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  • I agree KP, and she is a very proactive person. I am mega impressed with speed of stuff and glad the counselling is going ok. Be aware of feeling down a bit at first though.
    x
    Blackadder: Am I jumping the gun, Baldrick, or are the words 'I have a cunning plan' marching with ill-deserved confidence in the direction of this conversation?
    Still lurking around with a hope of some salvation:cool:
  • In_Search_Of_Me
    In_Search_Of_Me Posts: 10,634 Forumite
    Funny that he said the same and youre all right! Thankfully I have support, have had councelling before and know it gets worse before better but know that it helps so worth the pain for the gain! Day at home which has been nice. Neighbor popped in for a cuppa, did some kning and just made wine - halfway through the washing machine man came so just going to finish that and then watch the bbc drama at 9....anyone been watching it? Is very good!! Another nsd here!
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,636 Ambassador
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    Yes having been watching the dramma on BBC1~excellent if uncomfortable viewing.
    Must remember to tape Secret Millionaire.
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    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
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  • Morning all. Going to pick my dvd up from freecycler this am!! v. exciting! Then a bit of shopping and knitting again. One last batch of wine to make and then 3 lots on the go which should do Christmas! Finished my first xmas pressie (a scarf) and onto a bankie for Ferg which I'm crocheting...good to mix between the two as different bits of hands ache!!
    Hope oure all ok...
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  • In_Search_Of_Me
    In_Search_Of_Me Posts: 10,634 Forumite
    well so much t the dvd - it doesent work which is more than annoying as had dealings with woman before via local group so collected against my better judgemen and it skps..constantly and had to resort to laptop to finish it! Good thing was it was confessions of a shopaholic which just confirms that sometimes you cant beat the book plus she didnt have a lbm!! Am on he hunt for a our legged whiskered ting and if this has taught me one thing its what is important to me in a way that no other life experience has. On that profound note to bed I go!!
    Nerd no 109 Long haulers supporters DFW #1! Even in the darkest moments, love and hope are always possible.

  • In_Search_Of_Me
    In_Search_Of_Me Posts: 10,634 Forumite
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    Here is Isoke (african name for satisfying gift) who is just gorgeous...very affectionate, cute and playful...I am a happy bunny!!!
    Nerd no 109 Long haulers supporters DFW #1! Even in the darkest moments, love and hope are always possible.

  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,636 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Awwww she is so so cute :)
    What a gorgeous wee face :)
    Great name :)
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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • In_Search_Of_Me
    In_Search_Of_Me Posts: 10,634 Forumite
    yes exceptionally cute...alas lodger screamed when she saw her....thinks she looks like a rat and didnt think to tell me she hates kittens when we had the shall I get a cat discussion...
    Nerd no 109 Long haulers supporters DFW #1! Even in the darkest moments, love and hope are always possible.

  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,636 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Never mind the lodger.
    You enjoy :)
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • thanks beanie...people feel its a bit strange having rehomed 4 which I can understand but I dont pay for her (she is a gift in all sences) plus its 1 cat and I would never have split the others and they are happy with their new mummies. Lodger sat and had wine while I held her so something and called her a cat instead of rat by the end of the eve...only so much I can do..I asked re getting cat and only after I got one does she say not to so too late me thinks!
    Nerd no 109 Long haulers supporters DFW #1! Even in the darkest moments, love and hope are always possible.

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