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Good luck with your dress hunt KC! Haven't read back properly
but sounds like your Christmas went well - well done you
Hope festivities are nice and peaceful for you
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Lula and SE have been giving me lessons on how to buy nice clothes on ebay .... I must check out what they wrote. I've just been looking at per una and monsoon on ebay - nice stuff for £20! I think I'll do it that way. And there's a very posh charity shop on the other side of my town that I can look at
Definately good options! Didn't want to suggest the re-loved clothes route, as there are some (even here on MSE) who can't get their minds around this fabby option! -- Some of my best loved clothes are e-bay finds!
Do you have anyone who does alterations nearby? Sometimes the cost of a re-loved dress plus alterations is still bargainous! Back in the 'sometimes there' place, my (now grown) god-daughter often snapped up a bargain and used the "you know you love me" line to get her alterations done for free:rotfl:.4 YEARS 10 MONTHS DEBT FREE!!! (24 OCT 2016)(With heartfelt thanks to those who have gone before us & their indubitable generosity.)...and now I have a mortgage! (23 AUG 2021)Original Date - Sept 2041 New projection - Dec 2039 (reduced by 21 months)0 -
I like dress number 2 KC not keen on number 1 at all to be honest although it is difficult choosing clothes for someone you have never met :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
I agree number 3 is too fussy although parts of it are really nice the neckline would not suit me either too high but that probably doesn't apply to you.
Number 4 is too busy for me although I like black/white and I have busy black and white I think it is too big a pattern for the dress and that's why it is not grabbing me but I like the shape.
Ooh see what has happened since I went shopping with Souk I now have opinions on clothes
I agree you have plenty of time to find something just right
I have a wedding the last Saturday in April
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Good point about finding someone who can do alterations, RT - a seamstress, I suppose - what an old fashioned word

Hi DT! I still love no 2 as well, but thinking about it - its too eveningy - up on the train, wearing it all day, back on the train - that doesn't feel good.
http://www.johnlewis.com/144425/Style.aspx?sku=231031059
http://www.johnlewis.com/125942/Style.aspx?sku=230980846
These are the two I'm going to go for - JL returns policy is so generous, it'll be fine, and I have plenty of time to decide whether to change my mind.
Its been an education, today has - one of the things I've realised I must do is prepare for events better, so as not to stress myself out and get ill, and so as to put my best possible foot forward in the world - after all, I need to make some links to the local community next year, and find some new friends. And this is the kind of thing people do to prepare themselves - they check stuff out on clothes websites! I've literally never done it
I'm finally joining the 21st century :rotfl:
**waves at Cheery and DT as well**
EDIT - I've done it - I've ordered both of those above (one of them in two sizes
) and will return whatever I don't want. Still keeping an eye out on ebay for stuff I'm now watching as well. 2023: the year I get to buy a car0 -
Hey KC, just doing a quick catch up. Not had time to read back but like the idea of dress shopping. I love the Ted Baker, only thing I found with Ted Baker though is their sizing is really small. Have you considered Oasis for occasion wear. I think they have some lovely dresses, check out their website dresses are here http://www.oasis-stores.com/dresses/dept/fcp-category/categorylistSome days there aren't any trumpets, just lots of dragons. Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, I will try again tomorrow -- Mary Anne Radmacher0
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Oh I really like number one so much I would like one
but I have spent too much on clothes recently.
Number 2 is the high neck again which I know wouldn't suit me so I am prejudiced against it :rotfl:
Hope you really like one of them when they arrive
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Yes, one of my nephews, in his early 30s, is getting married in April - she's Polish, a professional, its in London. They both earn a lot, it will be quite smart. I'm going to dress "successful" - I *will* be dying my hair finally
- but I want to look right for me as well.
This is the one I really like, I think - no, I'm not sure, but this is it:
http://www.johnlewis.com/128265/Style.aspx?sku=230986364
Hi Karma,
oooooh love looking at all the pretty frocks people have come up with, but in my opinion, having met you, I think this is definitely the one for you. However, do take into consideration the new colour for your hair.
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Thats a huge compliment, Lula, thank you - I really love that dress! But I just can't see me wearing it all day, with the associated footwear.... I'll have to have a better basis for doing that than my current experience

**waves at the others** Hadn't looked at Oasis properly - I was getting a bit blurry, and decided to go for it anyway, since I can return and get a full refund with no problems. I've hardly bought any clothes for ages - and I *will* be prepared for this wedding, I will.
And I just popped online briefly before Three Men In Scotland or whatever its called, to say I just won an auction on ebay
I paid £6.61 (including postage) for a LBD from River Island, its really nice and it hangs loose from under the bust, not the waist
I'm very happy
tho I must also learn to wear it in a modern way. 2023: the year I get to buy a car0 -
And I just popped online briefly before Three Men In Scotland or whatever its called, to say I just won an auction on ebay
I paid £6.61 (including postage) for a LBD from River Island, its really nice and it hangs loose from under the bust, not the waist
I'm very happy
tho I must also learn to wear it in a modern way.
OK, I'll bite...what's the modern way of wearing dresses?"Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
"We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
"Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky." OMD 'Julia's Song'0 -
:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: Layers and leggings and whatnot! Sorry Z, I forget that blokes pop in here occasionally.
How you doing, did you have a good Christmas?2023: the year I get to buy a car0
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