an Ooze of Flyladies.:rotfl:

    That sounds about right for those of us who haven't done much flying recently!

    Breakfast has been made and a I'm slowly eating it, but I forgot to defrost any fruit last night, so I'm eating yogurt, muesli and frozen raspberries! There's a load of washing on (bedding etc) and once that's on the line I'll head off to the farmers market. I might see whether I can fill a couple of garden bags before then, so that I can stop off at the tip on the way there.
  • Well it's a new day and a new mood.

    Thanks for all the wise words from everyone, isn't it strange how everyone can see what to do from afar but you can't always see it yourself.

    As I sit here with a slightly groggy alcohol induced head after 3 glasses of wine I will pick myself up and not slump into a dwelling sludge of a mood.

    Will keep myself busy.
    WM on
    Really must make the ketchup today before it is too late for the tomatoes

    Catch you all later on

    En mass fly ladies = coven?/deluge?/army?

    Imagine what that night out would be like! My head aches just thinking about it! Better have a week off drinking now don't like this hungover feeling
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  • greenbee
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    Fedup - I'm currently reading this book, which you might find interesting. And it was only £2.99 in Borders... which is why I got it, as I needed something to read and it looked vaguely interesting. It is, and it's a relatively easy read, but not the escapist rubbish I'd been planning on getting!
  • xx_Jo_xx
    xx_Jo_xx Posts: 2,858 Forumite
    Uniform Washer
    Manic Monday ~ Living Room, Hall and Stairs
    Level 1

    [STRIKE]Vacuum floors and sofas[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]Wipe and water plants
    [/STRIKE]
    Level 2
    [STRIKE]Dusting, even if around everything[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]Remove clutter making sure stairs especially are safe[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]Clean TV, other electricals and cabinets
    [/STRIKE]
    Level 3
    Wipe light switches, sockets (make sure they are not switched on!!) and banister
    Clean any other glass like mirrors, pictures etc
    Tidy shoes, coats and bags .. Sort through a handbag
    Extra
    1. Paperwork clearance.. spend 15 minutes minimum sorting through those piles of paper.
    2. [STRIKE]Vacuum under furniture you can manage to move without hurting yourself [/STRIKE]
    3. Clean a window or two.
    4. Binbag dance
    Twinkly Tuesday ~ Kitchen & Dining Room
    Level One
    [STRIKE]Declutter worksurfaces
    [/STRIKE]
    Sweep and mop floors
    Level Two
    [STRIKE]Wipe worksurfaces and see if you can do those small appliances on the way round
    Wipe fronts of units and large appliances
    [/STRIKE]
    Run the large appliances through a clean cycle
    Level Three
    [STRIKE]Clean out the fridge
    Wipe the hob and oven
    Clean the table and replace cloth if needed[/STRIKE]

    Extras
    1. Wash windows
    2. Clear and wipe all sills
    3. Wash any blinds/curtains that are in need
    4. HHI
    Wednesday ~ bathroom annd cruddy study
    Level One
    [STRIKE]Declutter floors
    Mop or vacuum as appropriate
    [/STRIKE]
    Level Two
    [STRIKE]Empty and wash out bins.. to make it worth while you should fill them first!
    Scrub bath, tiles, shower head.. you all read the link I hope?!.. sinks toilets keyboards mouses etc...
    Defrag pc.. delete 50 unwanted emails and 10 dead/unused links
    [/STRIKE]
    Level Three
    [STRIKE]Clear the desk of gibble and give it a dust as you dust and deweb the rooms
    Wash the shower curtain/baths mats etc if required
    [/STRIKE]
    Shine any mirrors and clear mantels
    Extras
    1. Wipe radiators, shelves and paintwork
    2. Wash windows if needed
    3. Clean any chairs in these rooms
    4. 15 minutes filing & shredding
    Thursday ~ Kiddies rooms, Spare rooms or another neglected room
    Level One
    [STRIKE]Declutter and vacuum the floor
    Tidy away all the toys and clothes and games and books that are in the wrong places
    [/STRIKE]
    Level Two
    Strip and wash bedding and replace with clean.. vacuum and turn mattresses if needed
    Wash any other soft furnishings.. curtains etc
    Sort through a chest of drawers.. dispose of anything that is outgrown, worn out
    Level Three
    Dust and deweb
    Wipe over the bedframes and paintwork
    Binbag dance!
    Extras
    1. Wash windows and sills
    2. Wipe all the upstairs doors.. both sides!
    3. Sort through one box or drawer filled with miscellaneous gibble.. from any room.. it just needs it!!
    4. HHI
    FRIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIDAY! ~ Master bedroom and Landing
    Level One
    Declutter the floor!
    Vacuum the floors
    Level Two
    Strip and wash bedding and remake bed.. do you need the duvet back on yet?
    Clear the floordrobe!.. are there any summery things that are past their best that you can fling?
    Declutter and wipe the bedside tables... or whatever area you use as a dumping ground!
    Level Three
    Dust and deweb.. don't forget the bedframe and light fitting!
    Polish any glass bits.. table tops, lamps, mirrors etc
    Sort through a box of guff
    Extras
    1. wash any windows and sills
    2. binbag dance
    3. HHI.. and put it away!
    4. Wipe any grotty paintwork!
    :)Sometimes lurking, sometimes posting, but always flying:)
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    :D I will declutter my house and debts :D
  • Glass of wine anyone? A glass of red for me tonight, anyone else fancy a free glass

    SCD on accompanied by vino - I am on my own now and forever. Here on my own again. Still think OH is upto something as he hasn't been in touch at all this week or weekend. Probably with someone. Makes me feel rubbish and lonely. Why doesn't he want me anymore?

    Just spend all my spare time cleaning now to keep busy. Haven't been out again this weekend just like last weekend. This is how my life is now and feels how it is going to be forever


    Just so you know - my sister's first husband was a loser - she eventually saw the light and evicted him. Life was tough for a bit but she remarried last month - and she's found a real gem - he makes her so happy.

    Our favourite saying at Uni was As God made 'em so he matched 'em. You deserve better! Put you at the top of your priority list!:A
    :jFlylady and proud of it:j
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